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writes:i am a male 28 yrs old and my wife is 26 we have a great son that is 3 the problems i have is that r sex life really suck well is not there hardly any more i would love to stay in this relationship but i can not take the once a mouth sex what should i do im on the edge
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2009): Wow. And your both young! A kid can impact on the sex life for sure, but only so much. Have you talked to her about it? Tell her that you love her so much and you want her much more than once a week. Tell her in a way that she'll feel loved and wanted.Try spoiling her a bit. Give her surprise massages, cuddle with her, run her a bath with some candles for her to relax. If that doesn't work, TALK TO HER!! she might not be aware. when your in the 'mood' and she is looking rather sexy to you, grab her passionately and kiss her! see what kind of reaction she has...if that doesn't work, or talking to her, maybe councelling. At that age, even with a kid, i would think you'd still want to be bouncing around like bunnies.
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reader, JustMeINFJ +, writes (12 April 2009):
It seems your relationship is in a rut. You don't mention any other relationship problems, so I'm assuming there aren't any. Therefore, it seems time to shake things up a bit. Life with a 3 year old is hectic and tiring. Do something different for your mate. Try pawning the little one off on a grandparent for a weekend. Then take your girl by the hand and light some candles together. Put on some relaxing music. Run a hot bubble bath. Touch her. Let her touch you. If she's distracted it will be difficult for her. Give her a mini-vacation from her life and you will be rewarded.
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