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writes:Ok, well, about 3 months ago, My bf and I broke up. So, that makes him My ex. He just decided 1 day that he didn't want to date anymore, and we have been together 3 years and never had this problem. I'm not too crazy about the friends he hangs with, cause IV had bad past experience with them. He also said he still loved me, but wasn't in love with me any more. Is it possible for someone to fall out of love, basically overnight, after 3 years, and for no apparent reason. He acts like it doesn't even bother him, and this has hurt me worse, than when My mom passed away. Does he really not care, or is he denying it? And he says if we get back together, it will be a while. Is he just not ready to depart from his friends? THX for any advise!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2008): thats EXACTLY my problem, although me and my ex were only dating for up to a year. He had fallen out of love for me, and he said he'd only been feeling like it for a week but I reckon it went on for at least a month. I go out of my mind trying to think of the reasons of why he went wrong and I always blame myself. He said we can be friends and we have had some nice conversations but i don't think he cares for me anymore. I know loads of people are going to be telling you to move on from this guy, because thats always said, and that we should never hope they come back. And they have a point i guess, we may just end up hurting ourselves. I don't think you should wait around for this guy, i try to realise this for myself. If he doesn't want you, chances are he never will again, but one day i bet you he'll realise what he threw away
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (28 October 2008):
I think you are still hoping this will all get better some how.
He had probably been thinking about splitting up for a while before he did it.
You just have to cut him off and decide to try and move on.
Once you do that and stop hoping that he'll come back and everything will be magically better then things will improve.
Good Luck!! xx
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