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writes:hey guys,ok so me and my bf had sex a few weeks ago, it felt really good, but he really struggled to get it in me we tried and tried but it just wouldn't and he kept getting soft again because it was taking so long. Then we decided to go and by some lubricant which we thought might help. And it did, when it did finally go in it was amazing. But then the next day we tried again and had the same problem even with the lubricant, so I'm askng if anyone has any really good tips for how to deal with this (other than using lubricant) and if there's a reason why this kept happening to us.Please replythanksx
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (16 November 2009):
 It's sounds like the work of the "your under-aged and should be doing your homework instead" fairy to me. Pesky fellow ain't he?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2009): Don't KIDS this age do normal stuff anymore, why everything has to be about sex??? but yes he is probably nervous and thinking about what happened the first time also, since neither of you are not sure what to do then i guess you shouldn't be having sex in the first place!
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reader, MrMuscleVlad +, writes (16 November 2009):
I was reading this and actually texted my girlfriend to see if she had posted it because it is EXACTLY what happened to us about the same amount of time ago.We haven't had a chance to work on it yet, but my assumption is that the failed attempts were still on his mind at the time. Now it's been a few weeks, he should be calmer when it comes to trying it again. I'm hoping that's the case for me anyway. I think the pressures of the first time just get to a person, and it might take a week or so after you finally do it, for those nerves to go. Hope this helps :)
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (16 November 2009):
 well you know the law so wont tell you that. though your both underage that will be putting preassure on it too as well as will we get caught. hope your using the pill or/ both condoms if not hope you know you will get pregnant - child!!! lubricant wont change anything other than if its tight it will make it loose. so him being hard is down to him and factors. if guys worry or think too much it puts them off. my honest answer / all i can say is study sex dont just rush in and do it you dont know much about it so time you grew up and learnt before practicing. because their are serious consquences to your actions and 9 /10 other people pay for your mistakes as well as you!!! hope this info helped aphex
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 November 2009):
If you're under 16 in the UK and having sex, then you're breaking the law. I hope you know that. The reason it's happening is most likely his nerves. He's probably nervous.
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