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anonymous
writes:I had this boyfriend a few months ago who i was crazy about. He seemed perfect. He was so sweet and nice and everyone said we were the perfect couple. Then one day out of the blue he broke up with me. I found out later that he had broken up with me for some slut in the grade below me. While he hadn't technically been cheating on me, he'd been 'hanging out' with this girl for a couple weeks before we broke up. I was finally starting to get over him when him and his new girlfriend broke up because she'd been cheating on him. Karma's a bitch, right? Then all of the suddent he started flirting with me again. He never even talked to me while he was going out with the other girl. Now he's either following me everywhere and flirting constantly with me, or he's completely ignoring me. I don't get it! I asked him about it and he said that he still liked me, but didn't want to be in a relationship right now. Then today I found out he's dating some other girl. Is he just playing with my emotions or is it something else? I'm so confused by all of this! I just want to be over him, but I was so crazy about him that it's really hard too!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2008): I'm mad because you don't even know me but you're passing judgement of me. What does that say about you? All I wanted was to know is what this guy was doing. Is he just playing with my emotions or does he still like me. That's all, but you started judging me and I don't appreciate that. You're entitled to your own opinion, but you don't know anything about me to form an opinion of. I paragraph on a computer isn't enough to know someone. I really am sorry if I offended you in anyway, but I hate when people do that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2008): I never said what she's doing is wrong. I was simply just using a word to describe her and you were angered by it. Sorry. Next time I'll just use the word bitch and everything will just be peachy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2008): I'd never call her a slut to her face, I'm not that rude, but everyone thinks that about someone at some point because they act like they are. It's human nature. Everybody has things in their past that they have to deal with, but not everyone decides to start sleeping around to deal with it. That was her choice. And she didn't walk away from him. He caught her sleeping with some other guy and broke up with her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2008): I'm 15(16 in a couple months) so i'm definately not in junior high. I'm actually a sophomore and she's a freshman. The only reason i'm calling her a slut is because she kinda is. She goes out with guys just to have someone to sleep with. She's only 14 and she's slept with about half the school. I know it's kind of a degrading word to use, but what she's doing is degrading so i think it fits her well!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2008): Hes just playing with your head... Forget him. Sorry. Hes a jerk, find another guy, i'm sure you can. :D
And I don't see why people always freak out when a 13/15 year old calls someone a slut/whore. If she cheats, then she probably is.
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