How to talk to the girl who really hates me....
Q. i love a girl. first she use to talk normally. one day she came to know that i likes her. she started hating me. when i tried to talk she just replys for questions. and trys to stop the conversaton, she did'nt add me in her facebook, even though i ...
A. 15 April 2011: Google it.... (read in full...)
Does it hurt when your cherry is popped?
Q. what are the signs to knowing your cherry (hymen) was popped during intercourse??? is is suppose to hurt? ...
A. 14 April 2011: You may not bleed. But if you have had sexual intercourse you've been popped. Did you?... (read in full...)
My girlfriend liked sex with her ex better because he was "larger". How do a I deal with this?
Q. I know a lot of people on this board are tired of the never-ending penis size questions, but please bear with me. The answers to most questions are "it's how you use it" and "women don't care about size", etc. But, what if you're in a situation ...
A. 14 April 2011: Did your girlfriend ACTUALLY say she liked having sex with that guy MORE than she likes having sex with you??? Because for most women there is so much more involved with good sex than just the act itself. If you do not satisfy her then you need to ... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend's family so hateful to me?
Q. I really wasn't sure how to title this question. Me and my boyfriend have been together two and a half years now and are very happy. Although through out the time we have been together a lot of people have tried coming between us. We have alwa...
A. 14 April 2011: I think it's time for your boyfriend to discuss this with his parents. If they continue to be so nasty, stay completely away from them. Does your boyfriend still live at home? If so maybe he needs to move out. Their behavior is too hurtful and you ... (read in full...)
Does it hurt when your cherry is popped?
Q. what are the signs to knowing your cherry (hymen) was popped during intercourse??? is is suppose to hurt? ...
A. 14 April 2011: After you have intercourse for the first time, consider it poppped.... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend's family so hateful to me?
Q. I really wasn't sure how to title this question. Me and my boyfriend have been together two and a half years now and are very happy. Although through out the time we have been together a lot of people have tried coming between us. We have alwa...
A. 13 April 2011: You have no idea why all of a sudden they are being so hateful? Something must have happened to change their attitude so drastically. I'd sit down with your boyfriend and do some brainstorming. Maybe the two of you can figure all this out.... (read in full...)
What are the good things about being single?
Q. I realised yesterday that I've mentioned to one of my friends three times in the past few months that I miss being in a relationship. I was a bit shocked at myself because I don't want to turn into one of those people who feel as if they need to be ...
A. 13 April 2011: Toilet seat stays down, towels stay off the floor, you KNOW FOR SURE that you are the only one drinking directly out of the milk carton.... (read in full...)
At what age is a woman no longer attractive?
Q. When does a woman lose her "hotness"? What age is considered no longer attractive? I would love to hear all opinions from women, men, all ages. Thanks!...
A. 13 April 2011: Thanks Buddy, lava and purple push ups!... (read in full...)
How to talk to the girl who really hates me....
Q. i love a girl. first she use to talk normally. one day she came to know that i likes her. she started hating me. when i tried to talk she just replys for questions. and trys to stop the conversaton, she did'nt add me in her facebook, even though i ...
A. 13 April 2011: Why do I have a cartoon of Pepe Le Pew running through my brain?... (read in full...)
At what age is a woman no longer attractive?
Q. When does a woman lose her "hotness"? What age is considered no longer attractive? I would love to hear all opinions from women, men, all ages. Thanks!...
A. 13 April 2011: I just turned 59 so it will be any day now...... (read in full...)
I'm not happy about boyfriend's secretiveness about me!
Q. hi, i've been seeing a man for over 8 months now and he says he loves me and i do love him too. we're both in our mid forties and although I live with my son in my own house, he lives with his mother in a small spare room. The trouble is, for me...
A. 13 April 2011: There's nothing set in stone about meeting someone's family for the first time. So I'd just let him take his time as long as you truly know he lives with his parents. Married guys have pulled this trick you know.... (read in full...)
Does it hurt when your cherry is popped?
Q. what are the signs to knowing your cherry (hymen) was popped during intercourse??? is is suppose to hurt? ...
A. 13 April 2011: Everybody's different. Some people don't feel a thing and some feel intense pain and some everything in between.... (read in full...)
Suspicions were correct, boyfriend married,and I don't want to fall in depression because of it
Q. Hello, I have just found out that my so-called boyfriend that loves me (or says he does) was lying to me the whole time. I have asked him several times, was he married and he replied that he was not and that he was very happy with me. I have to ...
A. 13 April 2011: Leave the married guy totally alone, stay busy, and keep patting yourself on your back for doing the right thing. I don't think you sound at risk for depression. You'll be fine.... (read in full...)
Rare to have sex and g/f won't let me do anything unusual
Q. me and my gf have hardly had sex. we have been together 3 years now. when we do have sex. she will only let me go down on her and a little intercorse. she wont ever go down on me and wont do anal. can u help please?...
A. 13 April 2011: Yep, if you are unhappy get a new girlfriend.... (read in full...)
Why did my husband fondle me then go masturbate in the bathroom when we were at a friend's house?
Q. I do not have any idea how to title this question. I am 31 and my husband is 32. We were at some friends' house recently. He came to me and asked to come with him. We went into a bedroom and he closed and locked the door. He said to me to get ...
A. 12 April 2011: I'd just chalk it up to one of the many weird things guys do. I wish I had a nickel for each one. Just be glad it was your boobs he was fondling and let it go.... (read in full...)
Can one really fall in love at 15?
Q. Hello! Apparently, this time I wanted to consult the experts if it is normal to start falling in love at the tender age of 15? One of my good friends, Jen, said that she had this......for a boy.......I personally find it weird and my mom and grandma ...
A. 11 April 2011: Falling in love and falling out of love, both can happen at 15, sometimes within the same 24 hours. That's the agony and the ecstasy of being a teenager. Enjoy your passage, it's a one way ticket.... (read in full...)
What can I do to get back at him for all the pain he has caused me?
Q. I am going to make a long story short, so if u want more info just ask. My ex and i dated for three months and then he dumped me, he told me while we were split up that he still loved me, that he fucked up, he wants another chance, and was kissing ...
A. 11 April 2011: Well you can grow up, get a good education, get a good career, and have a successful and happy life. That'll teach him.... (read in full...)
Tossing BF's pregnant friend and son out isn't an option. Need advice on my relationship with BF.
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for close to 3 years. (Me-26, Him-29) The problem is his best friend, who happens to be female. Over the years, she's lived with my boyfriend off and on as she's trying to get on her feet. She has a son from a ...
A. 11 April 2011: Doesn't she have any family you can palm her off on? Tell your boyfriend it's time to piss or get off the pot. It is up to him to clear the moocher out. If he doesn't start working on it then I'd walk if I were you.... (read in full...)
Is it flirting if he gives me a nickname?
Q. ok so this guy i like it seems that we flirt to me and my friends but im not sure if its the same for him. Ok so he gave me a little nickname and and we tease eachother is this flirting?...
A. 11 April 2011: Kinda sorta... (read in full...)
Am I sending the wrong message?
Q. I’m 33 years old woman and always dress up even on Sundays when I want to go out to have a cup of coffee, I m not originally from the USA. I see here women go out with pajama to be honest at the beginning I was amazed how they can go to university ...
A. 11 April 2011: that's "lady's hand" hey was that a Freudian slip?... (read in full...)
Was it my penis size that did not satisfy her sexually?
Q. i have a girlfriend. i had sex for first time but she was not so much satisfied. my penis size is 5.5" is it normal? and i ejaculate early. so natural ways to stop my early ejaculation?...
A. 11 April 2011: Wowie zowie I almost DID miss this question, CC! It is always my daily little piece of sunshine.
OP you are normal (yawn) and you should think about baseball while having sex.... (read in full...)
Am I sending the wrong message?
Q. I’m 33 years old woman and always dress up even on Sundays when I want to go out to have a cup of coffee, I m not originally from the USA. I see here women go out with pajama to be honest at the beginning I was amazed how they can go to university ...
A. 11 April 2011: I live in the south and it's considered to be very bad form to shake a lay's hand unless she offers it first. If some one has bad manners then your best option is to ignore the extended hand. As far as dressing nicely, keep it up, we all appreciate ... (read in full...)
Why isn't this guy making any moves? Is he gay?
Q. Im a 14 year old girl and i have a crush on this guy in my class.Well i thought he liked me back so i started staring at him alot to get him to make the first move.Well He started looking at me the way i looked at him and i felt he had a crush on me ...
A. 11 April 2011: Because the guy's only around 14 and he's not ready to start getting involved with girls. More power to him. Relax and enjoy these footloose and fancy free years. Plenty of time in the furture to put on a ball and chain.... (read in full...)
My sister is a squatter. How can my parents get her to leave?
Q. My sister got pregnant and my parents let her stay at home. now that the child is 1 year old now they want her to leave and get a house of her own. they have constantly told her to go cause all she does is causes hassle and fights with everyone. She ...
A. 11 April 2011: What's the best thing to do for the child?... (read in full...)
Can I satisfy and get her pregnant with this size?
Q. dear mam i have penis in 5.8" and girth 5.5" is this penis can fully satisfy a women and get pregnancy with this size of penis ?...
A. 8 April 2011: I was sooo worried DB what a relief.... (read in full...)
My ex and I are trying to be friends, but I can't help but wonder what will happen when I leave town and we must say goodbye?
Q. Hey all, I'm struggling to keep my mind off my ex. We were only together for 4 1/2 months, but the relationship was highly significant to me. I loved her very much. After the break up I decided that I didn't want to risk losing her entirely, so...
A. 8 April 2011: Hi Andy, old Buddy, I see you are still leading with that chin of yours. Poor baby, you have such a soft heart. I'm looking forward to the day you come to DC and tell us you have finally found the right one, you certainly deserve it. ... (read in full...)
I am secretly dating my cousin. Now her sister is threatening to tell our family about it unless we have sex with her, too!
Q. Ok, My cousin and I have been dating for close to a year without either of our families knowing or finding out. But just recently, her younger sister came forward to us about knowing about our relationship. She's threatening to tell our respective ...
A. 8 April 2011: I just love the "Three Billy Goats Gruff" story. Trolls are really funny aren't they?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is acting ungratefully. How should I handle this?
Q. My boyfriend asked me to buy him a expensive pair of shoes that I can not afford right now. I was straight up with him and told him that I couldn't afford them right now and his reply was that he never ask me for anything and if it was something ...
A. 7 April 2011: Why can't he buy his own damn shoes? Are you his Sugar Mama or something?... (read in full...)
A thank you to everyone here who's helped me
Q. I've been on dearcupid for 6 years now. Over the years, I have asked many questions, and have given the best advice I could from expeirence. I'm recently engaged to the most wonderful man I could ever hope for, and find that I can talk to him about ...
A. 7 April 2011: I want you to name names...... (read in full...)
We want a baby, but it's not working. I'm scared a doctor won't approve.
Q. I am 16 going on 17 and me and my boyfriend have been trying for a baby for months. I have been wanting this for a long time now but nothing is happening. I am willing to do anything for this baby. I am scared if i go to my doctors, he will go ...
A. 7 April 2011: Wonderful answer from TasteofIndia, please listen to her.
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My 8 year old daughter is telling people she has a brother when she is an only child, how do I deal with this situation?
Q. I have just got back from having a chat with my daughters teacher.My daughter is 8yrs old.The teacher had mentioned about my daughter being tierd one particular day.She had told her teacher that her young brother had kept her awake most the night. I...
A. 5 April 2011: At her age, children will invent imaginary playmates. It's just a phase, she isn't lying she's imagining. There is a difference. Relax Mom, she'll grow out of it.... (read in full...)
I love my husband but I think I may have been happier with his brother....
Q. I have been with my husband foralmost 6 years. Before i met my husband i was friends with his brother who i also had feelings for. I still have feelings for him and sometimes i find myself wishing that i had told him how i felt and persued a ...
A. 4 April 2011: For all sad words of tongue or pen, the saddest are these "it might have been."
-John Greenleaf Whittier
Take a deep breath, have a deep sigh, then move on with your life. ... (read in full...)
Husband hates me wearing a bra...
Q. I am a 31 year old woman and a newlywed school teacher. My husband teaches at the same school. My situation is that my husband does not like me to wear a bra. At nights and on weekends, he does not want to see me in a bra. During the entire ...
A. 4 April 2011: Gravity is gravity, you'll end up sagging sooner or later whether you wear a bra or not. But I think that your choice of underwear should be entirely up to you...and at all times. I know! Tell your husband you want him to wear a jock strap all the ... (read in full...)
I don't want a relationship with him, but I still want to maintain our friendship. How do I manage this?
Q. Hey everybody. I'm a 14 year old girl and I met a very sweet, caring guy on the internet. He's told he likes me, he even used the "L" word. The problem is, he's 22. I do like him but the age gap is too much for me to handle. In addition, he lives ...
A. 1 April 2011: Just don't agree to meet him anywhere. Don't send him any pictures, NONE. Don't give him your address or personal information that could allow him to track you down. He could be big trouble. Does he know you are only 14? If he does then he could BE ... (read in full...)
Worried about my penis size
Q. i have a 5.7 inch erect penis length and 4.3 girth is this enough to satisfy a girl?......
A. 31 March 2011: The day is complete.... (read in full...)
I've had a lesbian relationship before and now find I am in love with my son's teacher.
Q. I've been head over heel in love with my son's teacher for nearly 18 months. I've been in a lesbian relationship once a long time ago and now I know that she is the right one and all I want. Cheesy but true. I wish I knew what to do!!! Let her know ...
A. 31 March 2011: Take care of your marriage situation before you think about doing anything else. If you are going to leave your husband don't wait until you have another fish frying in the pan, that's just plain unclassy. Do the right thing so you don't lose your ... (read in full...)
I've had a lesbian relationship before and now find I am in love with my son's teacher.
Q. I've been head over heel in love with my son's teacher for nearly 18 months. I've been in a lesbian relationship once a long time ago and now I know that she is the right one and all I want. Cheesy but true. I wish I knew what to do!!! Let her know ...
A. 31 March 2011: Are you married? Is she married? Do you even know whether she is a lesbian?... (read in full...)
I have competion with a 65 year old woman?
Q. Can someone please help me with this situation as I have never known one like it. Ive being going with a guy for the past 5 months. We live very close to each other, 5 mins away. He has never being committed to this relationship and I have often ...
A. 31 March 2011: Just how old is this guy anyway?... (read in full...)
I'm sending this letter to my lover, what do you think?
Q. I'm sending this letter to my lover, What do you think? It breaks my heart having to say these words to you, but I feel that our relationship has ran its course. It has been wonderful knowing you, you are a great man. I'm sorry that I have to s...
A. 29 March 2011: I think you should stick it in an envelope, put a stamp on it, and drop it in the mailbox.... (read in full...)
The thought of having sex scares me. Is there something wrong with me?
Q. I am 19 years old and I am pretty sure I could live without sex. I am a bit concerned as to whether it is normal that I don't want to have sex, or do anything sexual pretty much. I've had a very good upbringing, liberal parents and I'm studying well ...
A. 29 March 2011: You are just fine and dandy, not ready to sex yet, but just fine and dandy. You'll change your viewpoint on sex when you meet the right guy. Relax sweetheart.... (read in full...)
Anything wrong with our ages?
Q. Can a 17 year old who will be turning 18 in a month date an have sex with a 19 year old?...
A. 29 March 2011: Can or Should?... (read in full...)
Should my baby have the father's name if he does not show up for the birth??
Q. What as should I do???... I am 39weeks pregnant an well be getting induce tomorrow!..My babys father left me about a month ago . he completly ignors me an does not check to see how im feeling. You can say I have ((dead beat baby daddy)) for some ...
A. 28 March 2011: You'll save yourself alot of trouble and confusion in the future if you give the baby YOUR last name. Other wise make lots of copies of the birth certificate cause you be showing it often to prove you are the baby's mother. And since the Dad isn't ... (read in full...)
A little humility goes a long way
Q. I’ve been a moderator here on DC for a while and it’s a great forum. It really irritates me though when the OP shows no regard for the aunts who’ve taken time to answer questions. We moderators don’t know you, yet we spend time poring over ever...
A. 28 March 2011: I find the battles can be more invigorating than a thank you.... (read in full...)
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