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Too shy to ask my boyfriend to kiss me! Help!

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Question - (3 February 2012) 6 Answers - (Newest, 4 February 2012)
A female United States age 22-25, *ori in loveD writes:

Hi I'm 13 and i am shy around my bf and i really want him to kiss me any advice???

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A male reader, BobbyC Australia +, writes (4 February 2012):

I bet he wants to kiss you too.

When I was about 13, I wanted to kiss my first girlfriend for the first time. But I was not comfortable with making my move.

-what if she pushes me back?

-what if she slaps me?

-what if she tells her parents?

-what if I'm not a good kisser and she laughs at me?

-what if ....

Finally, it was her who made the first move, in a truth or dare game. I still remember that kiss.

Your bf has to feel comfortable and confident enough to go for the kiss.

If you want him to make the first move, make him feel comfortable with you. be playful and nice. and when he kissed you, kiss him back. look at his eyes and smile.

If you don't mind making the first move, things will be a lot easier. you can simply wait for the right moment, and then whisper in his ear "kiss me" or something like that. or you can play games like truth or dare. I leave the rest to your own imagination.

Good luck

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A female reader, ScaredForLove United States +, writes (4 February 2012):

You should just wait till it e's quiet and your alone and just lean forward and maye say kiss me or something. It tell one of his friends and I'm sure it'll get back to him... ;)

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (3 February 2012):

eyeswideopen agony auntI'd wait a couple years, you'll be much braver.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (3 February 2012):

person12345 agony auntWhy not just lean in really close like you're about to kiss him?

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A female reader, Tori in loveD United States +, writes (3 February 2012):

Tori in loveD is verified as being by the original poster of the question

he is 13 too he is shy about 3 months

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A female reader, Ima FreAk!  United Kingdom +, writes (3 February 2012):

Ima FreAk!  agony auntHiyaaa,

Firstly! Girls can kiss guys! It doesn't always have to be guy kissing girls!!!!!!!!!!

You can go on a date with your boyfriend like to the movies or anything you know just hang around and have fun, make sure you look into his eyes or tell him how you feel and get really cheesy and maybe he will plant a kiss.

If that doesn't happen then maybe you should try and kiss him! Like pull him close or cup your hands into his face and kiss him. :P

Secondly sometimes you should wait... till the time is right, a kiss can be really special! So either wait till or you go and dive in! It doesn't mean your desperate if girls kiss guys, its just that you love him that much!

Hope my advice helps!

Good luck!

Lots of love,

Ima FreAk!

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