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writes: I've known a girl for a few years but we've only started speaking to each other properly in the past few months. It started off with flirting on Facebook and then we swapped numbers. We get on really well and joke around with each other a lot. She's often telling me how funny I am and that she "loves me". Anyway, as we've started to flirt more and more frequently, I asked her if she wanted to come to a gig tomorrow. I asked her last Friday. She said she didn't know who the band are but said she'd check them out. She then invited me round her house that night. I've never hung out with her before this point. We sat in her room, drank, smoked and talked. She looked HOT and was being very flirty and we were both being quite playful. She then showed me her sex toys and started saying things like "I've not used these yet..." to me. I didn't really think anything of it because I thought if she was interested she'd not be so upfront about it. I assumed she was joking.Then by about 2am we were falling asleep on each other. I had my arm round her and she was asleep on my shoulder. I thought it'd be best I left at that point so she could get into bed properly. I figured it was the right thing to do. I had to hold back so much from making a move on her. Looking back, I don't know why I didn't make more effort. I guess I was worried that I might have been misreading the signals because I like her. Anyway, the next day, she text me and said thanks for going round. She then said that we should have a mental night sometime. I agreed and reminded her of the gig I asked her about the night before. She didn't respond. Then last night, we were texting each other again and she asked me if I was going out to the usual place we go to. I told her I would be there DJing. I didn't suggest she come along or anything - her reply was "I have too much work. Boo hoo. x" Not sure why she asked me if I was going! Seeing as the gig is tomorrow, I sent her a text tonight to ask her again. It was worded in a friendly and flirty way. Not serious at all so if she rejects me I won't have made myself look foolish. At the time of writing I've not heard anything back and part of me reckons I won't. I just don't get it. One minute she seems interested but then the next she seems to back right off. Am I making a fool of myself? Is she just being really flirty with no intent?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2008): I dont think you are making a fool out of yourself. I think she likes you and she don't want to tell you because you may turn her down.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2008): Well all I can say is that she sounds like a prick teaser. Anyone who shows someone their sex toys and is cool one minute, hot the next sounds like she isn't worth the time you invested thinking about her. Move on to someone who is up front about the way they feel about you. Second guessing everything she does will just make you paranoid
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