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He got real personal. Did I overreact? Should I meet him?

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Question - (19 May 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 19 May 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

well, I've been single for 2 yrs now haven't really liked anyone since i split with my ex. Anyways I started talking to this guy on facebook well he talked to me first, we have arranged to meet up (in a public place I'm careful lol) but we haven't even met yet and he says how he really likes me and maybe be with me :S also he has asked me how many guys I've slept with and how long was it before i slept with my ex, it made me really uncomfortable so i told to mind his business and maybe we shouldn't meet up. I'm just wondering did i overreact? shall i give him a chance?

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (19 May 2011):

eyeswideopen agony auntSounds very creepy to me.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2011):

I left the question

yer that is what my mate said to me, when I asked him why he wanted to know he said he didn't wanna go out with a girl who had slept round but yer not going to meet him lol bad idea thank you

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (19 May 2011):

I think you'd do better to move on. This guy sounds like all he wants is one thing - sex. I don't see why he needed to ask that question before he's even met you, and so soon into just talking. I wouldn't meet him.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (19 May 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntyou did not over-react. there is something about the internet that gives folks more bravery to ask things they would never ask face to face early in a relationship...

go ahead and meet him in a public place but hold your ground and keep it casual... see how it goes

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