The man I love wont leave his wife for me and I feel so lonely!
Q. The man I'm in love with never told me that he would leave his wife.He pays all my bills,rent and still gives me extra money but,I'm just so lonely.He doesn't spend time with me like he use to in the beginning.He has keys to my house so he comes ...
A. 1 October 2009: (whispering and looking both ways)....is she gone yet????... (read in full...)
The man I love wont leave his wife for me and I feel so lonely!
Q. The man I'm in love with never told me that he would leave his wife.He pays all my bills,rent and still gives me extra money but,I'm just so lonely.He doesn't spend time with me like he use to in the beginning.He has keys to my house so he comes ...
A. 29 September 2009: You may find this hard to believe but there are other postings on this website that have nothing to do with cheating spouses and home wreckers. You really came here for some affirmation I guess and you just haven't gotten it and it pissed you off. ... (read in full...)
I'm obsessed with my teacher and its ruining both of our lives!
Q. For the past 2 years i have been obsessed with a female teacher and it is really affecting BOTH are lives. I think its an obsession not love, because i dont want to kiss her or anything like that- i just want to be with her all the time. I l...
A. 29 September 2009: She made the "ploice" story up which also makes me wonder whether she is "storking" her at all. Maybe this teacher is blessedly unware of all of this or at least can ignore it. ... (read in full...)
The man I love wont leave his wife for me and I feel so lonely!
Q. The man I'm in love with never told me that he would leave his wife.He pays all my bills,rent and still gives me extra money but,I'm just so lonely.He doesn't spend time with me like he use to in the beginning.He has keys to my house so he comes ...
A. 29 September 2009: I just love it when after a little dialogue, some people will show their true nature. Sad little person.... (read in full...)
It bothers me that my g/f slept with someone she didn't even know
Q. My girlfriend slept with a lead singer from a band. It bothers me everyday that I know this. She said she did it because at the time she was mad at her old boyfriend. It just makes me so sad that she would lower herself like this to someone...
A. 28 September 2009: The US Army has it right..Don't Ask, Don't Tell.... (read in full...)
Will their marriage last?
Q. My ex husband left me for another woman and she got pregnant while we were in the middle of our divorce. Does anyone think think the marriage will last?...
A. 28 September 2009: When you say he left you for another woman, was he cheating on you with this other woman?... (read in full...)
Who was a virgin before our honeymoon, my wife or me?
Q. I was a virgin up until my honeymoon last week. I thought my wife was also a virgin but came to find out otherwise after she and I split a bottle of champagne in the hot tub of our resort. She insisted that no guy could abstain from sex and was ...
A. 28 September 2009: My vote is that your wife is the virgin and you are not. Just because you were too young to ejaculate you still had intercourse.... (read in full...)
I'm obsessed with my teacher and its ruining both of our lives!
Q. For the past 2 years i have been obsessed with a female teacher and it is really affecting BOTH are lives. I think its an obsession not love, because i dont want to kiss her or anything like that- i just want to be with her all the time. I l...
A. 28 September 2009: You should see the PM's she sent me, Uncle Phil! Sorry she's on your side of the pond, Buddy. Whew!... (read in full...)
I'm obsessed with my teacher and its ruining both of our lives!
Q. For the past 2 years i have been obsessed with a female teacher and it is really affecting BOTH are lives. I think its an obsession not love, because i dont want to kiss her or anything like that- i just want to be with her all the time. I l...
A. 28 September 2009: Why are you answering your own post?... (read in full...)
How does a guy give a girl a blowjob?
Q. ok this guy said he will give me a blow job ok i kinda know how a gurl gives a guy one but how does a guy give a girl one???? please help me im desperate...
A. 28 September 2009: I certainly wouldn't take him up on his offer..if he doesn't know the terminology he probably doesn't know the technique.... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my girlfriends strict parents?
Q. my girlfriend and i have been talking for about seven months now. her parents are really strict so we like never get to be together. i met her mother not so long ago, she seemed to like me! but its her step dad that is really strict. i want to ...
A. 28 September 2009: How old is your girlfriend?... (read in full...)
Once I've passed my driving test should I tell my instructor I have a crush on him?
Q. i'm 42 and since january I've been taking driving lessons. my instructor is a lovely man. a brilliant instructor and a wonderful person, kind, gentle, considerate etc etc. we get on very well together and my lessons feel more like time spent with ...
A. 28 September 2009: What do you really know about this guy? Does he have a wife and kids he goes home to after driving school is over for the day?... (read in full...)
His more affluent family treats me like trash!
Q. So here is my situation: my bf and I have been dating for a year and a half. We both just finished law school, and have jobs lined up. My job is with a small firm, and it pays substantially less than my bf's. He got a big law firm job. I we...
A. 28 September 2009: Tish tosh, you've made it all the way through law school and have lined up a job already. Not too shabby, you either ignore the idiots or dump the boyfriend. I wouldn't let anything or anyone put a damper on my success and happiness. Do what feel ... (read in full...)
Can you bleed when you're PG and on the pill?
Q. If you are on the pill and you're pregnant, are you still forced to bleed a little when it comes to the pill that starts your period? Just as a matter of interest. ...
A. 28 September 2009: Yikes it's very dangerous to be pregnant and still taking birth control pills, see your doctor.... (read in full...)
He masturbates to pictures of other women and it bothers me!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for two and a half years now. I don't know whether there is something wrong with me because I know he masturbates to pictures of other women and it bothers me. I've talked to him about it before but he just tells me that ...
A. 28 September 2009: When you say pictures of "other women" do you know these other women or is it just porn? That would make a difference to me. I mean if he wanking to a picture of your next door neighbor is one thing but if it's some porn queen that's another thing ... (read in full...)
I'm obsessed with my teacher and its ruining both of our lives!
Q. For the past 2 years i have been obsessed with a female teacher and it is really affecting BOTH are lives. I think its an obsession not love, because i dont want to kiss her or anything like that- i just want to be with her all the time. I l...
A. 28 September 2009: I've only have three words of advice and I truly mean them: Therapy, Therapy, and Therapy. You need to follow this advice immediately if not sooner.... (read in full...)
When do you tell your boyfriend he's too controlling?
Q. When do you tell your boyfriend he's too controlling? I wrote earlier but it was far too long. Why do women, who were at one time strong and fierce, allow men to do these things to them: Demanding to see you on webcam while you are i...
A. 23 September 2009: You are in some sort of denial here, YOU CAN'T FIX THIS, you need to get the hell out of Dodge. Once you've left the scene, maybe and that's a very weak maybe, but maybe he'll realise what a monster he has been and go and seek help. However usually ... (read in full...)
The man I love wont leave his wife for me and I feel so lonely!
Q. The man I'm in love with never told me that he would leave his wife.He pays all my bills,rent and still gives me extra money but,I'm just so lonely.He doesn't spend time with me like he use to in the beginning.He has keys to my house so he comes ...
A. 23 September 2009: This is a problem you created for yourself. What on earth were you thinking? Take off those rose colored glasses and get real. You have a daughter for crying out loud, what kind of an example are you setting here? Give him his walking papers and ... (read in full...)
When do you tell your boyfriend he's too controlling?
Q. When do you tell your boyfriend he's too controlling? I wrote earlier but it was far too long. Why do women, who were at one time strong and fierce, allow men to do these things to them: Demanding to see you on webcam while you are i...
A. 23 September 2009: You live in the US, and unless you live in a very rural area, there are organizations that can help you get away from an abusive relationship. Check into this it could save your life. You are in danger my dear. ... (read in full...)
The thought of losing him makes me shudder. What should I do?
Q. When i was younger there was a boy i was always close to, we grew up together and was always best mates, we went out when i was like 10 (he was 4yrs older) but our parents stopped us. A few yrs later when i was 14 we went out again, but it was hard ...
A. 22 September 2009: Sorry your post gave me a headache trying to figure out whatever you are trying to convey. If the guy you like is married then leave him alone and get used to the shudders. Jeese louise where's the aspirin........ (read in full...)
When do you tell your boyfriend he's too controlling?
Q. When do you tell your boyfriend he's too controlling? I wrote earlier but it was far too long. Why do women, who were at one time strong and fierce, allow men to do these things to them: Demanding to see you on webcam while you are i...
A. 22 September 2009: So it's YOUR fault he has to sniff and re-sniff your panties. Trust me in the the very near future it will be YOUR fault he had to slap you upside the head. Get out now, let the Psycho find another victim.... (read in full...)
Help! What do you think he means when he says he still thinks we have a future together?
Q. My boyfriend had been ignoring me for a few days, he said at first that has been battling depression, and had problems at work and at home (money issues).. I asked him if there was any reason to it, if he was with another girl or if he didn't care ...
A. 22 September 2009: Only he knows what he means, you need to ask him whenever you get a chance to have a nice face-to-face chat with him. The part about being selfish with his time is a little unsettling however. ... (read in full...)
What is your opinion of tatoos and should I get one?
Q. Ok I need some opinions. Well, my family was talking the other day, my dad had two sisters, and a brother. Well one of his sisters passed away and so his other sister and brother talked about them all getting a tattoo that their sister had. Well it ...
A. 22 September 2009: A butterfly at 16 can look like a vulture at 50 so remember location, location, location.... (read in full...)
What's wrong with my girlfriend's best friend?
Q. I've been in a terrific relationship for several months, and at this point hope to become engaged and eventually married to my girlfriend. One serious issue, at least for me, is her best friend. Her friend is married, 40, and has a baby. Both of ...
A. 22 September 2009: Well if she is straight, as her boyfriend, I'd figure she would be the safest at a gay bar. I think it's kind of wierd but not totally off the map. And from now make sure you keep your butt out of the wacky friend's reach.... (read in full...)
No money, too much pride and now no respect for him
Q. Hi, I'm 26 and my boyfriend is 35. We both got made redundant in jan 2009. We are currently in big trouble financially, my partner has not found a job since january and is obsessing over the idea of going to college. my partner used to earn £40...
A. 22 September 2009: Do you have a job? I worked AND went to college, is that what you are doing?... (read in full...)
I don't like my knees I think they are ugly!
Q. Hey. ok my problem is pretty weird. Any lets get to it. Im 14, And i dont wear anything that shows my knee's. is there something wrong with me cause i think my knee's are ugly and i get embarrassed by them if people see them i mean its fine ...
A. 22 September 2009: Everybody's knees are kind of funny looking. So are noses and elbows. Doesn't it get hot in the summer in Australia? I'd go for comfort anytime rather than fret over something that looks funny on the entire human race. Besides you should be grateful ... (read in full...)
I'm the love of his life but he won't marry me!
Q. My problem is this. My boyfriend, whom I live with, who says Im the love of his life, will not marry me. I decided to lay off him but the only way to do this is to emotionally disconnect from him so that I can deal. In my eyes, not wanting to marry ...
A. 22 September 2009: Are you better off with him or without him? Once you answer that truthfully you'll have your answer.... (read in full...)
I love him, but what's happening?
Q. hey, so i met a really fit boy and i fell in love with him, i asked him out and he said yes.i have been dating him for nearly 3 weeks now but i have got very shy and everytime i try to hug him or talk to him i mess up, so i asked my friends for help ...
A. 22 September 2009: So you are 41 to 50 years old, eh?... (read in full...)
Is this selfish of her or am I overeacting?
Q. Do you think it's selfish of my best friend to buy a new dress to go out clubbing for my birthday (On Saturday) when she knows very well I'm only going to be wearing black pants and a nice top? I DON'T wear dresses, period. She knows that. OH she ...
A. 18 September 2009: If you don't care whether she gets all the attention from the guys then why does her apparel bother you so much? How is she disrespecting you? Or do you feel that nobody should try to look hot on your birthday except you? Sounds rather petty to me. ... (read in full...)
I need her back in my life and know she has feelings for me
Q. Hi everyone I split up with my girlfriend just over 2 months ago and did not cope well with the break up. We had been together 2 years and I had taken a second job in order to save up enough money to take her to Paris and propose (she didn't and ...
A. 18 September 2009: I wouldn't tell her anything about that just yet. I wouldn't even bring up the word marriage. Just easy and friendly should be your motto at this point. No pressure.... (read in full...)
Could my pubic hair be off-putting to guys, even though it's tidy?
Q. I have pubic hair insecurities. I am an attractive 23year old girl who is confident with my body, however I am afraid that my pubic hair could be unattractive! I know this sounds dumb, but how important is it to a guy? I wax my bikini line to k...
A. 17 September 2009: Right on Tish...besides we get pubic hair questions every dang day we don't need to dig up ones that are 4 years old!... (read in full...)
What can I do to ignore their taunts and stop them from aggravating me?
Q. I have been working at my job sincee 1999. A lot of guys that worked there had tried to talk to me, but I was never interested. Many of them seem to be up to no good. I have always tried to carry myself in a respectable manner and treat people like ...
A. 17 September 2009: Start looking for another job and once you find one, quit this one. You are the perfect poster child for how workplace romances can backfire and are a very bad idea.... (read in full...)
Unsure what to think of my wife's talk and actions
Q. some advise plzzzzz. from my previous posts you may remember my wife and i had separated awhile ago and she had played around. now back together and all seems good, but my trust in her is little if any. what i would like some advise with are ...
A. 17 September 2009: You need to give this more time. If she truly has realized how very much she loves you her behavior will stay the same and your trust will rebuild. Hopefully she saw what she almost lost and is determined not to make that mistake again. Personally I ... (read in full...)
Can he ask for custody to our baby?
Q. ive been dating a turkish guy for a year and got pregnant. My boyfriend didnt want to marry me but we still keep the baby, ill born my baby in turkey. I still have a contact with my bf. My question is: can he ask custody to our baby and what is my ...
A. 17 September 2009: You need to speak with a lawyer who is familiar with the laws in Turkey. If that is indeed where the baby will be born.... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out again after all these years?
Q. Ok, here goes. This is a long post, but Its complicated or at least I think it is. Back in the spring 05 I got married, had a child and then my wife left a year later while my daughter was very young. I retained custody through the divorce and ...
A. 17 September 2009: I say go for it, ask her out. Just take things slowly and try to relax and have some fun, you both deserve it. In my opinion, the best relationships start with friendship. Good luck Buddy, you sound like a real keeper.... (read in full...)
Am I shallow for not wanting to date her again?
Q. Hey all, well Im a little bit ashamed of myself writing this. I think I may be a shallow guy and i never thought it before. My sister set me up on a blind date. I was dubious anyway but went along. When the Lady showed up I knew straight away th...
A. 17 September 2009: Heck fire, it was a blind date. I don't think you are shallow at all. You weren't attracted to her, end of story.... (read in full...)
My mother broke her promise to me and really let me down. Should she apologize?
Q. I have been living on my own for some time now few years, and done actual very well, but my car broke down and so I have no way to get around I am in a very tiny rural town and without a car you cant get around. I told my mother this but never asked ...
A. 16 September 2009: I'll bet this isn't the first and won't be the last time your mother lets you down. Some women are just plain lousy mothers. I feel your hurt and anger. But I know you'll come out of this in fine shape, I can tell you are a strong person. Best of ... (read in full...)
I think my wife is looking to replace me with this girl
Q. Okay, this is a very long drawn out story, but I don't know who I can talk to about it. And I think I need some advice from someone with a really open mind. First off, I've been with my wife for 10 years and she is undoubtedly (along with my k...
A. 16 September 2009: Plaid bermuda shorts?... (read in full...)
She says she likes me but it sure doesn't seem that way!
Q. Hey everybody, I have a small problem thats been on my mind for a couple days. i am at college, and last year i met a friend up here who ended up being really cool and we git it off pretty well. eventually, we stopped talking and didnt talk the w...
A. 16 September 2009: My guess is she's playing hard to get. But I'd still let her be the first to contact you since after all it is her turn. I don't think you did anything wrong it is just a matter of whether you guys are clicking if you get my drift. Good luck I hope ... (read in full...)
How to make masturbation more fun?
Q. how do u wank?? i just do it the normal way, got any ideas to make it more fun??...
A. 16 September 2009: DICK...there q ...fettered my ass... (read in full...)
We had lunch together, does he like me?
Q. Last week after class I had lunch with this cute guy Dave. We talked about school, sports and home. He told me how he went to his dad's friend's wedding. It was held in a hospital because he was so ill. He was very polite. He asked me if I minded if ...
A. 16 September 2009: Yes. No. Yes.... (read in full...)
I feel like my uterus is a ticking time bomb!
Q. this guy i've recently been involved with and i have quite a connection.. he had a daughter when he was 21 and she only lived a week - she was extremely preemie bc his stupid fiance was too selfish to get off the cocaine - and when i was 16 i had 2 ...
A. 16 September 2009: If you have low progesterone levels they can be elevated and monitored by your doctor so your uterus isn't really a ticking time bomb. Relax you have plenty of time. Talk to your doctor.... (read in full...)
Got my girlfriend pregnant, what can the police do to me?
Q. HELLO... ok here we go... i got sex with my girlfriend and she is pregnant. and i think her parents gonna send me the police... WAT CAN THE POLICE DO TO ME??? answere plz ...
A. 16 September 2009: Depends on how old she is.... (read in full...)
I need her back in my life and know she has feelings for me
Q. Hi everyone I split up with my girlfriend just over 2 months ago and did not cope well with the break up. We had been together 2 years and I had taken a second job in order to save up enough money to take her to Paris and propose (she didn't and ...
A. 16 September 2009: I hope your friend didn't tell you that just to make you feel better. I guess at this point all you can do is send her a friendly email every once and a while and see if she responds. I certainly advise you not to come on too strong. Good luck ... (read in full...)
I need her back in my life and know she has feelings for me
Q. Hi everyone I split up with my girlfriend just over 2 months ago and did not cope well with the break up. We had been together 2 years and I had taken a second job in order to save up enough money to take her to Paris and propose (she didn't and ...
A. 16 September 2009: When you say you found out she misses you, did she tell you that or did it come from a second party?... (read in full...)
How to make masturbation more fun?
Q. how do u wank?? i just do it the normal way, got any ideas to make it more fun??...
A. 16 September 2009: c'mon Rob...use your imagination...tie the balloon to whatever, drape the crepe paper over whatever, ...do I have to do everything around here???... (read in full...)
How to make masturbation more fun?
Q. how do u wank?? i just do it the normal way, got any ideas to make it more fun??...
A. 15 September 2009: Balloons and crepe paper?... (read in full...)
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