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writes:Asked this question previousley ,neeed more answers..i am a married man and i always think of having sex with any woman(of course a charming woman) i see or meet....at times these are my young aunts or a girl on the next desk in my office or my cousins who are married or sexy school girls whom i see on the road... hell .........i mean i am so crazy to have sex all the time...at times i wonder and feel bad because in the family and at the work place and in society i am one of the repsected and most admired persons and the women whom i see everytime must not be having stint of idea whats going on in my mind.... is it normal?...what shud i do to come out of this?pls help
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2009): Please you need to get this out more but be very careful, there are a lot of sad women out there just ready to pounce on a man like you......my husband felt that way and had an affair....
he has been sorry ever since....I am glad to see this question that this is how many men feel, you say any woman so no particular woman
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANKYOU........!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2009): I understand how you feel - I once felt the same when I was on a particular medication and it actually got to be hell - I literally had to masturbate about 7 times a day I was so ridiculously horny for every male I met. Bizarre - and more of a curse than anything else!! I'm sure that it is something that will pass with time and as the last person suggested, maybe you should focus your attention on your wife and maybe try role playing so you can at least live out a bit of your fantasy about having sex with other people. Alternatively, I know this sounds a bit strange - but have you and your wife ever considered bringing other people into your bedroom? I honestly think that it's something that can work as long as you are entirely honest with, and love and respect your partner above all else. I'd recommend a book to you if this was something you would think of trying - it's called The Ethical Slut - and it talks about how to sleep with other people in a way that it still loving, open and respectful of your partner. Just a thought. There are plenty of people into swinging, threesomes, etc - if you do need to act on your urges and you don't want to lose your marriage then I suggest you try and find an outlet that is comfortable and suitable for you both. Good luck!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (19 November 2009):
 As long as you are just thinking about it and are keeping your hands and your thoughts to yourself then there isn't any problem. If it's really bugging you, try to just occupy your thoughts by thinking about your lovely wife instead.
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