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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi.. there's this guy that i've had something going on with, on and off for a while .. a year or two? and i mean 'going on'as in physically.. he was my first kiss and i was really into him BUT we never dated. he never asked. i never asked. and the other catch is.. we both had and curerntly have partners.. we dont meet up occasionally.. but when we do.. we do things that we shouldnt, including holding hands and holds me from behind on the train ...things that not what "booty calls" really do. i used to like him alot emotionally, but recently when i met up with him my emotioanl attachment died down a little bit but i still feel like there's something lingering. and im not sure what we are.. it's like a temporary boyfriend for a day. don't get me wrong, i love my boyfriend as we have been going out for a year and a bit and i dont mean to do things behind his back but i can't really help it.. to be honest this "friend" is quite attractive and i know that in looks i wouldnt be good enough for him. yet his girlfriend is quite pretty, so i dont really understand why he still would still initiate to have sex with me.. im a person that would only start something if they hint or start it.. can someone please tell me what i really am to him? oh and there was a period of time where somethign happened and i decided it would be best to stop talking so we avoided each other for half a year or so.. and it was in this half a year or so i became really attached to my boyfriend.. but recently he contacted me asking how things have been etc and we soon met up and yeah.. everything just happens. so basically.. what am i to him and what should i do about itthankyous
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reader, always.curious.ray.  +, writes (28 October 2008):
 i have to agree with the one below me it sounds like a friends with benefits.ive been in one of those realtionships...its like youre in an actual realtionship but not.its not considered cheating.
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reader, Serenity1 +, writes (28 October 2008):
 it sounds as though you may be liking this guy more than you are putting on...obviously if you and him go for months without any contact your just sex buddies that both have partners...so i would say you ar FWB's...friends with benefits
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