My boyfriend is paying for all of his ex's bills and I don't think its right
Q. Hello everyone! I need some advice on a situation. I’ve been dating this guy for 1 month but I’ve known him for 5 months. I always said I would never date a guy with kids and when I asked him in the beginning if he has kids, he said he’s doing a DNA ...
A. 5 June 2012: Well if you broke up with him today, then it's moot at this point. I think you are very wise about not dating a guy with kids, you obviously can't handle that senario.... (read in full...)
How can I keep it a secret if I get involved with a married man?
Q. I posted a question earlier about a relationship with an older man who is married with children. I thought he was flirting with me and it turns out he was. We met to talk about the project we're both involved in and he drove me home (again!). I...
A. 5 June 2012: I hear hoof beats...ah here she comes, that high-riding bitch called Karma!... (read in full...)
My ex is married, but I'm still interested in him. What should I do?
Q. I dated a guy for short period but lost all contact until recently. he contacted me and tells me he's married (not his decision), but can't forget me. he wants to connect again. we were very good together and i know i'll be just as bad as he is if ...
A. 4 June 2012: And just what exactly will be the pay off for being bad? Sneaking around? Holidays alone? Heartbreak? Dead end future? I suggest you think this one out just a tad further.... (read in full...)
What's behind the lock out?
Q. I am a woman in her early 40s. Divorced 2 years and have dated a little but find dating difficult as I never did much before marrying my first husband of 20 years. I do have a boyfriend now. He asked me after only a few dates to see him exclusively. ...
A. 4 June 2012: Just curious, what caused the failure of your marriage?... (read in full...)
Why does my dad do this?
Q. I hate asking him for help with anything. So do my siblings. If you do ask, he turns everything around on you. He says things like "Why do I have to do EVERYTHING?" or "You'll have to wait, I'm doing everything else". "WHY am I the only person who ...
A. 1 June 2012: This doesn't ring true to me. Unless they have you chained to the bedpost, pack your bags and move out, they'll get over it. It just doesn't make sense that you are putting up with all of this "abuse" unless it's really not that bad after all and ... (read in full...)
Can I get a STD infection from having sex with 3 clean guys?
Q. I had sex with three guys unprotected the past 3 days drunk. I know they're all clean since I know all of them. My question is even though they're clean, can I contract a std from bodily fluid with 3 different guys in a short period of time. or some ...
A. 1 June 2012: And yes, that's how I type when I'm sober...... (read in full...)
Can I get a STD infection from having sex with 3 clean guys?
Q. I had sex with three guys unprotected the past 3 days drunk. I know they're all clean since I know all of them. My question is even though they're clean, can I contract a std from bodily fluid with 3 different guys in a short period of time. or some ...
A. 1 June 2012: Aren't you a little long in the tooth to be asking this very obvious question? Maybe you'd best stop the bender and get yurself sober and refocused.... (read in full...)
Am I doing the right thing by washing my hands of his kids and focusing on my own son?
Q. What it is.. I have a baby son who is 6 months old. My partner the babys dad has 6 other children, one of them that we don't know cuz he didnt wanna meet... 3 of them, his ex-wife's ones, used to come to ours every single week as I was inviting them ...
A. 31 May 2012: Because he sounds like a lazy ass father to me, thisjust means less work for you, honey. With him around you had TWO children to take care not to mention the extras that floated in every so often. Now you can get out there and make a wonderful life ... (read in full...)
Am I doing the right thing by washing my hands of his kids and focusing on my own son?
Q. What it is.. I have a baby son who is 6 months old. My partner the babys dad has 6 other children, one of them that we don't know cuz he didnt wanna meet... 3 of them, his ex-wife's ones, used to come to ours every single week as I was inviting them ...
A. 31 May 2012: Buck up Honey, things might have worked out for the best. At least I think they did.... (read in full...)
The pros and cons of getting a GED or repeating a grade?
Q. hello everyone during my suppose to be 10th grade year i was taking 9th grade classes and i was considered a 9.5 or a 9th grader so im going to say i was repeating. i really missed up during this year and missed majority of the school year and got ...
A. 24 May 2012: I work at a major university in NC and students with GED's are accepted without any problems as long as their SAT score is high enough. SVC is correct GEDs are very very hard and thus are given total respect. ... (read in full...)
Why do guys have to give up their porn but girls get to keep their toys?
Q. So I've been reading post about women upset about their boyfriends using porn and post about guys upset about their girlfriends using a vibrator. It strikes me odd at the double standard women have for vibrators and porn. Every post I read consist ...
A. 24 May 2012: The guinea pig blew out the margin.... (read in full...)
He left me for a younger woman but he still expects me to be kind to him.
Q. my husband left me for a girl that is 24 years younger than him.when i found out i was crushed, i saw no problems in our marriage. we both worked long hours, spent time together when we had days off. i cooked, cleaned, did yard work, layed his ...
A. 23 May 2012: Move on. Hopefully in the near future you won't give a rat's ass about what he wants or whether he's having a mid-life crisis. Do not give him the time of day, period. Why do you have to see him to get your support money? Have the dickhead mail it ... (read in full...)
This manager kept mumbling under his breath. Does he like me?
Q. i know this is a stupid question but i would really like to hear someones opinion. ive recently applied at a restaurant and i am now working there. when i went for my first interview the manager who interviewed me was very polite like should be. but ...
A. 23 May 2012: I guess you'll know if he offers you a job.... (read in full...)
How can we make out when I'm scared to even kiss?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months, almost 6. We kiss, but we don't make out. I want to make out with him, but not with tongue. I don't know how I can do that if I'm scared to just kiss him. :/...
A. 23 May 2012: If you are scared then you aren't ready. Wait until you are no longer scared. What's the rush?... (read in full...)
What type of porn would he like?
Q. my partner and I both enjoy watching porn but we don't do it together, I know what I like but would like to know what most men would like to watch. Due to him being a tight arse and refusing to get a new phone where he could view and download ...
A. 23 May 2012: Come on lady. At your age you truly are asking a question like this? Really? Duh, why don't you ask him instead of us?... (read in full...)
How do I turn my FWB relationship into a real relationship?
Q. i have a fuck buddy who i have been shagging for a year, we started seeing each other few years ago then he said i dont want a relationship. we have mutual friends that do not know we are fb weve have known each other 9yrs and always ask our mutual ...
A. 22 May 2012: You aren't the first to sucker for this FWB crap and you won't be the last. Pick yourself up and dust yourself off. Those who don't learn from history are bound to repeat it. Get on with your life.... (read in full...)
She wont commit to leaving her husband for me, should I keep trying or leave her once and for all?
Q. Hello. For past six months I have been in affair with colleague from work. We are both married, none of us has kids but her husband is often away for couple of months. Things between us developed pretty fast and we soon realised that this is more ...
A. 22 May 2012: She'll let you meet her girlfriends but not the guys huh? She's afraid that once you are truly a couple you may actually want to know where and what she is doing? She sounds like she is a serial cheater and has a whole stable of you guys. I'm afraid ... (read in full...)
Should I pay my children's' father's debt?
Q. My grandma passed away in march, it still brings tears to my eyes just thinking about her. However she was 95 and was able to be in her own home which is better than other ways. I was surprised to get a summons as she left something for my children ...
A. 21 May 2012: Simply tell him that Grandma left the money to your kids. They and only they will use it. Be firm.... (read in full...)
Her mother has heard my wife is escorting, how should she discuss this her mother?
Q. my wife has been working as an escort since 2009 and is quite satisfied with what she does. it causes no problems in our marriage. we are financially stable now and invest 75 percent of everything she makes. she pays her taxes and even lists her ...
A. 16 May 2012: What's the difference between a escort who gets paid for sex and a prostitute? ... (read in full...)
Should I ask if he is still interested in dating me?
Q. Hey. So theres this guy that has a huge crush on me. Hes one of my best guyfriends. He asked me out a week or two ago and i declined because i didnt like him like that. Now that ive talked to him more and had one-on-one time with him, hes starting ...
A. 16 May 2012: Ask HIM out, that is if you are allowed to date at your age, which you wouldn't have been if you were my daughter. Dating started at age 16 in my house.... (read in full...)
Wondering if this is normal for a vagina?
Q. Hi, Well recently I am curious to know whats normal about vaginas. I've been checked for STD's and i'm all clear. But my vagina is redish colour and if I touch around the hole it can be quite tender. I find sex uncomfortable-but I put that down to ...
A. 16 May 2012: Go the medical professional you trust the most and put your at ease.... (read in full...)
Do you think by my family knowing we had affair it will help with the guilt I have?
Q. I had an affair with the father of the child I was a nanny for. After doing this for 18 month the guilt became to much and even though I love him I told him we had to end things because he was married. He left his wife and filed for divorce so we ...
A. 16 May 2012: Well just keep posting, over and over again, odds are sooner or later you'll get whatever response you are looking for.... (read in full...)
Should I contact this guy and say I'm interested in just casual sex?
Q. So there's this guy that I dated (we went out for a total of about 7 times). He stopped contacting me about a month and a half ago for some reason which I don't know why. I was really really attracted to him and since my last relationship of about ...
A. 15 May 2012: You are beating a dead horse, give it up.... (read in full...)
Why would my dad's girlfriend tell people that she is my mom when she knows that I don't even like her? I'm so mad at her!
Q. I just need some advice on how to approach something. Mothers day my family and my bosses parents came in to eat brunch(they were at different tables though) at the restaurant I work at. After dinner they ended up chatting and the conversation jus...
A. 15 May 2012: Next time she introduces herself as your mother, correct her. That should cause her enough embarrassment to never do it again.... (read in full...)
What are his intentions towards me?
Q. Hi, Something has been bodering me this while,I met a guy few months ago,he is so nice and unique,so different and special.we actually met online and we got chating.He posted his picture online,I made a wonderful comment and it really turn his head...
A. 15 May 2012: If he didn't ask for a relationship then he certainly has not fallen in love. It's doubtful that he's even gotten to the point of even having any intentions towards you. Do you do all the contacting or does he?... (read in full...)
How do I convince my mother to let me cut my hair short?
Q. I have long waist length beautiful healthy hair. But the trouble is that i dont like them at all. I want to get them cut short because i like hair better that way. My mother apparantly doesnot understand me and she does not even let me do the ...
A. 15 May 2012: Here in the US there are places that take donated hair to make wigs for cancer victims. If you have something like that in the UK, maybe that will help convince her being a worthy cause and all.... (read in full...)
I think my friend stole my money but she wants to be friends again, what should I do?
Q. Confused about my friend? I am so confused, my money went missing and I believe my friend stole my wallet which had over $1000 because she was the only 1 who knew i had it besides my family,she was the last person i was with and she was the only 1 w...
A. 15 May 2012: Friends come and go. Lose this one and make another one with someone you can actually trust.... (read in full...)
My married love won't leave her husband but doesn't want to let go of me either
Q. I am involved with a woman that is married and she says she is still madly in love with her husband but yet she says she has fallen in love with me. The chemistry between us started sometime around October 2011 in which she started saying things to ...
A. 15 May 2012: She is playing you like a fiddle Buddy. There is and never will be a future with her. Straighten things out in your own life and stay out of other people's marriages.... (read in full...)
My partner left his wife to be with me so I got what I wanted in the end, but I cant stop feeling horrible about what we did....
Q. I worked as a nanny for a family with a infant son for the past 2 1/2 years. "Lisa" the mom was a workaholic who loved her social life when she wasnt working, "Rick" the father was very good looking and he knew it and would playfully flirt with ...
A. 15 May 2012: Just remember my name and keep yours the same. While his adultery (and yours) may be a one time thing, history tends to repeat itself.... (read in full...)
Why wont my best mate move on from his manipulative, lying ex? Is it because he has sex with these girls so quickly that he gets so attached?
Q. My best mate 'K' is 17 -- hes had quite a lot of girlfriends (longest lasting 2 months), had sex with 3 and been sexual since probably around 13 (when he lost his virginity). I'm the kind of guy that wants a longterm relationship and i think K does ...
A. 14 May 2012: I'd like to give you some very hard earned advice, never stick your nose into a friend's love life, just don't go there...ever.... (read in full...)
Should I share this dark secret with my boyfriend?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about six months, and have a great relationship. However, I feel like a fraud... he tells me that everything about me is beautiful, and I feel ugly and empty inside. He thinks I'm beautiful and he loves me, ...
A. 14 May 2012: Everybody who's scared of Little Monster's avatar raise your hand.... (read in full...)
A man wearing pink skinny jeans?
Q. First reaction/ thought that comes to mind when you see a male wearing red/pink skinny jeans???...
A. 14 May 2012: I would think that he did his laundry in the typical male fashion...red tshirt in with his whites and all on the hot setting.... (read in full...)
Should I share this dark secret with my boyfriend?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about six months, and have a great relationship. However, I feel like a fraud... he tells me that everything about me is beautiful, and I feel ugly and empty inside. He thinks I'm beautiful and he loves me, ...
A. 14 May 2012: I think this calls for professional therapy. You are struggling with this and a therapist can help you. Once your self-esteem is back in shape you can decide whether you need him to know or not. I think you are just too vulnerable at this point to ... (read in full...)
My partner left his wife to be with me so I got what I wanted in the end, but I cant stop feeling horrible about what we did....
Q. I worked as a nanny for a family with a infant son for the past 2 1/2 years. "Lisa" the mom was a workaholic who loved her social life when she wasnt working, "Rick" the father was very good looking and he knew it and would playfully flirt with ...
A. 11 May 2012: Is the divorce in the works? Does the wife know about your screwing her husband for over a year under her own roof? Have you thought about how you are going to explain things to the son when he asks about the whole thing? You can try to put horrible ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend still sends his ex-wife a Mother's Day card and gift card!
Q. Good day all I need objective opinions please! BF still sends his ex wife a mothers day card and gift card despite divorcing him for a new man, who she resides with. She dumps their daughter on day care and her parents do its not like she is mom of ...
A. 10 May 2012: I think it's a classy thing to do.... (read in full...)
I'm trying so hard to like her, and get to know her so I can develop feelings.
Q. I met this girl who genuinely likes me, made the first move, and such... I'm trying so hard to like her, and get to know her so I can develop feelings. I believe relationships shouldn't be unrequited. I guess some things really drag me dow...
A. 10 May 2012: I wish Johnny Depp felt the same way you do about unrequited love.... (read in full...)
What makes a man want a FWB and not a relationship?
Q. Hi everyone just a quick question all the guys I meet only want a fwb, what makes a man want a fwb with you but not actually a proper relationship? thank you ...
A. 9 May 2012: It's a new fad term for a very ancient situation. Don't sucker for it.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is ready to lose his virginity to me, but I'm not ready! What am I supposed to do?
Q. I'm a virgin and a teenager. My boyfriend is also a virgin but he's ready to lose his virginity to me. But Im not ready. And he gets sexually frustrated. What Am I suppose to do?...
A. 9 May 2012: I'll just bet he's ready! Ask him if he's right-handed or left-handed, then tell him to use it.... (read in full...)
My friend wants to leave his controlling wife but now she is pregnant
Q. My best friend marriage is a disaster, he always loved another women but still married his current wife. She know about his feelings and was sure that he will get over it. But last year it was very hard so he was going to break up with her and get ...
A. 8 May 2012: Be very careful, you are walking a thin line when you get deeply involved in a friend's marriage. He has to work things out for himself so just be there for him and supportive but let him make this very personal decision alone or you could damage ... (read in full...)
Is the way I'm handling this good?
Q. Ok, well i have been seeing my girlfriend for a few weeks and she is a very pretty girl ( not quite sure how i managed that ) anyway, most weekends we go out with friends to a bar or club Friday night and Saturday we do our thing, just 2 of us, o...
A. 8 May 2012: She likes the way you are handling things and that is all that should matter. Relax and enjoy yourself.... (read in full...)
How do I tell my parents I can't stand their parenting style?
Q. I'm 25 yet my parents have always been overly strict, controlling and verbally abusive. I can't stand how they never want me to leave home even though I'm a grown adult. I've always done the right thing and been a A grade student. Yet I'm always ...
A. 8 May 2012: You live in a free country, move out and get your own place. At 25 it's high time.... (read in full...)
She wont commit to leaving her husband for me, should I keep trying or leave her once and for all?
Q. Hello. For past six months I have been in affair with colleague from work. We are both married, none of us has kids but her husband is often away for couple of months. Things between us developed pretty fast and we soon realised that this is more ...
A. 19 April 2012: I feel for you Buddy. It's so aggravating when your partner in adultery doesn't follow the script. Should be a crime really.... (read in full...)
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