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writes:i'm 13 and currently in a relationship for about for months, i love her and she loves me. is there anyway to move my relationship on or liven it up??? as it has got a bit boring, btw she is a bit shy but mostly not. look forward to your feedback
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for all the reponses will try some off them and see how it goes
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reader, lah mouw  +, writes (13 April 2009):
 My suggestion is if you hang out with her on a daily basis stop. It's always way more fun seeing your boyfriend or girlfriend for the first time after it's been a couple days. When you guys hang out go somewhere have fun! I'm not going to suggest anything sexual. You're only 13. Quite frankly you kids don't need to be doing anything more lively than being alive and well for each other... haha.
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reader, carljohnson91 +, writes (13 April 2009):
Liven it up? Have you even held hands yet? I doubt for a (sensible) 13 year old it could really get that much more exciting.. Of course I'm joking but apart from seeing the latest blockbusters or binging on pizza while watching Eastenders your choices are limited! Too young to drink and certainly too young for sex.. Then again at your age love is cute so you really shouldn't need to liven it up that much!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks yes i have snogged her wat i mean is tht we have stepped into a routine and its becoming old. but dont worry Specter sex isnt on my mind. is there a way to liven tht up????
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reader, Original shiraz! +, writes (12 April 2009):
Everyone gets past that first few dates experiance and they fall into a routine and unless you add variety and keep it motivated it well start to get boring. It takes two, good onyou for giving it the effort. Try doing more things together, treat her to flowers something that will mean a lot, spending more times and making her happy and vice versa. At 13 your limitied but there are plenty of ways to get the spark back, talk to her and see some of her ideas, work together rather than as seperate.
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reader, Specter +, writes (12 April 2009):
Am 13 to I would hold hands and maybe kiss her more now on no sex got that No sex but I would stay with her long and maybe meet her someone where for a lunch I do I go to the park and set it up and call her but call her first and surprise her good luck lover
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2009): maybe you could go out more to different places. have you snogged yet? depends what you mean by liven it up!?
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