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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi, a group of girls in my college are making my life hell, i was going out with a guy who was in their "circle" and they cant stand me, i dont mean to be cocky but theyr not pretty or anything and i am a part time model and people say that they are just jealous of me, i hate confrontation and i cant handle it anymore, they spread nasty rumours about me and say im sleeping around (when they are the biggest sluts ever)when im not and i dunno what do to, i cant reason with them because they are like a pack of wolves, i get really upset about it but i dont want them to get to me either. its really hard to ignore them when they are giving me filthy looks and whispering with each other and other people about me. I'm afraid other people will believe what they are saying. What to do???
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (29 October 2008):
 They are just jealous, take it as a compliment and then ignore them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys thats great advice i suppose ic ant do anything except hold my head high, its incredibly difficult.i lost my cool slightly a while ago and said something back to them but then i think it made me look like the lunatic; what do you think it is though? is there something wrong with me or are they just jealous??
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2008): A very wise friend of mine told me a long time ago, "you learn more about the person talking than the one being talked about". Anyone that believes the group of girls without checking the story are not very wise and therefore are not the type of quality people that are deserving of being your friend. It only matters what you think within yourself. Do not let the group affect your opinion of yourself!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (28 October 2008):
There is absolutely nothing that you can do about what they say behind your back, people will believe whatever they want. You just need to realize that they are actually giving you a compliment. Try your best to ignore them with their filthy looks and whisperings. Hold your head up, smile, and keep walking. Practice will make it easier and easier to do. When they see they aren't affecting you they will eventually tire of this stupidity. People will see you are a class act and see those jerks for the goofs they are.
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