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writes:When you have "the talk" and are now girlfriend and boyfriend - exclusively, what should change between the two of you from when it was just 'dating'I know there is the obvious - no dating other people etc and commitment to that person but i mean number of times you see each other. Should contact increase and times you see them?Sex would be on the cards too.Is there anything else?What are the main differences in being bf/gf compared to just casually dating? Reply to this Question
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reader, Niema.x  +, writes (12 April 2009):
 itl come naturally stop owrrrying and wanting to plan things. Youl know when you need to see eachtoher and talk etc. Just go with the flow and good luck :D xxxx
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (12 April 2009):
I would say to keep it exactly the same. As your feelings increase then you'll want to see each other more.
People have this big thing about relationships changing and being more serious and boring when you get serious.
It shouldn't be like that. It should be about having fun and being in love and not changing.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Original shiraz! +, writes (12 April 2009):
you get to know the person more and you become used to you both as one, its a whole new life to the dating scene its a really big step forward and you should enjoy it for what it is. There is no right or wrong way about how you change it should come naturally where you fall into a pattern but obviously still keeping that 'dating feeling' alive, as if you loose that you enter a routine which can bore you end up sending you separate ways. Keep things motivated and try your hardest to keep the happy atmosphere that every new couple begins with.Contact should increase but keep it well balanced, everyone needs personal space, if that gets invaded then things go bad. Time you see them should also become more frequent, it doesn't need to be planned it should just occur off the mark. The main differences are more time together, obviously different levels of interaction!, finding out more about each other, meeting the families, taking breaks enjoying occasions the list goes on, its so different to the dating stage but it will come naturally so don't fret if somethings missing it doesn't all have to be included.
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