Boyfriend makes comments when I speak to my family just because he has no contact with his!
Q. Dear Cupid, My boyfriend doesn't have any contact with any of his family. I'm not sure why, I have tried to talk about it but he avoids the subject. The trouble is he makes comments and remarks when I speak to mine and I'm getting sick of it. I have ...
A. 11 April 2012: "I have asked him why he does this and if he expects me to cut my family off." So what was his answer?... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 19, is it inappropriate for us to be together?
Q. Hi me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a month and a half, and it's going wonderfully, I think I am falling for him. The problem is, we get a lot of judgement due to our ages, he is 19 and I am 16. So he has got a job, and I am at ...
A. 11 April 2012: As long as your parents are cool about it, then just relax and have fun.... (read in full...)
Husband wants me to have sex with another man, but he doesn't want to watch, he just wants me to tell him about it. What is this called?
Q. Can someone please tell me... " my husband wants me to have sex with another man, he does not want to watch but he wants me to tell him about it" What is this called? ...
A. 10 April 2012: Good call Honeypie. It sure does sound like a setup to me also.... (read in full...)
Do guys give oral sex if they have no feelings for you?
Q. In a sex only relationship (booty call) do guys usually go down on girls if they don't have some sort of feelings for them?...
A. 9 April 2012: or maybe he figures he has to to get you to give him a blow job... (read in full...)
Staying safe in a taxi?
Q. Hello. I'm not sure if this question should be asked on this site, but I thought I'd try anyway. I am looking for tips/advice as to how to stay safe when travelling in a taxi. I am a 25 year old female and I use taxis a lot, as I have a physical ...
A. 9 April 2012: Years ago I got in a taxi in NYC and politely asked the driver if it was okay if I smoke and he matter a factly said "I don't care if you burn."... (read in full...)
My biological clock is ticking, and he just rolls his eyes!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. From the start he knew i wanted marriage and children some day. He also told me he wanted those things. Over time, this has gone to, wanting it, not wanting it, not sure, wanting it. He has also ...
A. 9 April 2012: After 4 years I too think you may be beating a dead horse. Wanting children was one of top reasons my husband of 36 years ended his 1st marriage. He wanted them, she decided she didn't, end of story. ... (read in full...)
My mom still treats me like I'm a 5 year old!
Q. I'm not really sure what to do and I need some help. I have no real relationship with anybody in my family due to the fact that when I was 12, I was basically abandoned by them. Yes, I still live with them and and had basic necessities, but I was ...
A. 5 April 2012: Until you move out you have no other option than to obey her rules. At 25 I think it's high time you were on your own. Cut down on your class load so you can get a part-time job and get your own place. Where's a will there's a way.... (read in full...)
I know I'm a lesbian but can't tell anyone, so how do I find a girlfriend?
Q. Hi. I'm 13. I haven't been asked out much but the relationships I did have didn't last long. I just don't feel attracted to guys. So now I know I'm lesbian. I know everyone says not to be embarrassed or don't pretend to be someone you're not but I ...
A. 5 April 2012: Relax and give yourself a few years before you jump into dating. At 13 NOBODY needs a girlfriend or boyfriend.... (read in full...)
I'm miserable in this relationship, but afraid to be without him. How do I find the courage to go it alone?
Q. Hi, ive never written to one of these before but right now i could do with some advice. I have been on and off with my boyfriend for a couple of years, main reason being he is too attached to his wife/ex wife. Long story short i just cant cope w...
A. 5 April 2012: Good luck, you'll be just fine.... (read in full...)
Minty tingles while giving head?
Q. dear cupid, soo, i've heard that if you chew gum while giving head or suck on a breath mint or something like that right before you do it, the mintiness will cause a kind of tingling sensation for the guy. what i want to know is, does it actually...
A. 5 April 2012: "dear cupid,
soo, i've heard that if you chew gum while giving head"
oh yeah who's the one not paying attention Mr. Anonymous????... (read in full...)
My mum has put doubts into my mind about my boyfriend, how do I know for sure this relationship is right for me?
Q. Hi everyone, I was totally head over heels with my boyfriend, who is an art technician, until I started having stupid doubts yesterday, when my mum tells me everyone finds him boring and stupid, now I'm trying to kind of analyse him, and I know ...
A. 4 April 2012: Sorry about the hiccup.... (read in full...)
Minty tingles while giving head?
Q. dear cupid, soo, i've heard that if you chew gum while giving head or suck on a breath mint or something like that right before you do it, the mintiness will cause a kind of tingling sensation for the guy. what i want to know is, does it actually...
A. 4 April 2012: Chewing gum while giving a BJ? I'm not a guy but that still made me double-cross my legs!... (read in full...)
I'm miserable in this relationship, but afraid to be without him. How do I find the courage to go it alone?
Q. Hi, ive never written to one of these before but right now i could do with some advice. I have been on and off with my boyfriend for a couple of years, main reason being he is too attached to his wife/ex wife. Long story short i just cant cope w...
A. 4 April 2012: Sorry I agree, I think he thinks of you as more of a convenience than anything else. What you need to do is take a deep breath and send him packing. Tell him to look you up after he gets his divorce but not until then. Then you find ways to stay ... (read in full...)
My mum has put doubts into my mind about my boyfriend, how do I know for sure this relationship is right for me?
Q. Hi everyone, I was totally head over heels with my boyfriend, who is an art technician, until I started having stupid doubts yesterday, when my mum tells me everyone finds him boring and stupid, now I'm trying to kind of analyse him, and I know ...
A. 4 April 2012: As long as you don't find him to be boring or stupid, then what's the problem? He isn't dating your mother now is he.... (read in full...)
My mum has put doubts into my mind about my boyfriend, how do I know for sure this relationship is right for me?
Q. Hi everyone, I was totally head over heels with my boyfriend, who is an art technician, until I started having stupid doubts yesterday, when my mum tells me everyone finds him boring and stupid, now I'm trying to kind of analyse him, and I know ...
A. 4 April 2012: As long as you don't find him to be boring or stupid, then what's the problem? He isn't dating your mother now is he.... (read in full...)
Finding 'the One'.....
Q. How can i find the 'right one'? Every time i speak to a guy, we meet up and text and speak over the phone and facebook, and then they just stop talking to me? this has happened a few times now and i'm tired of getting hurt. I just want to settle ...
A. 4 April 2012: Be patient, relax, try to have some fun. You are way to young to be sweating this, enjoy your single years.... (read in full...)
What is a reasonable frequency for spouse to go out drinking with friends?
Q. We r married with 3 kids. My wife has recently taken to going out with different groups of girls a lot - what I would consider to be too much. They always go to bars. She always comes home at 1 am or later drunk. I most ofen provide the babysitting ...
A. 4 April 2012: I'm with SVC, how does she get home, driving the family station wagon drunk or do the girls have a DD? That would be my main concern. When my kids were little I had few and far between nights out with the girls but I did do it as much as I was able, ... (read in full...)
Is it really cheating if you really love the guy even though he has a girlfriend?
Q. so i have a bit of a stupid question, if a man or woman are married and one of them sleeps with someone else over and over its an affair. but if its just a guy and girl dating, is it still called an affair? and is it really wrong to flirt and sleep ...
A. 4 April 2012: A rose by any other name smells as sweet. Same thing about cheaters only they stink.... (read in full...)
How do I stop my stupid crush on a much older marrried man?
Q. I have a huge crush on a much older married man. How do i stop feeling so stupid? I am 21 he is 45-50. Not sure. I have known this man for 6 months now, i see him a few times a week at work. He flirts with me all the time, compliments me, jokes al...
A. 4 April 2012: He may be just a natural flirt or he may be grooming you for an affair. If you distance yourself as much as you can, your crush will fade faster. Just don't do anything you will regret.... (read in full...)
Going out as friend when he's in a relationship?
Q. Okay, the last 4/5 weekends I've been hanging out with the guys and become quite friendly with one of them, he has a girlfriend. He has asked if I would like to go out for a meal with him and a couple of drinks. Its not a date but what I want ...
A. 2 April 2012: Does his girlfriend know? Ask him.... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to say to a child "I will break your legs"?
Q. Do you think its right that a mother would say to her own child "I will break your legs"?. My mom said this to my little brother who is nearly twenty but still lives at home. Apparently someone approached her and said he was with her daughter buying ...
A. 2 April 2012: Hummm does it reflect on my motherhood that when someone yells "Hey Dumb Ass!" my son looks up and says "What?" ... (read in full...)
After 5 years together my boyfriend suddenly says he doesn't like my body anymore
Q. A while ago my long term boyfriend told me he didn't like my body anymore. We got together at 16 and are now 21. Of course, when we met my body was still developing, and it's silly to think it wouldn't change over time. I'm still the same clothin...
A. 2 April 2012: There is a myriad of books and websites dedicated to self-esteem building. Start doing the research. As far as your boyfriend goes, well, you'll figure that out once you get yourself squared away. But just know this, he ain't quite right in the ... (read in full...)
A harmless crush? Or am I right to be upset by my wife's behaviour?
Q. OK. My spouse basically admitted that she has/or had a crush on one of our male friends. She says that I should be fine with it because she would never cheat on me. I told her that I find her affection for the guy, the way she looks at him, hangs ...
A. 2 April 2012: YOU don't need to get over this SHE does. I'd tell her to knock this nonsense off immediately.... (read in full...)
Seeing married man on the fly, does he have feelings for me?
Q. I have really good friend who is married , he's been with this girl 10 years , they split up befour annd we were secretly seeing each other for a few weeks . Over the past few weeks we have been kissing at the weekends when we have a drink in us but ...
A. 2 April 2012: Cut out the sex and see just how deep his feelings for you are.... (read in full...)
My husband can't keep hard. Is he cheating?
Q. my husband for the past 2 days hasnt been able to get his penis up, but sitting on the couch yesterday looking at me, rubbing up behind while cooking , and in tje shower he did get it up.... but when time to preform his penis wouldnt do ANYTHING, so ...
A. 29 March 2012: Make a doctor's appointment, he might need a little help from modern chemistry, he's getting older.... (read in full...)
Why did my married collegue keep taking off his wedding ring at lunch?
Q. Hi ! I just had a business lunch with a male colleague. During the entire time, he kept taking his wedding band on and off and twisting it too. It was not very subtle and a little distracting. What does this mean?...
A. 29 March 2012: Are you looking for a particular answer?... (read in full...)
Can you be in labor if your water doesn't break?
Q. MOD NOTE: We are not doctors, please go to the hospital, yes you can be in labor! can you be in labor even if your water doesnt break?? having serious contractions and not sure whether or not to go to the hospital....
A. 29 March 2012: My water didn't break for any of my 3 kids, get to the hospital.... (read in full...)
I'm considering confronting this bully from my former workplace
Q. I encountered this irritating co worker at workplace 2 yrs back . We had mutual friends though whom i got introduced to him. He appeared real friendly at first. Later he and i were made to work in the same assignment with another senior member (a...
A. 29 March 2012: I suggest you put the matter behind you and make better friends. It would be a waste of time anyway, a guy like that wouldn't benefit from your criticism. ... (read in full...)
This man that works at the school is always staring and me and its weird!
Q. So there's guy at my school (he works at the school) and I'm a female student in high school. For some reason during lunch he stares at me. When he is outside supervising kids, he stares at me. Outside in the pick-up and bus areas he stares at me. ...
A. 29 March 2012: Go to a school counselor and tell him/her what you just told us. They will fix this quick fast and in a hurry. That is unless you aren't being totally factual with us, and maybe are embellishing a little bit.... (read in full...)
She's the one who is getting him to cheat on me!
Q. the guy that i've had a crush on finally asked me out, we've been dating for almost a week. and i think he's cheating on me. he's been texting my friend ******** and she's always getting him horny. at first, she said she was happy for us both ...
A. 29 March 2012: Teenage drama, that's all this is, teenage drama.... (read in full...)
Love at first sight, scared of being rejected
Q. Hello, I am a 30 year old single woman and I have completely fallen for one of my child`s teachers. I have remained single for so long - not just waiting for the right man for me AND my 2 children (lost their father many years ago when they were j...
A. 28 March 2012: Take a deep breath and ask him if he would like to go get some coffee with you sometime. Nothing ventured nothing gained plus you won't have to wonder anymore.... (read in full...)
She's the one who is getting him to cheat on me!
Q. the guy that i've had a crush on finally asked me out, we've been dating for almost a week. and i think he's cheating on me. he's been texting my friend ******** and she's always getting him horny. at first, she said she was happy for us both ...
A. 28 March 2012: Because she's 13 - 15 years old.... (read in full...)
Mixed signals from best guy friend. Please help!
Q. We've been best friends for 4 years. now he's 17 and I'm 20) Our jokes have now become way more sexual this year and kinda serious this past weekend. Even our texts are bad, almost like sexting! We were talking about sex and I said "You wouldn't ...
A. 27 March 2012: He has a girlfriend? You sure you want a stroll down Cheaters Lane?... (read in full...)
Forgiving a friend?
Q. Hey Aunts and Uncles Do you think friends should be forgiven anything or is there a line you draw? one of my friends needed nursing (cancer) which I did whenever I had spare time I also cooked cleaned shopped did injections and slept over if...
A. 27 March 2012: Are you better off with her being your friend or are you better off without? Nobody needs to put up with a friend who brings them down. Only you can decide this.... (read in full...)
How can I make my parents and grandpa see that I need to have my phone?
Q. My parents just took my cell phone. Its spring break! I cant talk to any of my firends. Im going to my grandpas house tomorrow. He says I dont spend enough time with him when im there. None of my friends live near by, he dosnt have internet, and no ...
A. 27 March 2012: Ha ha I love this post. OP you need oxygen. You need food. You need water. You do NOT need your cell phone. Your parents took it away for a reason, whatver that was, I recommend you don't do it again. Enjoy the time with your grandpa while you have ... (read in full...)
My LDR met an old friend and now it's bothering me
Q. I am in a long distance relationship ,about 3 hours away . Last week my boyfriend told me he met an old female friend at the gym ,he told her she looked well and she looked nice . She knew he had a girlfriend and asked him for his mobile number ,my ...
A. 27 March 2012: I never can remember my own cell phone number...... (read in full...)
How to deal with lies at school?
Q. I know this isn't the usual type of question for this site, but I pray you will help me anyway. there's this guy at school, who is spreading vicious lies about me [he's telling everyone I told him i'd be happy if he killed himself] when I ...
A. 27 March 2012: If anyone asks you tell them you never said it, but don't you bring it up anymore or pursue the matter any further. Rumors and stories like this have very short shelf lives, and will fade to dust soon enough.... (read in full...)
Why do girls find me intimidating?
Q. Hi everyone I'm posting this question because these girls comments have been bothering me quite a bit.I was on this random forum and I get a lot of comments people saying that im very pretty which is hard to believe to be honest.Anyone one of the ...
A. 27 March 2012: Next time you walk into a party, just ignore the male attention and go sit and talk with your friends. ... (read in full...)
Is there anything that can make up for a sub-optimal sized penis?
Q. If you are a woman who can have vaginal orgasms during penetrative sex (not g-spot orgasms), can you please tell me whether there is anything at all about a man that can make up for a sub-optimal sized penis during penetrative sex? E.g. for an av...
A. 27 March 2012: Oh this is just great you guys, now we are going to be gettin sub-optimal clitoris questions...... (read in full...)
Met an aspiring actress, got on so well with her but found out she plans to sleep her way to the top!
Q. Right so last week met this girl a stunner at a local pub. we got on right away and i started seeing her. everything was going just fine until we started off talking about careers and she revealed that her plan is to sleep her way into roles! I was ...
A. 26 March 2012: Well I, for one, think sleep is VERY important to any career. Being rested certainly can affect your job performance and...what?...Oh...nevermind... (read in full...)
Is there anything that can make up for a sub-optimal sized penis?
Q. If you are a woman who can have vaginal orgasms during penetrative sex (not g-spot orgasms), can you please tell me whether there is anything at all about a man that can make up for a sub-optimal sized penis during penetrative sex? E.g. for an av...
A. 26 March 2012: Does this count as my daily penis size question? I wasn't on DC yesterday........ (read in full...)
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