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writes:I can't trust my LD bf as much as I try. Is it me? or the relationship? The problem arrived when I caught him lying to me on several occasions. The most recent was a girl with whom he was flirting with and exchanging txt messages. I saw the picture of her on a bikini that she had sent him. I don't know if they went all the way, but he was replying back to her text, constantly.We are moving in together in a month, but I don't seem to get over this insident. I have told him how I feel and that I do not trust him; but he replies by simply saying: "trust me" and "I did not do anything with that girl". How could I? how can I trust him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2009): That is not a good sign. I don't think it is you as you caught him lying on several occasions. If he lies about little things, what else could he be lying about. The only way you can trust him is that his actions match up with what he has said to you. I dumped my ex for cheating and he said something like that where I confronted him about the picture of him with his girlfriend. He said that it was his best friend and that I needed to just trust him for the relationship to work. Truth is that he is a liar and cheater because he is the one cheating on his girlfriend with other girls, and I turned out to be the other woman when I did not want to be playing that role. So I think you have reason to not trust him, and if you can't then don't move in with him. Your relationship with him does not sound like you are happy and that you are worried that he is not doing what he says. This is hard, but if something is telling you that something is not adding up, I would really trust it.
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