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41-50,
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writes:OK, this guy is a friend of mine. A long distance one. I met him in a deal from my office. Turned out we became keeping in touch as friends he told me he had a GF so we took the friend road. He's military so we never lost touch out of what things were happening.He said before he enjoys our friendship and emailing and that it's really great we keep in touch. Well, he was on a 4 month duty so we email as well AS FRIENDS. Before he head for home I did wrote asking him if he was longing to get back. He said he just took things day-by-day.I recalled he saying he was good, yet away from home and that he was going to take some time off. He wrote me yesterday checking in on me and saying Hi, hoping I'm OK. I asked how are things home and didn't said a word.I don't know, but as a girl I kinda feel some thing's going on with him, maybe not, who knows. What should I do as to know where he's standing? Geez I do like him but if he's taken I'll back off as usual. My fear is to blew something as good as what I have with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2008): i disagree,
there might be something there but if this guys having trouble with his girlfriend i still wudnt jump straight in there.
Leave him be for a bit to try n sort things out. If they do split then i'd also still be friends with him until a while has past because u do not want to be his rebound!!
i no this will be hard but honestly its harder being his rebound as he will hurt u so much more!
if theres truly somethin there he will come to u within time u just have to be patient
good luck hun
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