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writes:I am in a relationship with 'Rick' and my friends, 'tish' and 'john' are in a relationship. things are a little rocky with me and Rick and i like John and he is always flirting with me and compliments me quite a lot.A different girl and I fell out because apparently I was flirting with her boyfriend too much when we were always like that, whethre he had a gf or not.I don't want to cause problems in tish and john's relationship by making her feel insecure about me flirting with john.We both only flirt in a playful, friendly manner.How do I show her it's friendly with body language?
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reader, Canary611  +, writes (28 October 2008):
i think you should (if its not already clear to him)make it clear that you dont like the fact that his girlfriend thinks you two might be more than friends and try to get him to talk to her and let her know that there's nothing there. unless this girl has jelousy issues she cant just be getting this idea outta nowhere. i think you might want to consider not talking to him as much even if nothings going on even only for a short time.
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reader, Gio  +, writes (28 October 2008):
Hi,
There is a difference between flirting and being playful. Flirting is trying to attract others attention in a sexy way, playful is being close to a person in a friendly way. Be as 'playful' with tish as you are with john. Hopefully she will realise it is just your way of showing how comfortable and at ease you fell when they are around you. If you still see she is not comfortable with you being playful with John, then, if you value Tish's friendship, maybe it is better if you stop that so she realises her friendship means more to you.
Good luck
Gio
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