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writes:Hi, I am a 35 years old married person with one 7 years old child. I am very much dissatisfied with my wife's behaviour. I don't have any friends. So I started online chatting. I am chatting with a married girl of 25 years old with one 2 year old baby. We both like chatting with each other. We have been chatting from last 6-7 months. We chat every day, send mails etc. I understand that I love her and I have revealed the same thing to her on Valentine's day. But I don't know whether she loves me or not. She has only replied that how she can't love me as she is married. I have told her everything about me. Now I don't understand whether she really loves me or she is just doing timepass with me. Please guide me whether she loves me or not and shall I continue relationship with her? Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (13 April 2009):
 "Please guide me whether she loves me or not and shall I continue relationship with her?"
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): "I am very much dissatisfied with my wife's behaviour."you are doing the wrong thing with this OW, having an emotional affair with her, yet you are dissatisfied with your wife's behaviour. Why? What do you expect from this MW, you are married, she is too. Both are "cheating" your spouses. Both are wrong.Why are you not working to fix your marriage with your wife. You have 1 child, what do you want to do? Run away with your online married woman????? You are playing with fire and you will get burnt.
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reader, JustMeINFJ +, writes (12 April 2009):
You must remember that online chatting is NOT a real relationship! You have each likely been intimate with each other. You seem to be craving intimacy because it is lacking in your relationship. Your online "friend" probably needs the same thing. Your question really is whether or not you should continue the online relationship. It is not a real relationship. You decide. Do you want real or fantasy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2009): She is married. No doubt she is having more trouble breaking her vows than you are. It seems to me you have both found common ground in that you are both unsatisfied with your marriages [no woman that chats with a guy every day for 7 months is satisfied with her husband], but she is more devout in sticking to her vows. This devoutness may be final and uncompromising. You have to face that.What is the nature of the everyday chats? any flirting or related stuff like that? Has she ever reciprocated any kind of flirt or professed feelings? I mean, you would know best.anyway, if you love her, then any form of bond is better than nothing. Remember that.
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