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I got way too rough, now what?

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Question - (12 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 April 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *omo111213 writes:

I got too rough in bed, and I'm not sure what to expect from her now. Well, one day when I was having sex with my partner, she asked me to go rough, and I did, because she said she liked rough sex.But after 20 minutes, she wasn't having as many orgasms as before, so I went a little harder, and then she did have some orgasms, then I don't know what got over me, and I pushed in three times, (really hard) before she was crying, and saying that it hurt, and I wanted to know if she would keep bleeding when having sex, or if we should stop, or if she should go to the doctor, or what.

Details, in case you need to know;8.5 inch(not erect)10 inch(erect)and a girth of 5.5 inches.

She was lying on her side, me on top.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2009):

The average woman is only about 6 and a half inches deep so as a larger guy you need to be careful in future.

I would take her to the doctors to get things checked out as a just in case but I'm sure she'll heal. You just stretched her a little too far.

Your main worry is how this effected her emotionally, she may feel embarrassed and her trust in you sexually may have been shaken. You need to take it slow for a while, don't be too dominant in the bedroom. Dont go for the ravage her approach, she needs to know how much you love her, lots of foreplay with tender kisses! She needs to feel in control of things for a little while. Her on top will work best, she can control depth and speed.

You just need to make her loved! give her time to heal emotionally, the body will fix it's self.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (12 April 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntIf this is real, and she is bleeding then yes she should go to the doctors!

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