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writes:Please help me im so confused right now,im still mates with my ex bf, who sometimes i lv him and sometimes i hate him, he has a gf which he says he loves and she could be the one,But basically he tells me about it and also how shes going 2 buy him a car and how she bought him a mobile phone, and that how he may buy her a car,The other thing is when shes not around he flirts with me, and saying he wants 2 feel my boobs and that i want 2 suck his cock, and how i want it inside me, sometimes i don't no what 2 say 2 him when he says this, Then when shes around he does talk 2 me but not that much,people often say 2 me that he watches me when im in the same place as him, and we do still talk on the phone everyday.Can he really like her as much as he says when he says this 2 me?Or does he like both of us and wants us both?or is he trying 2 make me jealous and see how far he can go?Or does he still like me but wants 2 try different, my mate say hes in 2 me Please help am i right 2 be confused
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reader, Original shiraz! +, writes (12 April 2009):
i think that hes a knob trying to get the best of both worlds. This sort of guy isn't going to change any time soon so i suggest you cut all contact, you don't want or need this type of person in your life. I don't think he does love her 100% or else why would he behavior toward you in such a way? Net time he makes rull on advances and remarks set him straight, personally id tell him to bugger off but i know its harder for you as you have history, hes a very immature person that gets his kicks from messing with people he doesn't care who he hurts hes selfish and manipulative. Obviously hes telling you things to make you jealous but seriously you cant want this sort of guy in your life, id have sympathy for his poor gf, she seems oblivious to the bf she has and what he really is, one day she will see it though by then it might be too late who knows.. He may well be into you but he seems a player and so hes probably into a few girls. He has a gf, he really needs to sort himself out and stop toying with peoples emotions. I'd count yourself lucky that you have the option to walk away, take it and never look back.
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reader, JustMeINFJ  +, writes (12 April 2009):
He is not trying to make you jealous. He is taking advantage of his GF and you because he can. Ask him if his GF knows he talks to you this way. You deserve more respect than him treating you like a prostitute. Tell him. Then find a real man.
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