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*lackrose86
writes:hi im having a bit of a hard time atm....i have been with my husband for 8 years but married for not even 1 and i think i made a mistake marrying him i know its to late to change anything but since we got married he has become rude and very lazy! He doesn't work cause he cant (signed sick-pay) and i am a full time carer to our son who is downs and we also have a little girl.I have asked him to give it a break and move out for a little while but he has no where to go in our town cause his family don't live round here so he wont leave....i really don't know what to do any more im always round him and he is doing my nut in cause i feel like everything is my responsibility and he thinks changing a few nappies is the only thing he has to do to 'help' around the house.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2009): Do you still love him? Do you not want to be with him b/c don't love him, or b/c you can't live with him. If it you don't love him; just lay it out and he will have to find a place.If you do love him tell him the changes you need to be made to make it work (can he accept those changes if so) he changes, you love him great; if he does notThen you call it good.Good luck b/c the reality is break-ups suck regardless of what side you are on.
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