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writes: I am seeing a married guy 3 or 4 times a year we meet in cities away from home in Fl and or Ca I am 69 and he is 40. When in Ca I have dinner with him and his wifr, I am goig to Ca next and he suggested I stay at his home. Good idea ?????"??
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reader, jp23 +, writes (24 May 2011):
 Is this a retorical question? I mean, I wouldn't feel comfortable sleeping with a guy thats tooken and sleep under his roof with his spouse too. I agree with the writer that says its the one place thats her own, give her that much respect. go to a motal down the road.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2011): No I don't think its a good idea. Because when she finds out it will make her feel even worse to know she was welcoming you into her home. Leave her something to call her own even if it is only the sanctity of her home.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (23 May 2011):
 Does his wife know he's homosexual/bisexual?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2011): Bad bad idea....I advise that you stop seeing him and walk away
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reader, IAMDONE +, writes (23 May 2011):
I know you already know the answer to your question. You did not make it to 60 not knowing how to cross the street. I would like to ask you a few questions that may just maybe jog your senses!
What you the purpose of your staying at the home he and his wife built tpgether? Do you plan on sleeping in the bed with him that he shares with his wife? What is the purpose of you staying there and why would he ask you?
Both of you should respect his wife...he does not, it is a great idea that you do, regardless of what others think.
Be careful...you are playing with fire.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (23 May 2011):
 Nothing about your situation seems to have been built on a foundation of "good ideas".
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