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Frustrated at my akwardness and confused about what to do!

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Question - (28 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 28 October 2008)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

This weekend I went away on vacation and randomly met up with a friend of 2 years for drinks at night. We always considered each other just friends and never thought of it as more, until this trip. Somehow, we both got drunk and confessed that we had feelings for each other! We had the most amazing 2 night stand. She just broke up with her boyfriend of a year, 2 months ago. Alcohol was involved the first night, the second night we were sober. Both nights were amazing.

The question is, now that I am back home, 5 hours away from her, do I try to maintain some sort of relationship or just keep it as a weekend romp? I really like her and I think she likes me, but a relationship would be hard as we are so far apart. I am extremely bummed out that we had to part after those magical 2 nights.

By the way, the sexual energy was through the roof, but outside the bedroom it became a bit awkward as I forgot she was my friend and started to get intimidated by the fact that she might really like me!!

Frustrated (at my akwardness) and confused about what to do!

Thank you so much!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2008):

you should definitely keep in touch with her. it would hurt her if you didn't.

If either of you could plan on moving closer, then keep the relationship going. If not, you should at least let her know how much it meant to you.

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