My BF's teen is a problem!
Q. I live with my boyfriend and he has a teenager. The teenager is so spoiled. I talk to my boyfriend about it. He thinks I am complaining about a lot of little issues. I feel like he does not care about my concerns and is use to how the teenager is. ...
A. 20 August 2010: Why wait 6 months? The kid isn't going anywhere. If you can't stand him then you might as well leave now.... (read in full...)
How can I truly rid myself of this married man?
Q. My only true love pops in and out of my life. He's my first and only "everything". He's "popped in" right now. He's married and claims he doesn't love his wife, they married due to her pregnancy and they just cohabitate. He tells me I should be ...
A. 20 August 2010: He continues to string you along because he can.... (read in full...)
OCD in a relationship
Q. Is there anyone out there in a relationship with someone who has an OCD. I have just started a new relationship and she has told me about hers. I have read a bit about them but don’t fully understand the implications yet. I will read more over t...
A. 20 August 2010: My husband has suffered from OCD since the birth of our first child, somehow that triggered it. He needs to someone to double check when he's driving to make sure he hasn't caused an accident, or hit a pedestrian, if he's driving alone he will ... (read in full...)
Its only been 4 months since I found out he cheated and I am having a hard time trusting him, but now he is blaming me and says if I carry on he will cheat again!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 5years and recently i found out he had cheated on me twice. I love him so much and i stayed with him as he promised to never do it again. But i find it so hard to trust him now and i think i am pushing him away as i ...
A. 20 August 2010: Lose the loser, there will be nothing but heartache with this guy. At least the pain from the break up will be temporary but if you stay the pain will be a chronic condition.... (read in full...)
31 and never been kissed!
Q. Dear Cupid, I have a big problem. I'm 31 years old and male and have never had a girlfriend. I never even been on a date with a girl. I really like girls but am very unlucky not to have met someone. I haven't even ever kissed a girl before. ...
A. 20 August 2010: Do you go out with friends? Are you affiiated with any groups? Do you do any volunteer work? In other words, are you out there meeting people? ... (read in full...)
Do I stay in a dead-end relationship that's going nowhere, or do I start again?
Q. Hi cupid, I've been in a relationship for 6 years now, but I am really not happy. My partner only wants sex once a month, which doesn't seem right to me. I've tried to speak to her about it, but the only response I get is, If you're not happy, t...
A. 20 August 2010: I'd use that door if I were you.... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend is using me for sex!
Q. I think my bf is using me for sex...wen I never gave my bf sex we whre all lovey dovey until the day we had sex...it al changed ..now evrytime I see hm he wants us to have sex anywhere or anytym we've did it inda car ,under the tree even at the back ...
A. 19 August 2010: Tell him you have decided that things were moving too fast and that you want to stop having sex so you can concentrate on the other aspects of your relationship. If he doesn't buy this and walks away then you haven't lost all the much have you? At ... (read in full...)
Is there a chance or me?
Q. She's in a relationship with her bf for 4 years. She admits her relationship is very rocky, her bf is very possessive, she's being emotionally hurt many times by him. Broke up many times with him but then patched back. She knows I really care for ...
A. 19 August 2010: I think she knows she has you in her back pocket. I'd go ahead and start dating other women. Maybe if she doesn't have you as a back up plan and thinks you may find another, it will force her into dumping the loser boyfriend. If not at least you ... (read in full...)
Is 13 too young for sex?
Q. I like sex but i am only 13 years old am i too young?...
A. 19 August 2010: 13 is too young for sex BUT it is the perfect age to do lots and lots of babysitting. Brings in income plus it gives you hands on knowledge about the end product of irresponsible sex.... (read in full...)
Music to turn him on?
Q. What music would you advice to turn a man on? or maybe for strip tease,,, ??? Something so erotic......
A. 19 August 2010: A strip tease to Flight of the Bumblebee would be interesting. Very gelatinous I think.... (read in full...)
What makes some men spend more money on one girlfriend but not another?
Q. What makes some men spend more money on one girlfriend but not another. I ask because my partner got into a lot of debt for his ex but he doesn't really spend much on me. What gives? Also, I'm not being biased but I'm a better gf because I'm more ...
A. 19 August 2010: I also think he just learned a valuable lesson and needs to keep a better eye on his finances. It has absolutely has nothing to do with you or your skin color. He is just being wiser with his money. Enjoy your relationship and don't sweat this, it's ... (read in full...)
Music to turn him on?
Q. What music would you advice to turn a man on? or maybe for strip tease,,, ??? Something so erotic......
A. 19 August 2010: I would just try to find some music that sounds really really really gelatinous. Total turn on.... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out or is it just too weird with her facebook page?
Q. First let me start by saying that this is my sisters page I am not a female I am a male age 30. I am interested in this young lady age 23 and I just saw something on her twitter page that bothered me. She posted "what.the.f**k. some chick just ...
A. 19 August 2010: I don't think you are looking for any advice on all this. Ask her out, don't ask her out. Do whatever you want. I repeat, what's the big deal? It's not like you are asking her to marry you.... (read in full...)
Am I overeacting for being angry when he doesn't call after saying he will?
Q. When my boyfriend says he'll call me this time and once when it gets close to the time he either says give me 5min and once when his 5min r up he says he's not going to call it happens often I get mad and fusterated at him for doing that. Do u think ...
A. 18 August 2010: Yep I think you are over-reacting. You need to chill out. Guys your age can be very flaky. Just don't be waiting around for him to call, miss a few of them. Guys really don't like needy control freaks.... (read in full...)
Seeking an OCD/Sexual Insecurity Therapist in New York CIty
Q. {Mod Note - OP's own title] I am looking for a therapist in Manhattan or Brooklyn who specializes in OCD and Sexual Insecurity. Can anyone make any recommendations?...
A. 18 August 2010: Google it over and over again?... (read in full...)
My husband wants me to dump my friend!!
Q. So two years ago, when my husband was just my boyfriend back in the day, we both had this friend, "Angel" something happened and she ended up threatening to beat up my husbands two younger sisters. Right from the get go of that incident I told each ...
A. 17 August 2010: Who's more important to you?... (read in full...)
Should I end my 3 YEAR AFFAIR???
Q. I have been having an affair for three years. We are both married. I'm trying to figure out: If I should stay in my marriage, end it and tell my husband? Or get out of my marriage. It's not fair to my husband to continue this in this way. ...
A. 17 August 2010: Tell your husband and you two decide what you should do. Let the guy you are screwing around with deal with his own wife and marriage.... (read in full...)
My ex asked me if I was dating a girl, so I told her the truth... Was this wrong?
Q. My ex girlfriend has asked me if I'm dating somebody. I broke up with her almost two months ago after an eight month relationship. I was her first love. Just recently I started seeing a girl (lets call her Sarah). I've only been out with Sarah t...
A. 13 August 2010: She asked and you told the truth, if she didn't want to know she shouldn't have asked. Besides she is you ex, she needs to get over it.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to meet his ex
Q. my boyfriend likes to talk about his past sexual relationships, and he has also remained friends with several of his ex-girlfriends. now he wants me to meet one of them because of his friendship with her. i must admit that this really makes me feel ...
A. 13 August 2010: I'd go ahead and meet her. You should be able to ascertain if you have anything to worry about as far as their friendship goes. You may find you actually like her. On the other hand, if you refuse you may come across in a bad light in his eyes. ... (read in full...)
Every time I snoop I find things that I wish I wouldn't find
Q. This is a long story. I've been married for 4 yrs. I love my husband dearly but about every 2 months or so I get a gut feeling that something isn't right and start snooping. Every time i snoop i always either find text messages to other women or ...
A. 12 August 2010: This may be your only problem but it sure is a biggie. No he isn't going to change, he'll just lie some more and get better and better at hiding stuff from you. It's your call if you want to stay and put up with this shit. As far as ever trusting a ... (read in full...)
Sick from finding out ex cheated on me
Q. I hope someone can offer some advice. After a very difficult off and on summer, my girlfriend of 2 years recently broke up with me completely, telling me she had no feelings for me. She moved on to another guy almost immediately, and that was hard ...
A. 12 August 2010: I'm sorry this happened to you but most people have to go through this pain sometime or another. There is no quick fix. My best advice is to try to stay as busy as you can. When you go back to college, dive into your studies. One of the best things ... (read in full...)
I'm 21, He's 58 and been divorced 3 times! Could we be happy together?
Q. I am currently in a relationship with a 58-year old man. I just turned 21. We've been together for 7 months, and most of the time I think our relationship is very good. We are very comfortable with each other and have a great sex life. This is the ...
A. 12 August 2010: I think you have at least 37 reasons to be worried.... (read in full...)
Is it weird I'm in love with someone four times my age?
Q. Dear Cupid I was wondering if this is weird or not. Well I just started a new job at my local convienence store. My boss is really nice and I started to like him about 3 weeks ago. But now I have fallen in love with him. The weird part is that he ...
A. 12 August 2010: 13? Don't they have child labor laws in Canada? What is your job at this convenience store?... (read in full...)
Where should I draw the line with this needy, female friend of my husband?
Q. I am a 33 year old woman and my husband has recently ran into an old classmate at our girls softball game. He has been exchanging emails and calling each other everyday. My question is where do I draw the line. He insists they are. Only friends and ...
A. 12 August 2010: I'd nip this in the bud immediately. $300 bucks for a birthday party, sheesh. She's out of line, and HE needs to tell her to back off. This is no friendship.... (read in full...)
We are together after being separated but my wife is very distant now
Q. iam a 41 yr married male and have been married for 10 1/2 yrs we seperated for 8 mo and she called me to see if she could come live with me and try to work thimgs out after she had lost her job in arkansasi had moved to indiana and been doing well ...
A. 12 August 2010: No caps and a a huge run on sentence.... (read in full...)
I want real answers on whether I was adopted or not?
Q. I believe I am adopted. Everytime I start to probe, I don't get any real answers. It is aggrevating me. I was told once when I was younger, and I have lied to my self that it was not true. Now I don't know. I feel like I am being left out in the ...
A. 12 August 2010: What does your birth certificate say? You can request a copy from whatever county you were born in.... (read in full...)
Every time I snoop I find things that I wish I wouldn't find
Q. This is a long story. I've been married for 4 yrs. I love my husband dearly but about every 2 months or so I get a gut feeling that something isn't right and start snooping. Every time i snoop i always either find text messages to other women or ...
A. 12 August 2010: Your marriage is a sham. He obviously doesn't have a clue or care that his behavior is hardly within the bounds of marriage. Show him the door. At least you've only wasted 4 years on the idiot.... (read in full...)
How do I ask her out?
Q. dear cupid i want to ask you a question, i really like this woman i see every day but she is very shy like me how do i approach this woman do i buy her a bunch of flowers then ask her out and where do i take her any suggestion as i'm new to this. as ...
A. 11 August 2010: Skip the flowers and just ask her out for a cup of coffee or tea. Take her to the nicest coffee shop you can find.... (read in full...)
Going through divorce wife using our son as a pawn
Q. I need advice on my failing marriage as it relates to my son, who's 12. My wife and I are in the process of divorcing. THere is some resent on her part toward me, and she tends to not want to be around me (we live apart). I see my son at least ...
A. 11 August 2010: Your family trips together flew out the window when you guys decided to divorce. Your son will adapt to only seeing you separately. I think it will be much less confusing to him in the long run. Once they realize the divorce is a real and permanent ... (read in full...)
How many guys will you have to sleep with to be considered a whore?
Q. How many guys will you have to sleep with to be considered a whore? is three that many when your only 16?...
A. 11 August 2010: Well what do you know? I was just screwing around, no pun intended.... (read in full...)
I love my husband but can't take his drunked shenanigans anymore!
Q. I have been married or over 20 years I love my husband very much. He also says he loves me. But anytime we go out with friends or just go out. He thinks he has to find another women to hang onto and follow around. He gets drunk and hugs on them. He ...
A. 11 August 2010: Tell him in no uncertain terms that he is to knock this nonsense off and then maybe use some positive reinforcement...do you have a caste iron frying pan by any chance? By the way he's the one who looks ridiculous, he should be embarassed, not you.... (read in full...)
Found out things about my wife's past and need to learn how to love her all over again.
Q. Hi, I have been married for 14 years and have 2 kids ages 6 and 8.Two years ago I stumbled upon some old correspondence from my wife's ex boyfriend. When confronted with it she made light of the issue. I did some digging and found out that she has ...
A. 11 August 2010: We have a resident expert on this very issue. Go to the Top agony aunts and click on YOS. His adice will be very helpful. Just know you are definitely not alone. Best of luck.... (read in full...)
How many guys will you have to sleep with to be considered a whore?
Q. How many guys will you have to sleep with to be considered a whore? is three that many when your only 16?...
A. 11 August 2010: I heard it was 7.3... (read in full...)
Scared of sex but wanting a child, can I become pregnant by injecting my husband's semen?
Q. I am scared of proper sex and in my house everyone want baby, So my husband fill his sperm in a dropper and put it in my vagina..........is it possible that in this way i can become pregnant?...
A. 11 August 2010: They don't call it labor PAIN for nothing you know.... (read in full...)
Do women care what a man looks like? Or do they just get turned on by the attention from men?
Q. This is kind of a subtle question, and I am not sure if I can even articulate it right. But do you women, especially married ladies, care at all what men look like? It seems you get turned on by mens attention. In other words, you get turned on ...
A. 11 August 2010: Okay let's hear the story that made you come to this conclusion.... (read in full...)
Involved with married man whose wife says he's cheating both of us.
Q. I was involved with a Married man who had been seperated from his wife for 14 months when I had meet him. We were together for 8 months up until last night.He told me he loved me and I was the first woman he had fallen in love with on his own terms, ...
A. 11 August 2010: What a player, get rid unless you enjoy pain.... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out or is it just too weird with her facebook page?
Q. First let me start by saying that this is my sisters page I am not a female I am a male age 30. I am interested in this young lady age 23 and I just saw something on her twitter page that bothered me. She posted "what.the.f**k. some chick just ...
A. 11 August 2010: So don't ask her out, find another girl who is more acceptable to you. What's the big deal? ... (read in full...)
His mother meddles in our relationship constantly but he's a mummie's boy!
Q. Is there hope?..... Help I'm 44 yrs old I date a man who still lives at home after 8 yrs of dating. He also lies about everything from his thinking he is a celebrity to why he still lives at home. He blames me for all that goes wrong in his life and ...
A. 10 August 2010: If you aren't happy then it's time to move on, this guy is not going to change. Eventually his mother is going to croak but I highly doubt that will make any of his bad habits any better, so I'd say "see ya later alligator" if I were in your shoes.... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my old teacher, what should I do?
Q. hey guys, I'm 16 and I'm helplessly in love with my old sports teacher. yes, old, as in he was my primary school teacher, I'm in year ten now, and it's been around 3 years since I started loving him. He's about 10 years older than i am and he is ...
A. 9 August 2010: Even though you may be "legal" it is still very illegal for an adult to mess with you and very illegal for a teacher, whether it was a former teacher or not. But thank you for being today's teacher crush posting.... (read in full...)
I loaned a friend money, he promised to pay it back but still hasnt!
Q. I have a friend...well I use that loosely now...but at one point we had somewhat of an interest in one another but nothing really came of it when he realized I wasn't going to have sex with him. But we remained friends. While I was on vacation ...
A. 9 August 2010: Consider it to be a $230 payment to get rid of a deadbeat friend. Only give a friend or family member money if you don't expect to get repaid.... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out or is it just too weird with her facebook page?
Q. First let me start by saying that this is my sisters page I am not a female I am a male age 30. I am interested in this young lady age 23 and I just saw something on her twitter page that bothered me. She posted "what.the.f**k. some chick just ...
A. 6 August 2010: Wowie zowie, you already have issues and you haven't even ask her out yet! Yeah you should think twice about asking her out, maybe even asking anybody out. Chill buddy. I hate Facebook.... (read in full...)
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