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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Well, there's a guy at school, and he's my best friend. He sees me as nothing more than a buddy, but I see him as the most amazing, funny, and hottest guy in the whole school. Were really close and were always there for each other, but everyone tells me we're too close as friends to have a serious relationship.but there's more...I may like him, but not as much as a different guy I'm in love with but will never ever ever have. No really, it's impossible... Hes 30 years old.... And lives in another country over seas. IM ONLY 14!! I talk about him every chance I get, I'm sewing a stuffed bunny to look like him- heck, I even drew his hair and eyes on every kitten picture on my calander. This all includes sexual fantasies, and dreams of being able to live in his closest and make him coffee in the morning.Im so obsessed that even my friends are starting to fall in love with him. ARGH! He completely pulls me away from the guy at my school. Not to mention that I helped the guy in my class catch the girl of his dreams even when i was literally pulling my hair out in envy!!!!! I set them up and I am now ironically called "the love gurru"! D:I'm stuck between a guy that I'm insanely in love with, and another guy that doesnt realize im falling for him.I'm confused and angry. WHY MUST MY INTEREST IN MEN BE SO STRAAAAANNNGGE?!??!
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reader, StuartObsessed +, writes (12 April 2009):
Well, maybe this 30 year old is just an idol to you? Like a respected role model that you are mistaking as a lover? You are very obsessed, and were both very alike actually.This guy at your school seems nice, and all relationships should be built on a foundation of trust, loyalty, love, and respect, so if you start out as friends, your partnership /should/ last.Well, get him alone long enough to talk to him.Start with something like, "Were best friends right?then, "have you ever thought of being more than just... friends? maybe go out sometime? Maybe itll work out?"Whatever he answers- you can't prevent. Go with the flow, you have years ahead of you full of all sorts of chances. C:
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reader, Specter +, writes (12 April 2009):
Well I say go for the guy in your school because the other guy to far away and he twice your age the guy in your school Is good for u try to do something that he like or ask him out at lunch or when he alone most likely he say yes. What u need to do is say his name and say I know we been friends for a long time but I like to go out with u because I want u in my life more and I dream of u with me
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