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writes:I'm very confused about this guy called Will! I used to be so certain that Luke was the one i loved but things have changed a bit and Will and I have been talking so much more! All of our conversations are so sexual and funny and odd and he makes me laugh so much. We have loads in common and I really like him but I don't know how he feels about me and I don't know how to ask. I used to like him and things just didnt happen cos he wasn't at all keen although we didn't talk at all back then. Nothing is happening with Luke and I'm just so confused. They are boh amazing but I don't know who I like more or who I have a better chance with! I don't want to be perceived as even more of a whore either for my feelings towards different guys changing all the time. what do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah i narrowed it down to 2.me and tom would never happen and i'm not that attracted to him, i just thinks he's fit and he's more of a good mate. i'm pretty close to luke and will, its just me and will have started to get closer recently.luke knows how i feel and just wants to be good mates for the moment, whereas i haven't told will because well he thinks i like luke and also i don't know how he'd react. thanks for the advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): Yay! You have shortened your choices down to two now! http://www.dearcupid.org/question/who-should-i-choose-t-l-or-w.html
Why don't you draw a list of all the positives and negatives for each one of these boys. Like what do you like most about them, and what you don't like on each of them. Then you will know from your heart which one you have better chance with. Then you stick with him. That way your friends will say that you are a faithful girl. Yay!
Good luck!
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reader, Candy_Cake_Mush  +, writes (13 April 2009):
hmm... i say Will since he seems o be repaying the attention that you are giving to him, ya know. Luke doesn't seem as close to you as Will is.
But then again, you are young and don't have to be tied down. that doesn't mean hook up with every decent looking guy you see, but you could still flirt around and play the field before any decision making.
But if you want a serious relationship now, think which one you have more fun with, who gives you butterflies, and who you could talk to easiest, and that should be the guy you choose.
Best of luck to you!!!
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