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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid, I am so tired of dating. I have been out on multiple dates however I have had no luck. I finally found someone I really like. He is all that I was looking for. I am a go getter, so when I see something I like am not afraid to go get it. He told me he was a work-aholic. However, In the beginning we spent hours on the phone. Then the calls started fading. It went from 1 hour on the phone daily to 1 call a week. Its been two weeks and he hasn't returned my calls or text. Because of his lack of response, I sent him a text asking him if he was still interested, I sent this text twice because he didn't respond right away. I spoke to him one day and he said he was still interested but he could not spoil me with his time. I thought this was weird because in the beginning we spoke constantly on the phone. I think the conversation may have turned him off because I haven't heard from him in two weeks. Now, I met this guy through a dating services so I know its possible that he maybe seeing someone else. Also, he did mention to me that he was in a relationship for 4 years and its only been 1 year since they broke up. I'm trying not to assume the worse. I really want to be with this man, is there anything I can do to get him back? I am trying so hard not to call him or text him. I was told if a man wants to be with you he will. Please give me some advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2009): Don't chase him. Don't waste your time ... Though you hit it off in the beginning - his actions tell you he is not interested in the way you would prefer so all you will be doing his inflicting unnecessary pain on yourself. It sucks b/c the more somebody doesn't give you what you want the more you need it. But trust me somebody else will ... (no one person is better than another) but we all prefer different things. Maybe he prefers somebody more than you (though not better). Find somebody who prefers you ;)
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