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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My former best friend, turned girlfriend of 3 months dumped me two months ago. Since then we haven't spoken and have just engaged in nasty text message arguments saying we hate each other. Now she seems to want to be my friend again. I quite miss her. What should I do?
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reader, growing up  +, writes (13 April 2009):
have a real heart to heart with her resolve the anger and ask qs.. after make the decision if you can and want to be her friend.
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (13 April 2009):
 If you really feel that the ugliness is behind you, then go for a friendship. But there is nothing wrong with letting things end. People come and go in our lives, it's a cycle, and sometimes hanging onto someone can damage a relationship more than help it.
It sounds though like you both were venting and have gotten things out of your system. Try the friendship again, but start casual. don't expect things to be exactly the same as they were right off the get-go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): Forgive each other. Forget the other's wrong doings. Promise yourself what is necessary to keep you happy in a friendship/relationship, i.e.: always treat others with respect, etc.
Both agree to what relationship you want then do the right thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): If you quite miss her in a friend way, then why shouldn't you be friends? If you quite miss her in a romantic way, then give yourself more time to get over her.
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reader, lah mouw +, writes (13 April 2009):
 Quite simply, I think you should do what you think is best and feels right...
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