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*innie1234
writes:my best friend who is a guy says he has feelings for me. weve been friends for 8 months and we talk and txt all the time. we enjoy each other's company. when he said that he has feelings for me, i thort it would ruin our friendship because his ex is my good friend. (their relationship is on and off) i cant look at her anymore. he told her that he has feelings for me and shes really upset and i feel like she will hate me for talkin to him too much. (we use to have late night talks) He says that he cant be a friend to me anymore. but i feel really to close to him and i begged him not to keep his distance. ( i cant believe i did that) He said it wont be the same anymore. but i really like him as i friend and i dont want him to think that i cant live without him ( and that im desperate) because i really care about him and my heart goes out to him. i love him as a friend.i cried to him because i didnt want him to leave. he said that he didnt realise that some1 cared for him so much. Recently, It was a very hard decison but im wiv him nw. Weve been going out 4 a while. His ex has an idea but she jus thinks that we are jus very close friends. she tells me that she misses him loads and she wants to be with him. but it feels like ive stole him away from her and she doesnt even knw! i do not know what to do. Please help! i dont know if i love him enough because ive never been in a relationship b4. She told me that if i do end up liking him, she told me that i should think about myself and not how she feels. She doesnt mean it really. i feel so bad. how do i know if he's worth it? im confused because i hav mixed feelings about him. he told me tht he dont hav feelings 4 her anymore but then he says that he sometimes misses her she broke up 2 weeks ago n im with him nw :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2008): The answer to this question is obvious, look elsewhere. You are just going to complicate things between you and your close friend. For the most part people that fall into the whole I like my friend trap never come away from it happy
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