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writes:Every guy I have gone out with has broken up with me and i dont know why!I try not to be so clingy, I try not to hug all of my guy friends all the time. I dont know what I do wrong.It seems as if I'll always be lonely :( Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2011): I feel the same way at times, that I'll be lonely for ever. But its not the way to think- you have to put down all these things as experiences and grow as a person for going through these things. You just havent found the right guy yet, which is fine, you have plenty of time to find the right guy. Don't rush into finding someone, because if someone is meant to be in your life, they will be. Just try to be yourself, dont be too shy, but also dont be too confident! Make sure your comfortable with whoever you are with, because that is the most important thing :) I hope this helps xx
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (23 May 2011):
 How about just being yourself? Boys and girls at your age are fickle!
I don't think there is anything wrong with you, but maybe you are looking for something in the wrong kind of guys?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (23 May 2011):
 At your age you SHOULD be going through boyfriends like tissues. Relax and enjoy these years, they are gone before you know it.
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (23 May 2011):
 Hi
maybe your just trying to hard to be nice all the time, saying yes to everything, and running around after them? there is nothing wrong with giving a freind a hug, male or femle, as long as its just that a hug, not a long lingering one. You say you try NOT to be clingy? Im guessing you have low self esteam? and lack confidence? The next guy you meet, you REALLY need to play it cool, even if its breaking you up inside to be with them, falling to easy for a guy can be very off putting for him. It would drive anyone away, the old saying goes if you love something enough you set it free, and if it loves you back it will always fly back to you. Why dont you join a few things, like the gym, or dance classes, this way you will keep yourself busy so you wont feel the need to suffocate your partner. and this will actually give them the chance to fall inlove with you ;)
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (23 May 2011):
 You're a teenager. That's the answer to all your questions. This is what happens when people are immature, don't know yet who they are or what they want, hormones are raging, and everything is over dramatized.
This doesn't say anything at all about how your love life will be when you grow up, so relax. This doesn't say anything at all about whether or not you will be lonely the rest of your life. You're over dramatizing it. Wait until you're older before you start jumping to conclusions and getting desperate. As for now... just be you, and maybe wait a bit with dating.
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