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writes:Hi, I'm hoping for some advice from the guys (and the girls!) out there. My bf of 3 yrs has been away for 2 weeks with work. I want to show him how much I've missed him by giving him a sexy surprise, but am stuck for ideas...has anyone got any suggestions? We live apart, and our sex life has not been that great for the last few months as he's been snowed under with work. Thanks, agony aunts and uncles!
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reader, honeyamir  +, writes (17 May 2009):
u need 2 mentally prepare urself 4 wot is 2 cum.. u need 2 have a nice settin,g lite music, candles and satin sheets on bed or sofa if not bed.. then wear sumthin helikes and that he will compliment u with...
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reader, pure shade 5  +, writes (13 April 2009):
 1. set the mood (if u want it do be sexual then u have to make that clear to see)2. be prepared to make out with him3. be prepared for sex that night4. please him5. if he dont want to be sexual that night don't push him to it he might just want to drink eat sleep talk or kiss that night peacexoxoxo
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): i got a weird idea for a sexy surprise lol my gf did this for me after i came back from a iraq... she went out and bought tons of candles and put/lit them everywhere in the house turned off all the lights... and when i got home we had a few glasses of wine then we kissed some how it lead to sex... now i am happily married with a 3 month year old son idk... for a sexy surprise u just need a good atmosphere candles and wine are good to help create the mood of it then basically all u need is the right outfit... thats all i got so peace
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2009): Thanks for the advice so far. He normally initiates sex, so I'm a little nervous! Will let you know how it goes...
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reader, eddie  +, writes (12 April 2009):
 In my experience, guys like almost any attention. What they really like is to know you've been thinking about them and put some thought into planning. That makes a guy feel desired and as if he's king of the jungle. Remember, a lot of what makes sex great is in our heads.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2009): lol i say when you see him run up, jump off the floor into his arms without you're feet touching the ground to scare the living daylights outta him and smooch him...:p...
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (12 April 2009):
I'm an army wife and the first night he comes home you will be in your best underwear and have all this stuff planned and he will be KNACKERED and want to sit and watch tv and have a shower and then sleep.
So the first night, be prepared that a nice back rub after a nice shower may be all he wants.
The next morning... well now that is when things get interesting. Bring him breakfast in bed in your nicest nightie and then see what happens.
The next night, tie him to the bed and do everything you know how to. Go crazy and have fun!!
Good Luck!! xx
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