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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend just wants to see me as and when it suits him and if there is nothing else better to do. We dont share many similar interests except watching tv. He drinks a lot and I don't so any time he goes out he doesn't want me in his company cos I tend to say he's had enough. People even think I'm single cos we are never out together. He doesn't want me going on holidays with him cos I don't do adventurous things which he wants to do - so he prefers to go with his mates. I'm fed up, I love him dearly and want to go everywhere with him but our different interests are getting to us both. He booked to go to alton towers with a crowd of people and never even invited me. I think he is selfish cos he won't compromise much where I try my best at all times. Should we part and maybe I'll find someone more compatible to me who can share quality time with. He is my first love but I guess I feel I deserve better.... Someone who actually wants to make time for me and go places etc, I find it hard to break up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2008): a sign of a good relationship is that it starts with compatibility and chemistry,that's what i've found other wise what sets them apart from the rest? your first love should feel elating and he obviously doesn't make you feel GOOD he sure doesnt love you he doesnt even make an effort so i advise 100% START OVER yes it will be a low but you have to face it full-on because you'll feel so much better a week a month later and youw ill feel more confident have a less likliness to be attatched etc. without a doubt it is a mistake and you do deserve better, when you get into a happy relationship with someone who loves and worships you, you will experience your real first love, take care xx
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reader, Dr. Reality Check +, writes (28 October 2008):
 You DO deserve better. Breaking up will be hard, but since it seems like this guy doesn't want you to be part of the majority of his life (TV is not a life), you need to break it off with him. You WILL find someone much better.
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