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*tar76
writes: I'm a good man!..with a extremly high sex drive!..lately,..my girl started rejecting me,..making me feel unwanted/rejected!...I don't want 2 step outside the relationship,..but I know another woman would love 2 hav her work load!..its driving our household 2 pieces!...also,..I believe a woman should always enbrace her man!..and theirs always a woman 2 take her place!...I love her!...but can't keep being sexlly frstrated!....MOD NOTE: IT SAYS YOU ARE FEMALE AND AMERICAN BUT I THINK THIS MAY NOT BE THE CASE.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): Get another GF. Her sex drive will only go down hill. I had one GF who had a high sex drive, and great in bed, and I picked another GF to marry, who was only moderately interested in sex (though prettier etc). She's now my wife and has no sex drive. I should have stuck it out with the other GF. Stay with people who share your sexual appetite.
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reader, Full moon temptress1 +, writes (13 April 2009):
You don't mention,the other parts of the relationship.Are you friends with each other aswell? Or is it just about the sex?If in other area they are good,take some of the workload off her,tidy up,or wash up after a meal,but don't stop when your getting what you want,show her you appreciate her.Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2009): Many women do not have very high sex drives. I would not take it personally if she rejects you sometimes, as you yourself have acknowledged that your sex drive is very high. Make sure that she understands that you are feeling unwanted, but also don't expect her to your every sexual urge. Maybe there are non-sexual ways she could show and you could accept her love.
If you value your relationship you won't cheat. If all you want is to satisfy your sex-drive, maybe you shouldn't be in a relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2009): Tell your girl what your needs are and what you expect from her. If she can't meet them then break up with her.
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