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How long is too long?

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Question - (28 October 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 October 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I would like to know how long is too long before you move in together.

Me and my partner have not moved in and it has been 5 years now and to be honest it doesn't look like we are moving in anytime soon, but a relationhip should progress to lving together getting married and having children etc...

We don't seem to be anywhere close to that, what's the longest that anyone has been in a relationship without actually living together?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2008):

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Thankyou both for two different views, I agree in Part to both, I love her so there is no such thing as too long but sometimes I do wonder and those are the times i feel like am i wasting my time as if she really loved me then she would want to be with me more than anything in the world but then I think she has got her own issues and when she is ready she will be all mine

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2008):

In my opinion if you really really WANT to be with someone you would be. I think too long is well gone. I waited ten years for a prat to put a ring on my finger. If he really WANTED me he would have done it years ago! sometimes the answer is staring us in the face and we just waste years.I hope this is not the case with you, but do be careful.

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