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I've been called his ex's name 3 times by him!

Q.   My boyfriend has called me my ex's name three times now, i over reacted at first and said if he did it again i couldnt forgive him, yet he has done it since but seeing how angry he is with himself after ive forgiven him. The wierd thing is he call ...

A.   8 September 2010: I do this all the time. Relax, it just means he's name challenged. How similar are your names? Not that it makes any difference in my case. ... (read in full...)

I'm 43, she's 18 & pregnant and I didn't know she wanted more than sex. I don't want this!

Q.   im 43 and slept with an 18 year old and now shes pregnant but thats not the only problem she said that she fort we was going out when we slept together i knew she gets very close to people too fast but i didnt realise she wanted more than sex i fort ...

A.   8 September 2010: Sorry Buddy but you sound like the one with "special needs". Get out your wallet, this stupidity is really gonna cost you.... (read in full...)

Is it a bad idea to go over there and meet this guy?

Q.   I'm 17, 18 in a few months, I have been talking to this guy in Washington since around April, he is 20. Anyway he wants me to come over to see him, hes in college and drinks a lot he says, my life is pretty bad at home right now and I see it as the ...

A.   7 September 2010: You are going to fly from Ireland to Washington to visit a guy you've never met and who has made it abundantly clear he's looking for sex and says don't bring a witness? Jeez Louise! If you decide to ignore the excellent advice and go anyway, don't ... (read in full...)

I did everything he wanted, and find out he's seeing another girl

Q.   My ex boyfriend sent me a text sayin that he misses me and that he loves me so i went to see him he told me he wanted to get back together so i ended up staying with him for the night and we had sex now i really wish we hadnt because the next ...

A.   7 September 2010: You are between 13 and 15 years old and staying overnight at a boyfriend's? Where the heck are your parents? You'd better slow down or you'll be burnt out by the time you hit 20. ... (read in full...)

Being called their partner--meaning?

Q.   if you are in a long term relationship with someone, and they call you their partner, what does that mean exactly?...

A.   7 September 2010: I agree with the other aunts UNLESS he's a cowboy, then it only means friend.... (read in full...)

What should he eat so it can taster better?

Q.   okay I finally let my husband cum in my mouth last night it was fun wacthing him helpless feeling the great sensation he felt... it was a hard core turn on for me too.... hahahaha but what can he eat or change eating so his magic juice can taste ...

A.   2 September 2010: That's a question for the ages...... (read in full...)

Do girls like public hair?

Q.   Do girls like pubic hair?...

A.   2 September 2010: A day without a pube question is like a day without sunshine. And we're having a hurricane here in NC TODAY.... (read in full...)

My sisters husband has fallen in love with our other sister. Help!

Q.   I've got two older sisters. The older one found out her husband has fallen in love with the other sister. She is upset about and talks to her husband about it. Her husband deny it. However they continue to go out together when my other sister is ...

A.   2 September 2010: What has the other sister got to say about all this?... (read in full...)

What should he eat so it can taster better?

Q.   okay I finally let my husband cum in my mouth last night it was fun wacthing him helpless feeling the great sensation he felt... it was a hard core turn on for me too.... hahahaha but what can he eat or change eating so his magic juice can taste ...

A.   1 September 2010: I got nothin' but sure am enjoying the thread... (read in full...)

We are both 14, had a miscarriage. Should we try again to have a baby?

Q.   Me and my girlfriend are both 14 and are madly in love. weve been together for about a year now and had protected sex a few months ago. she ended up having a miscarriage and that made us both completely sad. :( We love eachother alot and wanna have ...

A.   31 August 2010: Went to Walmart on my lunch hour to pick up some items for grandkid #8 due in November. Two packages of newborn night gowns, a package of sleepers, baby rattle, baby socks,and a baby blanket....$62. And Ty, your girlfriend posted this earlier today.... (read in full...)

Getting married and just found out boyfriend doesn't believe in any kind of birth control!

Q.   Hello everyone. I feel like my problem is a bit weird and I don't want to go to my friends or family with this, so I'm coming to you guys. Anyway, I'll be getting married this December. My fiance and I made the decision to wait until our wedding ...

A.   31 August 2010: All I can say is for you not to get married until this is settled. If you have to pospone the wedding because you are still discussing this, then so be it. Just don't tie the knot. Whew! Be glad he didn't spring this on you on your wedding night! ... (read in full...)

Super Affectionate in Private, Cold in public

Q.   I am a 29-year-old woman who has been dating a 40-year-old guy for over a year and a half. When we met and started dating, he had been divorced for a few months. When we first started dating, we kept it quiet because we know a lot of the same peop...

A.   31 August 2010: How's tomorrow?... (read in full...)

I want to divorce him but I feel guilty for not trying!

Q.   I have been with my husband since early 2008 and we have a 2 year old son and when i was pregnant i set up a fake profile of this 'hot' chick to test him. It was sneaky but all he had to do was say 'thanks but no thanks, my partner is pregnant' etc, ...

A.   31 August 2010: A single but happy parent is better than an unhappy, angry married one. Get a legal separation and if you can't work things out, divorce him. Your son will be much better off if you can smile through the day instead of punching the walls.... (read in full...)

Does anyone think I'm guaranteed to be pregnant now?

Q.   I'm 14 and i've had a misscarriage before and it really hurt me as i'm a loving person i'm not a mad teenager who take's drug's or is out every night of the week drinking. I'm a quiet type of person i don't go out unless it's with my family. i like ...

A.   31 August 2010: You say you love "wee babys"(it's babies by the way), but are you aware that they don't stay wee very long? You do realize that growing kids only get more expensive, never the other way around? So I am assuming that both your boyfriend and yourself ... (read in full...)

Freaked out BF in bed and he left!

Q.   ok -- this is going to take a second so I will do a TL;DR. first, this is a throwaway account b/c... so, here's the deal: tonight I totally freaked out my boyfriend. I had hidden a piece of a hot dog (about 2 inches) which I had broken off before ...

A.   31 August 2010: Pretty funny, I hope he can see the humor once he gets over the shock and his obvious terror. No beenie weenies on the menu for awhile, okay?!... (read in full...)

I'd like to have an open marriage!

Q.   i am married and have been for years but i would like to have a open marriage with our friends that we have know for years how do i go about ask my husband and my friend about this...

A.   30 August 2010: Very carefully, very very carefully. Unless you have an inkling all parties feel the same way, you may end up with an ex-husband and ex-friends. ... (read in full...)

Super Affectionate in Private, Cold in public

Q.   I am a 29-year-old woman who has been dating a 40-year-old guy for over a year and a half. When we met and started dating, he had been divorced for a few months. When we first started dating, we kept it quiet because we know a lot of the same peop...

A.   30 August 2010: Well since his previous wife complained about the same thing, I guess you shouldn't take it personally. Maybe counseling will help, maybe that's just the way he is wired. I'd say learn to live with it, he sounds like a keeper to me.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend slapped me and told me I deserved it

Q.   hi, me and my boyfriend have been going out with each other for 6 months now, one night we were drinking and we got into an argument, and he slapped me, and told me i deserved it, i said you shouldnt of hit me, he said no, i havnt hit you, ive only ...

A.   30 August 2010: Yes he will do it again. Yes he will tell you you deserved it, again. And if you keep deserving it, he may decide you need a fist in your face as a convincer. GRGO, sweetheart...Get rid and get out... (read in full...)

Role playing for sex, I don't know what to say!

Q.   My boyfriend and have been together for nearly 2 years now and although we have a wonderful sex life we have decided that we want to try a little bit of role play. The scenario that we have decided on is boss/secretary (he's the boss and I'm the...

A.   27 August 2010: "I'm ready to take your DICtation now"... (read in full...)

Were we meant to be?

Q.   a friend and i have reunited via facebook and by phone after 14 years apart we both discoveried that we had been searching for each other since 2000 but no luck until recently. I wanted to ask him what our relationship was to him being that we were ...

A.   27 August 2010: Are you asking why he mentioned sex you had in the past? My guess would be that he wants to have it in future. Are you willing to cheat on your husband?... (read in full...)

Never had sex, hymen broken am I still a virgin?

Q.   I am a girl of 20 i have not had sex since i was given birth to but the last time i visited a gynacologist he told me that my hymen has been broken and each time am trying to go into a sex free relatioship with a guy they always aske if i am stil a ...

A.   27 August 2010: If you've never had intercourse then you are indeed a virgin. And someone asking you this question is out of line. This is information that you VOLUNTEER if you are so inclined otherwise it's nobody's business.... (read in full...)

Have a big penis and don't know where to put it.

Q.   Im a 20 year old guy who has kind of a wierd problem or dilema. The problem is that I have an above average size penis(8 inches long and almost 6 inches around(its true, Im not kidding)) and I just have no place to put it in my pants. Sometimes ...

A.   27 August 2010: At least you can wear your socks on your feet.... (read in full...)

Horny girls?

Q.   At what age are girls the horniest? And how can u make a shy guy horny?...

A.   27 August 2010: 32.7... (read in full...)

I'm truly in love with my teacher, should I wait 2 years to be with him?

Q.   I'm in love with my 35 year old maths teacher... and, please don't tell me it's just a crush, because I've researched into what love feels like, and I asked my mum (not telling her about my teacher though) so I know for sure that I'm in love with ...

A.   27 August 2010: Just go with my answer and keep ignoring all these other aunts/uncles who are actually trying to help you. I told you what you wanted to hear.... (read in full...)

I want to lose weight to get back with my ex!

Q.   what are the best ways to make yourself vomit and how fast does it make you skinnier? because i want to get back with my ex and im just way to fat. so i need help and i think vomitting is the fastest way. ...

A.   26 August 2010: This site is call Dear Cupid not Dear Dr. Kevorkian.... (read in full...)

I'm truly in love with my teacher, should I wait 2 years to be with him?

Q.   I'm in love with my 35 year old maths teacher... and, please don't tell me it's just a crush, because I've researched into what love feels like, and I asked my mum (not telling her about my teacher though) so I know for sure that I'm in love with ...

A.   26 August 2010: It's not a crush. Sure it's worth waiting two years. Sure you should ask him again how he feels about you. And for sure you shouldn't give up. How's that? It's just what you wanted to hear right? I love making 14 year olds happy.... (read in full...)

Should I try and contact him?

Q.   The situation is this: I was in a hotel restaurant with my mother and the waiter came over to set the table. As soon as I saw him we locked eyes and I felt like I had known him forever. It was like something that happens in a film! He said hi...

A.   26 August 2010: If that is truly your age bracket then I'd say go for it.... (read in full...)

I fell in love with my brother's widow!

Q.   I am single, after my youg brother passed away last year, his wife asked me to baby set her daughter while she is at work, simce I am retired. I start to feel in love with my brother's widow, she is very charming young lady has ...

A.   26 August 2010: What the ages here? She has married sons but needs a babysitter for her daughter?... (read in full...)

How do I to get friends wives to go topless too?

Q.   I asked my wife to try to go topless in our hot tub in front of two other couples - and she did! It was our plan for me to say something as a joke, like, "house rules, everyone has to go topless". And then my wife was to say OK, and hopefully the ...

A.   25 August 2010: This question is pretty whacked. But I wish you the best of luck in your topless pursuit. You seem like a really fun couple, but no, I'll be busy doing laundry all weekend.... (read in full...)

If a man views porn, is that sufficient reason for a woman to break off the engagment?

Q.   Here is my situtation. I am 60 yrs old, of Italian heritage, and my now ex-fiancee is 54 and of Korean heritage. I am a widower; she has been divorced for 6+ years. I say this to put things into perspective. I am retired and a very succ...

A.   25 August 2010: Well now you have a nice big empty house to do your own business in. I wonder, do the nights get very cold in Santa Fe?... (read in full...)

I was really offended. Am I being silly?

Q.   Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. He is really great and we get on so well. Just the other night we where lying in bed as usual watching tele and he said to me “if you gave me a blow job for everytime I've watched porn you have a ...

A.   25 August 2010: I think he was just looking/hoping for a blow job. Just gave it his best shot. I don't think there's anything to be offended by.... (read in full...)

I want to be with my male cousin again but he said he doesn't want to do it again, how can I make him more comfortable?

Q.   hey guys, I am 17 yo old and Bi-curious. A while ago my cousin and I masturbated together and this included doing it for each other. I thought it was great and at the time he enjoyed himself too. However, it has been some time since we did thi...

A.   25 August 2010: Sounds like HE'S no longer Bi-curious. Leave him alone.... (read in full...)

Should I confront my mum over her new boyfriend?

Q.   Hi, I have been put in an awkward position over my mum's new boyfriend, and I'm not sure whether to confront mum over it. I'm 26 and mum is 55 and my dad died 4 years ago. Mum and dad were married since they were 19 and my mum spent a long ...

A.   24 August 2010: I wouldn't lie but I wouldn't volunteer information to your family. Your mum shouldn't have put you in that position to begin with. However your mum is a big girl and I don't think she is a fragile as you think. If she wants to date the guy it's her ... (read in full...)

What is her motive behind the question she asked?

Q.   After knowing each other plutonically for more than a year, my girlfriend and I have become intimately involved and have lived together now for a month and a half. Things are wonderful, but I was a bit taken aback when she suddenly asked me how many ...

A.   24 August 2010: I'm a firm believer in Don't ask, Don't tell. I'd just tell her that you live in the present not in the past and let it go at that.... (read in full...)

In love with much older man over the internet! Will people laugh?

Q.   hi everyone i am in love with a man over the internet he is so funny sweet and kind he has done alot of work on polling for elections and ive seen him on a tape why he should be elected meaning he isnt a creep he has a good backround etc but my only ...

A.   24 August 2010: I don't know about Ireland but in the USA we have lots of creeps who run for public office and lately it seems that they ALL are.... (read in full...)

How do I fix this if he won't talk to me?

Q.   i was in a serious relationship with this guy and he dumped me because of his interfiering twin sister who has called multiple problems in our relationship but we always got through them, so this time she told him i was using him and he dumped me ...

A.   24 August 2010: I'd probably dump you for not using caps or punctuation.... (read in full...)

Is this a text breakup?

Q.   Breakup line or not " I think I better take a break for awhile"...

A.   24 August 2010: yep unless he's painting the ceiling when he says it.... (read in full...)

I need help with this stuff

Q.   Original Title ok guys so im 18 and have a bfwe have tried to have sex, it didnt work he couldnt get it in we both dont know wat to do we are both ready for this i have alot of stress in my life but being with him is amazing i want to be with h...

A.   23 August 2010: Holy smokes! I suggest that on your next date you skip the sex and go to the library and look at some human anatomy books.... (read in full...)

If I swim will it get all the left over sperm out of me?

Q.   Hi. I'm just very curious. I just had sex with my bf few weeks ago.A day after having sex, i went swimming for hours.Can this actually helps to wash away those sperm left inside me? ...

A.   23 August 2010: If it were true, we wouldn't have any whales.... (read in full...)

Husband's co worker is obsessed with him, is he cheating with her?

Q.   My husbands co worker (girl) has been telling me things such as they are planning a weekend together and sexually explicit details between him and her. But he denies that he has ever touched her and we have been dealing with face book remarks and ...

A.   20 August 2010: Something isn't quite right here, she is definitely conveying threats in her email, which is totally illegal, but you say the police won't do anything about it? What state do you live in?... (read in full...)

My BF's teen is a problem!

Q.   I live with my boyfriend and he has a teenager. The teenager is so spoiled. I talk to my boyfriend about it. He thinks I am complaining about a lot of little issues. I feel like he does not care about my concerns and is use to how the teenager is. ...

A.   20 August 2010: Why wait 6 months? The kid isn't going anywhere. If you can't stand him then you might as well leave now.... (read in full...)

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