My boyfriend has suddenly gone crazy over my male friend being at the party with me and now he is ignoring me! What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2 and half years. And I love him more than words can say. He has the potential to be an amazing partner, friend, lover, etc. But, he has put me through a lot in a short amount of time. Everything from ...
A. 20 February 2012: Maybe you see his great potential but it sure eludes me. I think he sounds like he's around 13 to tell the truth. He hangs up and then ignores you? The only potential I see here is for a very tiresome life with this guy. Tell him to look you up if ... (read in full...)
Should I give my son's father another chance?
Q. my ex (we will call him Kyle) and I were together forever, we started "dating" in middle school (we were 13 I think) we were best friends and everything we did we did together. Shortly after graduation things went down hill. We were both in college ...
A. 17 February 2012: I'd say yes to another chance but make sure you pay attention to any warning signs and gut feelings. Take it slowly. I wish you the best of luck.... (read in full...)
Should I tell my g/f about my fetish
Q. Hi there. I'm a 30 year old male and have been going out with my g/f for nearly 4 year's now, we both love each other dearly, we are having our 1st child soon and I think she could be the woman I want to spend the rest of my life with. The problem ...
A. 17 February 2012: See if she's willing to taking a bath with you. ... (read in full...)
I don't want a baby right now, but it seems like my body is screaming at me to have one
Q. I'm 16. I'm in a stable relationship with a guy who I adore (don't care how immature this sounds- he makes me the happiest I've ever felt and treats me like a princess). Ever since meeting him, I've become so broody. Like, I can't stop looki...
A. 17 February 2012: Keep repeating your last sentence over and over whenever the thought of having a baby crosses your mind and keep repeating it until the thought goes away. It is so true that a baby is the last thing you need at this point in your life. There will be ... (read in full...)
Ex hubby changed with new girl??
Q. he is my ex husband. We divorced last year. We had a child together but he took the custody of her. He was really wealthy, really good looking, had a nice body, was quite well known and quite successful at his job. However he had been cheating on...
A. 17 February 2012: I guess you just needed a little rant because I don't see what you are asking the aunts/uncles. I hope you can get back into the gym instructor field again soon. It will help you focus on your own life and less on the ex's new marriage. ... (read in full...)
Why are you on DearCupid?
Q. Someone asked me via PM "well you are here to help people" And someone else and I got to talking in message about that and I wonder... WHY do YOU post to DC? Are you here to help yourself? (or did you come to help yourself and stayed to help...
A. 17 February 2012: I'm here because it was a stipulation in my community service.... (read in full...)
Does meeting his mom and sister mean he wants to be more than friends?
Q. Hi everyone: Hope you guys can give me your opinion. I have been good friends with this guy for awhile. Last week his mother and sister showed up at an event where I was with him. It was unexpected on my part but he knew they were coming. Do you t...
A. 16 February 2012: It's simply good manners to introduce whomever you are with when you encounter people YOU know. Did he say "This is my special friend, good friend, girlfriend (your name)" or did he just say "This is (your name)"? This event, was it a date he made ... (read in full...)
How can I identify and where can I meet women who will not cheat on me?
Q. I am 23 and I have only had one girl friend who broke my heart, the reason why I dont date a lot is mainly because of that and I am slighty shy around the oppsite sex. Anyways here is my Question where can I meet women who will not cheat on me?...
A. 16 February 2012: Faithful Girlfriends R Us?... (read in full...)
Do his flowers mean he's serious about me?
Q. I just started dating a guy and received flowers for valentines day. Does this mean he's serious?...
A. 15 February 2012: What kind of flowers were they?... (read in full...)
I don't think I should go out with this boy because people will pick on us!
Q. well hello agony aunts I am new as you can see and I'm pretty sure i will ask you a lot more questions in the future: but here is my question: it's this boy that i like a lot i liked him for 3 and 1/2 years i like him and he like me.i know he lik...
A. 15 February 2012: Obviously you are not ready to start dating just yet. Give yourself some more time.... (read in full...)
Ex says I don't deserve her. Should I fight for her or move on?
Q. My ex and I broke up last month. Less than a week later she tells me she's seeing someone new. I have had time to work on myself and want to give it another shot with her. However, she doesn't. Today she told me she still loves me but can't let ...
A. 15 February 2012: My best guess is that someone else will benefit from the new and improved you, this particular lady is definitely not interested.... (read in full...)
A German in the middle
Q. Hi and help I need your advice please. My name is Mr Birmingham, and I met Mr Poole on net 16 months ago and I have always been trouble because Mr Poole came out to his wife and accepted him for gay a couple of years before she died, 22 months ...
A. 15 February 2012: Okay...what Tish said.... (read in full...)
Why doesn't anyone ever like me?
Q. Okay so valentines this year has me thinking. I never had a boyfriend ever. The guys I always like never like me they always see me as their bestfriend. I am a smart girl, I'm chubby but I look good, I sing,have a nice personality,nice style I'm ...
A. 14 February 2012: You have quite a bit going for you that's for sure except for maybe one thing...patience. It will happen but you have to wait for it. While you are waiting have some fun with your friends and make some teenage memories.... (read in full...)
What did he mean when he said that he still thinks about me?
Q. I wondered if you could help me clear my head slightly. I got a text afew days ago that had a certain sentence on the bottom that confused the hell out of me. I'll try and give you a basic story without boring you. basically I had been friends wit...
A. 13 February 2012: Time to move on Dear, that's what everyone told you the last time you posted this. He most likely feels bad for hurting your feelings but he's definitely does not want to pursue a relationship with you. Pull yourself up by your bootstraps and get on ... (read in full...)
The sex law does not stop any teenager from having sex, why is it always slammed in our faces that we're underage?
Q. Hi, i am not looking to have sex. But i have questions on the sex law. It doesn't stop anyone! I know a pregnant 8th grader! On secret life of the american teenager, amy got pregnant at 15! But why when girls my age (15) ask to go on the pill, its ...
A. 10 February 2012: There's a law against murder as well but that doesn't stop some people from committing it either. So what's your point? And you do understand that "underage" is a temporary condition, right?... (read in full...)
I want a close female friend! How do I do this?
Q. This may sound funny to you all but that what am about to say is just the truth. Ever since i was born i have never have a close female friend,who we can do things together. But i do interact with people i meet and my class mate,but not as close as ...
A. 10 February 2012: To make a friend you have to be a friend. Perhaps you are just a little bit too reserved. Friends usually have common interests so maybe if you join a group activity doing something that interests you, you will meet a new friend. Relax, be yourself, ... (read in full...)
My crush thinks I like someone else. How will he ever find out the truth?
Q. Today i cried in school (i was alone) because i was so stressed out. It was break time then. My crush came into the room and kept pressing on why i look sad. I told him i was fine and he gave up on asking but he kept coming back to the class. ...
A. 10 February 2012: Sounds like he really likes you, see what develops. Have some fun Sweetheart.... (read in full...)
Should my mother allow me to spend the night with my boyfriend?
Q. Okay so I wanted to know that if your 16 years old and your boyfriend is 17, and you guys have been together for a year and seven months but have known each other for three years. Should you be able to stay the night with him. My boyfriend lives an ...
A. 10 February 2012: Kudos to your mom, we need more like her.... (read in full...)
Is the fact that she's pretty a good enough reason to ask her out?
Q. Ok so there's this girl i like and want to ask out but i dont know if i should. The only reason i want to ask her out is because she's gorgeous, i dont really know much about her. We see each other once a week due to work, and because we are working ...
A. 9 February 2012: The longest journey begins with the first step...... (read in full...)
Am I doing the right thing in giving Jake the silent treatment to make him man up and come talk to me?
Q. Okay, so this is kind of a long story (sorry in advance!) I am good friends with my roommate's boyfriend and his two roommates ( the two households hang out together a lot). One of them (let's call him Jake) and I started talking. My roommate had ...
A. 9 February 2012: I agree with the first answer. I don't think it matters whatever you do, Jake won't really care one way or the other. ... (read in full...)
Help ladies please! I'm petrified about my first smear test and need support please?
Q. I am 23 and I am having my first smear test Thursday, I am absolutely petrified, im shaking thinking about it, can anyone give me advice I hope im not the only one that feels like this?...
A. 8 February 2012: This post reminds me of a story I heard. A woman goes to get a pap smear and while her legs are up in the sirrups and the drape is over her legs the doctor comes in and says to her, "Well well we certainly got all dress up for the occasion!" ... (read in full...)
Affair with husband's brother, and husband is okay with it.
Q. My brother-in-law (husband's brother) and I have started to engage in an affair. It started about a month ago. Initially after we first had sex, he was feeling so guilty that he said he never wanted it to happen again. I also felt guilty for what ...
A. 7 February 2012: Do you have children for whom you are supposed to be a role model?... (read in full...)
Did he bump into me by accident?
Q. Ok, does this mean anything? Or am I reading into it too much because iv got feelings for him?..... He accidentaly bumped me with the door (I was entering, he was coming out) .... It wasn't hard at all and it didn't hurt at all.... He was very ...
A. 7 February 2012: Put your arm in a sling and see how he reacts.... (read in full...)
I'm always making excuses for my husband because he's obnoxious!
Q. I have been married for over 11 years. It is my second marriage and his second marriage. He can be very ignorant and obnoxious to our friends, neighbors and family. He is this way with his family too, not just mine. He often thinks of himself before ...
A. 7 February 2012: Did you guys date before you got married? I mean either he was able to hide and disguise his true nature the entire time you were dating up until the "I do's" or you just really, really wanted to get married no matter what. I agree with Honeypie, ... (read in full...)
Why did he start flirting with me when he is married? Is there a possibility they are seperated but still living together for financial reasons?
Q. Dear Cupid, I started having a crush on one of these guys at my work. We dont really work together since we work for two different companies but the grocery store houses the company i work for so we're not exactly co workers. Anyways... I sta...
A. 7 February 2012: Don't waste your time going down that road, it leads nowhere. You'll be very very sorry if you do. And by the way you HAVE gotten the only answer you need...he's married.... (read in full...)
Does he want my sympathy or is he letting me down gently but I'm not taking the hint?
Q. I was wondering if any of you has an idea of how guys go on about laying a girl down gently. I met this guy 6 months ago online and then he flew in to see me, we went out twice, then he went again on a business tour and will be back in a week or ...
A. 6 February 2012: I'd back off if I were you. Don't call, tweet, email etc...Let him do all the pursuing. I think you will have your answer in short order.... (read in full...)
Should we get another man involved because I cant get my wife to orgasm any more?
Q. My wife and I are seventy still want sex. I can't keep it hard to insert it in the vagina. I have had this problem for about five years, it just will not stay hard long enough, I can have a orgasm my wife uses a strong vibrator,on me and it still ...
A. 6 February 2012: I recommend you keep using the vibrator on each other. Bringing another man into your bedroom would just tarnish the loving memories you and your lovely bride have accrued together all these years.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has no hygiene and no self esteem! What do I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for four years. One of the problems I have with our relationship is that over the past couple of years he has turned into an epic slob. He doesn't just leave a disaster wherever he goes-- He does not brush his ...
A. 6 February 2012: Get a new boyfriend, one that washes himself. Time to trade up Deary.... (read in full...)
Meeting tomorrow with the man I had an affair with a year ago....
Q. I had an affair a year ago - we were both married and it was found out. It tore our families apart and we are now both seperated. I knew this person for approx 10 years and have had feelings for him for a long time. Our affair only lasted three ...
A. 6 February 2012: Are you still with your husband?... (read in full...)
Too shy to ask my boyfriend to kiss me! Help!
Q. Hi I'm 13 and i am shy around my bf and i really want him to kiss me any advice???...
A. 3 February 2012: I'd wait a couple years, you'll be much braver.... (read in full...)
I gave him a deposit but never bought the car, now he wants to keep 20% of the money! Is this legal or should I take him to court?
Q. Hi,i hope someone has a good advice for me in this case.I wanted to buy a car from owner but i did not have enough money.i saw the car and i talk to the owner about it;he ask me to give him what i have and i can bring him the rest and take the car ...
A. 3 February 2012: Hell forget about court costs, just retaining a lawyer is most likely gonna run you more than that 20%. I'd chalk it up to a lesson learned.... (read in full...)
In real life I've never wanted him to kiss me. So is my dream telling me otherwise?
Q. I just turned 18 and im having some confusing feelings. I see one of my mates twice a week (all-day) with a few of our other friends, but I was recently really annoyed by him and vice a versa. We sorted it out last week and that night I had a drea...
A. 3 February 2012: Last night I dreamt about getting my income taxes done and I can guarantee you that I'm NOT in love with the IRS.... (read in full...)
Is it possible to get back love after 3 years?
Q. We were in love for nearly 3 years. We know each other quite well, he brought me to see his family and he also visited my house, see my parents everyweek. I am Capricorn and he is Aries. One day, I got angry because he leave me for getting out ...
A. 2 February 2012: Sorry but the reason he is acting like this is because he couldn't care less about you. Stop calling, texting, emailing him. It's time to call it quits Honey.... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my mom's ex boyfriend from 23 years ago!
Q. I really need advice,I recently found my moms x from 23yrs ago when I was little he took such good care of me,then a few yrs ltr they went seperate ways,we tried to stay in contact,but failed,now after 20 yrs we are re-united,I have been really ...
A. 2 February 2012: I agree, how would your mom feel about you bonking her ex-boyfriend? And are you sure the ex-boyfriend is interested on that level? Remember you only have one mother.... (read in full...)
I want to be with my soul mate! But it's impossible!
Q. Reunited with my highschool sweetheart and she says she has always missed and loved me. I feel like she is my soulmate. I am getting a divorce currently seperated and she is in a loveless marriage but she has children we want so much to be together ...
A. 2 February 2012: So why is she staying in this so called loveless marriage? Are you sure you aren't being hoodwinked? And by the way, you haven't "reunited" if she is still married, you are just or just on the verge of committing adultery.... (read in full...)
We cant ever get married because he is 5 years younger than me, should I give up on the relationship now or carry on with him until I meet a more suitable partner?
Q. Dear cupid, I thank you for your enormous help that you've been rendering to us, I hope that you'll also see to my problem. I have a boyfriend whom I love so much and he loves me too, but my problem now is that I'm 5 years older than him. So I'm so ...
A. 1 February 2012: A 5 year difference is huge if you are 10 and he is 5, or 15 and 10, or 20 and 15, but 29 and 24...not so much.... (read in full...)
The heat wants what the heart wants....so do I tell my married lover how I feel about him knowing he would walk away? Or just keep quiet and carry on witht the affair?
Q. Im hurting and need some advice. I just came out of a horrible divorce and is still going through a nightmare of fighting and possible custody battle with my ex husband. Im trying to get my life back together and doing pretty good. Everything I do ...
A. 1 February 2012: Tell him how you feel and watch him walk away. "the heart wants what the heart wants"...oh please... (read in full...)
My husband tells his family every detail about our private life. Should I leave him?
Q. My husband of 26 years ago continuously tells everything to his family what happens in our life. Then the family becomes judgmental of our life. This is very humiliating for me. And we don't even live in the same country. They never tell their own ...
A. 31 January 2012: You've been putting up with it for 26 years, why are you addressing this now?... (read in full...)
He's 50, fit, separated and I want it to work. BUT? Can this relationship work better? How?
Q. This is long, so thank you to whoever is reading this… I’ve been in a relationship with a truly wonderful man for just over 3 years. I am now 26 and he is 50. Fortunately he has aged well and he keeps fit. I met him when he supposedly was separa...
A. 31 January 2012: When you ask him why he hasn't gotten a divorce yet, what does he tell you?... (read in full...)
Age difference and a dying girl
Q. Now, I'm not the type of girl to fall head over heels for anyone! In fact, I'm a junior in high school and I've never dated before. I'm really happy about this too. Not just proud but happy. I love being by myself and see no use for high school ...
A. 30 January 2012: If your parents and his parents are okay with it, then date him if you want. I personally would not let an 8th grader of mine date but perhaps his parents are more lenient. But good luck with your surgery whether you date the guy or not.... (read in full...)
I'm eight months pregnant and the baby's father is incommunicado.
Q. Hello, I need some advice please, I'm 35 weeks pregnant and the baby's father hasn't been in contact with me since we split up 3 month ago. I've tried ringing him and have had no answer to my calls or texts. Its like he isn't interested, and I hear ...
A. 30 January 2012: Make sure you get child support from the guy.... (read in full...)
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