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writes:Hello,My boyfriend and I broke up last week. We were supposed to move in together, but at the last minute realized it probably wasn't a good idea because we have been fighting a lot lately. While he is not perfect, a good amount of the fighting has been me being quick to jump down his throat and have very short patience with him and be very defensive over really stupid things. I really don't know why I have been acting that way. He generally treats me great. In fact for my birthday, just a month ago he threw me the most incredible celebration and did the nicest things for me. He's told me before how he feels about when I snap at him, but I didn't really see it until too late. Now we're broken up and it just isn't right. I've tried to tell him that I finally realize how I've been poisoning our relationship and i'm ready and willing to do what it takes to make it right. I love him and really believe he loves me too. He doesn't beleive that I can change, though. He thinks it's just who I am. How can I get him to give us another chance? I know what we have is special and I don't want to throw it away because of something stupid. Yesterday was the first day that we haven't talked. I get the feeling that he's expecting me to call him and ask him to get back with him. I feel like he wants to make me pay for what Ive done and that is why he is resisting getting back together. Last week, he wanted to just hold off moving together, but I told he we should just break up if we don't live together. Now he's saying we should just break up. I think in his heart he does want us to be together...I just want to stop the sadness, misery and lonliness for both of us and get on with our lives together.Please give me any insight or help you have.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2008): My husband is so abusive,beats me every time when I nag him not to watch porn.He barely hugs or kisses me.We haven't had any sex for over 2 years almost.Just one time I think.you have a great guy with you.Am not jealous.Just feel sad that people don't appreciate the good things they have in their life.Grovel if you have to.Nice guys like this are hard to come by.if he loves you and you can correct yourself he will take you back.
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