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writes:My boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago. I was really hurt and very upset. I've been emotional about this whole thing. We were 2gther for 10 months, but we've been knowing each other for 6 yrs. He wanted 2 break up bcuz he cudnt handle our school work, my emotions and the relationship at the time. Since he thinks I lied to ppl about things, which I didn't bcuz I was upset, we haven't really talked that much since. I want 2 be friends and it's not working out as it should. I love him. We did so much 2gther and spent so much time and now it's like I've gtn myself n a whole I can't get out of.I miss him!Is it 2 l8 2 have a better friendship w/him like we had before or is there no hope for me? I loved him so much. What do I do? I just want us back and now there seems like there's no hope even when he tells me he's fine and it doesn't matter. How do I get him 2 want 2 be around me and want 2 talk 2 me again and have fun with me without insisting purposely?! Just letting it flow?Thanks if u can help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2008): No more calling and anything? When I wasn't ready 2 be friends he was and now it's the opposite and I'm so confused. Will this ever get better? No talking to him either? Memnories and thoughts just feel my brain :(
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reader, brklynsis81 +, writes (28 October 2008):
 Please don't take this as harsh, but the truth is, you cannot go back to the way things were. That is the nasty part about life in general. At this point, I think it is better to move forward and put this relationship behind you. Dealing with a break up is hard for both parties, but you both will need space to move forward.
I know it will be difficult, because you still have feelings for him, but now is the time to really take charge of your own attitude. Try to surround yourself with friends. Join a new activity where you can meet new people and be yourself, and enjoy being single. It will be tough, but trust me it is all for the best.
You cannot force someone to want to be around you. Most of the time, if you try, any attempt will usually have the opposite outcome!
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