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writes:Hey, my partner and I have been together for 3 years and living together for 2. We have a 10 month old baby son and things have been tough over the past few months due to money problems etc. He has recently come home after training in London for 12 weeks for a new job and things have been slightly strained for us in that time. We had a big row 2 days ago and he told me that he was leaving me. Things came to a head before he left and he punched me on the jaw. I waited until he had left the house and then locked up and came down to my Mum and Dad's house. I've been told to stay away from him and went to a solicitor yesterday who advised me to take out a non-molestation order and occupation order in court to prevent him from harming me again or living in the house as the mortgage and deeds are in my sole name.I feel as if I have been railroaded into this decision and met with him today. I feel he is totally remorseful for what happened at the weekend and need some advice from other sources. Can anyone help me out pls? My Mum was with me today when I met him and she says there is no way I will be living with him again until he has done something about his temper and been to anger management classes or proven that he is worthy to live with again...
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2008): your mom is terrific!She understands the situation better than you do.I am in a relationship where its been like a cycle.The honeymoon phase,the abusive phase and then the honeymoon phase.I keep hoping for him to change only to be beaten up again for silly reasons.STAY AWAY FROM THE PSYCHO!!.you have a loving family. Be thankful for them.your child deserves better
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