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writes:ok so I've known him for 4 years now. her for 2 maybe. I actually met her because of him. they've been going out since then but broke up just recently. all through those 2 years I think I may had some small on and off feelings for her. now that they're not together, I spent like almost a week straight with her and her friends and haven't talked to him since they broke up. I think those feelings have came back but now stronger than ever before. Ive been at her side since the break up and have pretty much everything I could to show her Im there for her, but also hiding my real feelings at the same time. I've been hardly able to function just thinking about her and how hurt she feels and all, and when I'm with her I wish she would kinda show that she knows that I'm always gonna be there for her, because at the moment she really does feel like the closest friend I have right now. I don't if I want to tell her how I feel. her ex is also one of my best friends and I don't want to lose a friend because of all this. I just need your guys input. thanks
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reader, Joexy  +, writes (12 April 2009):
 You are not wrong in loving her. But what you should is try to have a talk with your friend about her, since you two are best friends for long then his not going to slap you of it. How you will do it is; just have date with him try make him feel extremely great and happy by going out to cool place, buy him drinks, and chat him up just make him feel happy and free then just slowly line the words in his ear "its like am in love with....... Although his mood will change instantly but not going to be too harsh, dont repeat the words just try to calm him and chat him once again. After you leave him go straight to the girl and open up at once. Goodluck...
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reader, BLONDII3  +, writes (12 April 2009):
 Look, i think you should maybe talk to your friend about it. After all what can he say ? They broke up, his ties with her have been cut ,shes no longer his.. so i say talk to him about it. I know its difficult but if hes a good mate, thats worth keeping then he'll accept that you like her. If hes Oka with it tell her how you feel.. and if he doesnt go for it anyway ! If hes gunna fall out with you over that.. then hes not a mate worth keeping! Good luck xxxxx 3
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