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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hello, Me and my ex have been split up nearly 2 months now and im still not over him. We were together just over a year and engaged. We work together at the same place but in different units but still see each other. He always smiles and acts friendly but it upsets me so i try and keep my distance. He broke up with me because of silly arguments. I blame myself but he has told me not to because if he had told me there was a problem we could of sorted it out but he didnt he just put up with it but it got too much for him. Problem is he still tells me he loves me tells me he misses me tells me he cant stop thinking about me but thats as far as it goes. Whenever i try talking to him he will just ignore me and block me out but then i will get another message saying he misses me. I dont know wat to do? Obviously i still love him and want to be with him but i dont think he wants to be with me. I dont want to move on and forget about him but i think i have to. I dont want to get a new job because then i wont see him but at the same time it upsets me seeing him. Why does he tell me he misses me and still thinks about me? Why wont he sit down and talk to me? Im so confused
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reader, Cccc  +, writes (5 October 2010):
 Well if hes seeing someone else then yea hes stringing you along.But if not then hes playing silly games.You should probably tell him to stop playing games.I know allot of people do this to get back with their Ex`s but they dont want to do the Chasing.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (4 October 2010):
 Don't let him string you alone any longer. You just have to force yourself to get on with your life. I know it's hard especially if you see him every day but it's time to get on with it. No more contact other than a smile when you see him. Stay busy, date if you can. The busier the better.
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