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female
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anonymous
writes:i cannot take this any more. me and my ex broke up at the end of January. he has a girlfriend now and i am talking to someone. When he found out i was talking to someone he said something to me and said he's still in love with me. he said he doesn't even like his girlfriend. last night he came over and i tried to talk to him. i mean i wouldn't go back with him now cuz i have something going on and he still has a girlfriend.. the talk didn't go so great though so he left and was going to hang out with his friends. i called him and his girlfriend picked up his phone.. i don't know what to do. throughout this whole time I've been in love with him still.. and its hurting so much. i know i should just keep trying to move on but its really hard.. i mean I've been trying for 3 months and i still can't.. what should i do? he's probably not going to talk to me evr again..
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2009): Don't worry about it because really its good to know his number so that you can ignore his calls and texts :]
Don't worry there will be some slip ups but just tell a close friend what you are doing [ someone u can trust extremly and unconditionally] and they can help steer you and pick you up when you slipped up a little bit.
just don't worry about it and throw yourself into your school work and some activites at school to so you can broaden your friend circle and improve your grades :] it worked for me very well and good luck!!
love, A.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much :) this helped me a lot and i will try my hardest. but there's a problem.. i deleted his number but i still know it.. like i deleted it this morning and then i texted him.. i couldn't stop myself... but i will try even harder. thanks so much i appreciate it. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2009): Best thing you can do for yourself is to get over him.Now for this week you need to wean yourself off of this guy but, this is the week where you are allowed to be emotional so rent movies, eat chocolate, cry, write in your diary, talk to someone very close to you, and just get it all out in the open to yourself. But slowly you must first throw out everything he has given to you or anything that meant something to both of you. Now don't go over board with throwing things out but clean out your room and maybe arrange your things in a new and fresh way for the new future you. you must also delete his number, aim, icq, myspace, facebook, or whatever. If you keep trying to get back with him you will just get more heart, confused, and depressed and honey we don't want that. trust me i have been in your position. the next 2 weeks you need to get out with your friends and buy yourself a new outfit. Or anything new just something that makes you feel confident and beautiful. So get out there and have fun but at the same time keep getting rid of things that remind you of him like if you guys had a favorite place to go or any places you have been with this guy you must go there with someone or by yourself. You need to make new and better memories there after you pretty much do the "redo" you must do it a couple times more over the next few weeks and even months. But the number one rule is do not call him, do not text him, no messaging, no anything. let him try to talk to you but just delete them/ ignore them because you do not need more heart ache so girl get out there and rent some good movies for this week and buy some chocolate because this week is the last week that you will be crying over this fool. remember it is him who messed things up and he could have fixed it but he didn't so get on with your life!! Good Luck,3 A.
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