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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and i met while working with each other and still currently do. We have been together for a little over a year now. We are both 21 years old and this is the longest relationship we have both ever been in. I think that our relationship is awesome and we plan on spending the rest of our lives together. Recently though i haven't felt as if he is as interested in me as he used to be. He doesn't seem to want to be as affectionate and doesn't want to spend as much time together as we used to. I always feel like im the one that suggest if we should hang out. Its making me feel very insecure like he has lost complete interest in me. but when i ask he just says that he thinks that its because we have been together for awhile now and he really doesnt think he is acting different at all. But im feeling insecure and unwanted. I've mentioned it to him several times but it doesn't seem to change anything. I love what we have together and i really want us to work out. but i want to know for sure that he is still interested in me. after all if we plan on spending the rest of our lives together its only been a year how can he be so uninterested already?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2009): I think there is a push/pull thing. I don't believe in playing "games" to keep somebody interested in us... So don't but maybe you could focus on other things (so that he sees you don't view him as to begin/end all. That may may force to him to see you the way he should as a valued partner. Good luck and hang in there.
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