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female
age
30-35,
*oniaa
writes: okay so i recently found out that im bi and like gurls and i have a girlfriend and we really like each other but she still classifies her self straight but yet she says really like me now the problem is she wants to please me all the time she has gave me full body massage and. . . . . other stuff but as soon as i try to please her its like she freezes or gets scared....... and i want her to feel as good as i do when she pleases me so 1 what can i do to get her comfy around me2wat will make her get so horny she wont b scared nd 3 how can i be passionate when it comes time for me to please her.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2009): tell her that you enjoy what she does for you but, you feel cheated when she will not let you please her in the same way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2009): Maybe she loves you in a different way, but doesn't want to lose you.
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female
reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (12 April 2009):
You just have to give her time and take it really slowly.
It sounds like she is not quite sure about her sexuality yet.
Start with just a shoulder rub and hugs, mix it in with girly stuff like facials so there is no pressure. Then introduce kissing with it and go for full back rubs and let your hands wander a bit.
You'll have to be really patient and although you have made your mind up about liking girls early on, many people find it's just a phase so don't hope for too much.
Good Luck!! xx
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