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writes:I need advice Im goin out of my mind. Ok, theres this guy who I was seeing who at the time I didnt really like. I mean I fancied him loads and even wondered if I was falling in love with him. But in the back of my mind, I knew we werent right. He was a bit younger than me, and was very difficult to talk to. Im quite loud and found that I embaressed him easily. The sex between us was amazing tho. So he soon split with me and hes now with someone else. And for sum reason Im gutted, absolutely heartbroken. I found pics on facebook of him and his new gf and was I physically sick. My friends say hes out of my league anyway and I can do way, way better than him, adn I know I can, so why am I feeling like this? Also Im bordering on becoming a bunny boiler, spying on him and driving past his home. WHY tho, why am I doing this when I know he;s not right for me anyway. PLEASE HELP me Im goin out of my mind and wondering whether Im actually losing the plot
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reader, Anonny +, writes (9 November 2008):
I think when we suddenly lose the one we love we all turn into a bit of a stalker - wondering where they are, what they are doing now etc and yes I have even driven past an ex's house in the hope of bumping into him again!! - I think as long as you don't do anything extreme you'll be okay!I myself have fallen for the wrong type at the moment and know deep down we will never be together! - He's a bad lad (has even been in jail) and I know he uses and treats me badly too - but for some reason I just adore him and can't get him out of my head.Like someone said before - we want the one's we can't have!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2008): I'm currently going through something similar. I dated a man for 1 1/2 years who really wasn't right for me. I felt a certain chemistry, but knew he wasn't "the one". He broke up with me 3 weeks ago and I can't stop thinking about him. He's in my every waking moment, and I cry every day. I've done a lot of self-examination and think it's the old saying that we always want what we can't have. My guess is you're feeling the same thing. Just remember that you're better off grieving now than winding up with someone who isn't right for you and having even greater regrets in the future. Stay busy, live your life and the right guy will come along.
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