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*orscha22
writes:my question is: why does he love me? is it the way i look? is it the way i make love to him? could it be my personality? perhalps my faults as a human being.. or maybe the way i brush my hair? my cooking...?? this is the first real relationship that i've had in my life, i will be 29 next year... and i seriousley don't know why he loves me, or why he wants to be with me!!?? is there something wrong with me for thinking like this.... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2008): Dear sorscha22
i think your scared to fall in love..i mean the question is do u love him?? because it seems like u cant even sleep cuz this is all u ever think about and honestly maybe u should just enjoy having "love" in your life
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reader, DoomedAngel  +, writes (28 October 2008):
You wanna know why he loves you. well answer this question
What is it the most thing you love in life?
then ask yourself why do you love it?--- i assume the answer will be cos it makes you happy.
Love is about happiness it's a feeling deep inside that makes you feel calm and happy. Love concentrates on all the simple things in life that's why it's complicated and no one can get it. you know what some kids explain "love" one kid said love is when mummy gives daddy the best piece of chicken.
so don't complicate yourself he loves you for the simple things in you and because you make him happy deep inside.
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reader, sorscha22 +, writes (28 October 2008):
sorscha22 is verified as being by the original poster of the question do you think i'm tearing myself apart.. i suppose i am! i wouldn't say that i'm worried... maybe i just don't understand love very much... i probably sound like a 6 year old with the why question... but i would love to know why does someone love another person. you say love isn't logical.. but it is in a way... maybe i need to learn how to love myself first, then maybe i'll figure out why he loves me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2008): i agree, he loves you cos you're you. don't question and just go with the flow. or if you're still unsure, then ask urself why do you like him. its probably the same answer. and usualy, if there is a reason for loving someone.. then its not really love.
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