I'm overweight and meeting my LDR boyfriend for the first time, how do I prepare myself for rejection?
Q. I've been in an LDR for about 6 months and next month, he's coming to my country to meet me. I'm very fat and from the very beginning, I made sure he knew that. I mentioned it and even sent him full-length photographs so that he knew exactly how I ...
A. 26 November 2012: Yea! I just love happy endings!... (read in full...)
She wont commit to leaving her husband for me, should I keep trying or leave her once and for all?
Q. Hello. For past six months I have been in affair with colleague from work. We are both married, none of us has kids but her husband is often away for couple of months. Things between us developed pretty fast and we soon realised that this is more ...
A. 22 May 2012: She'll let you meet her girlfriends but not the guys huh? She's afraid that once you are truly a couple you may actually want to know where and what she is doing? She sounds like she is a serial cheater and has a whole stable of you guys. I'm afraid ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my parents I can't stand their parenting style?
Q. I'm 25 yet my parents have always been overly strict, controlling and verbally abusive. I can't stand how they never want me to leave home even though I'm a grown adult. I've always done the right thing and been a A grade student. Yet I'm always ...
A. 8 May 2012: You live in a free country, move out and get your own place. At 25 it's high time.... (read in full...)
Why call me?
Q. My ex whom I'm still in love with decieved lied cheated on me our whole relationship during our relationship ever other week he was at the hotel with one or the same woman we were living together I broke up wit him 9 months ago I was the fool cause ...
A. 8 May 2012: He called you because he knows you still love him. He will use you as long as you can be useful, then he'll dump you again. Best to ignore him or you'll be hurting for a long time to come. Get busy with your life.... (read in full...)
Things were going great with my MM until he separated?
Q. Have been having a relationship with my married boss for the past 4 years. It's a long story how it came about, but short version is it wasn't planned. We just got along well and he persued me first then we slept together and it went on from ...
A. 7 May 2012: What? You think he owes you something? You were his bit on the side and now he has a major life changing situation on his hands. You are small potatoes. Wait if you want, confront if you want, it won't make any difference. Now if I were you I'd make ... (read in full...)
No sex drive since the baby arrived -- should I tell him to get his needs met elsewhere?
Q. Ok so I had a little baby girl about 9 months ago. And since then Ive had about zero sex drive. I get horny occasionally but im just not in the mood. This has put a serious strain on my relationship with my fiance. I know he has liked our mutual ...
A. 7 May 2012: Did you enjoy sex before you had the baby? Was your sex drive strong before you gave birth? If yes to both then it's time to schedule an appointment with your gyno, perhaps medication will help. As far as giving him permission to have sex with ... (read in full...)
Smother-in-laws
Q. What do I do about a mother in law who is driving me crazy? She is very bossy and demanding. I cannot see her or even just talk to her w/o hearing a new baby demand or request... Here is a list: She tried to invite herself to my out of ...
A. 4 May 2012: Thanks for the update. With some people it's always feast or famine but think in your case it's mostly has turned out for the best. Give the little guy a kiss for me. I'm the grandmother of 9 soon to be 10.... (read in full...)
I've liked him for 5 years, we live in different states and now he has a g/f. Give up?
Q. Ok, i fell in love with this guy 5 years ago and i still feel the same for him. But i moved to another state 5 years ago. We have been sending cute emails to each other over facebook, but now he has a girlfreind. But i dont feel bad for that i ...
A. 3 May 2012: You "fell in love" at the ripe old age of 8-10 years old? Most certainly move on.... (read in full...)
Will I have to by our house alone?
Q. Hi every one. I'm dating a guy that I love so much my problem is that my in laws don't love me reason being which is I don't know of. He earns less than me and we about to buy a house and I'm scared if I'm going to be the one who is going to pay ...
A. 2 May 2012: I'd be worried too if I were you. Don't buy it unless you can afford on your own.... (read in full...)
How can people not think of pornography as cheating?
Q. I have something bothering me i've read and discussed this and people say that a boyfriend using porn is no different than him imagining someone in his head but I strongly disagree. Masturbating to porn is alot worse it is an actual picture but ...
A. 2 May 2012: OP you are looking at a very rough road ahead. Best of luck.... (read in full...)
Why does this happen and what does it mean?
Q. sometimes or very often i use to tighten my thighs strongly and feel contraction and relaxation at my vagina i feel relax after that i do not know why it happens and what it mean???can you guide me...remember i am 18 years old.thankyou...
A. 1 May 2012: Kegeling?... (read in full...)
I cant trust my bestfriend anymore, should I end our friendship?
Q. My bestfriend and I have been friends for about 7 years now.. I love her very much and I know that she loves me, but for the past year its been seeming like everything has become a competition with her. It drives me crazy because I feel like I can't ...
A. 30 April 2012: Friends come and go in everyone's life. Sure some people can stay best buddies for a lifetime, but most can't or just don't. As we grow and change so will our friends. You can't pick your family but you sure as heck can pick who you hang around ... (read in full...)
Should I stay with my boyfriend of 6 years even though the spark has gone? Or leave him for the schizophrenic, compulsive liar who I've only ever flirted with over the phone?
Q. I am falling for 2 men, I can't seen to choose who to stay with! one i have been with for 6 years we are both the same age 6 days apart even lol i loved but i have started losing my spark with him. he used to be romantic now he's not hasn't been for ...
A. 30 April 2012: I'd go with the schizophrenic. It would be like dating a variety of people.... (read in full...)
Do priorities come into play when there's a large age gap?
Q. I'm wondering if age in dating makes a big difference. Recently I met this guy and hes a bit older than me. I just turned 21 and hes 34. We hit it off pretty well and we have the same views on a lot of things. I'm just wondering if it'd be a problem ...
A. 27 April 2012: I just turned 60 last month and I'm hail and laurel, sharp as a tic and just right as snow.... (read in full...)
Am I normal? I don't look like other women!
Q. hi there, i dont men to be crude or nasty but i have some questions the average human growth and development book wont answer. i been around various women while we change in the locker and i see them naked. i notice that 99% have a vagina that hides ...
A. 27 April 2012: Tish blew the margin...Tish blew the margin...Tish blew the margin... (read in full...)
Why hasn't he asked me to be his girlfriend yet?
Q. i have been dating a great guy for 2 months now and we agreed to only see each other, but he has never asked me to be his girlfriend. could this be because he thinks it is still too soon? or maybe he isnt over his ex, who he broke up with at ...
A. 26 April 2012: If you are only dating each other you sound like you are his girlfriend already. How does he introduce you to people?... (read in full...)
My ex husband kept coming around my house but now claims he hates my guts! What is going on?
Q. My exhusband has been coming around the house, I do let him with hopes things were maybe going to work out.. but I noticed he never asked me out for coffee or anywhere....I am not ugly..I dont want to sound conceited but I dont have trouble getting ...
A. 26 April 2012: It doesn't matter one bit whether he wants the divorce or not, you need to get it so you can move on with your life. I recommend you see a lawyer ASAP. You are just wasting precious time as far as I can tell.... (read in full...)
I want to get custody of my drug addict aunt's children but I don't want to hurt the children in the process, any advice?
Q. Hey aunts and uncles I have been using this site for a while and always have great advice but I have a tough one here but I hope you can help. Long story short my aunts having another baby. She is a heroin addict and has two kids one is 6 and ...
A. 25 April 2012: Are you her next of kin? Is there a father in the picture at all? Your age is going to be a big problem. Absolutely talk to a lawyer, that's going to be the only way you can know whether you have a chance. This is going to be very expensive. ... (read in full...)
How important is sexual compatibility in relationships?
Q. How can someone gauge sexual compatibility with someone else? Is communication and experimentation in the bedroom the best way to introduce particular likes and dislikes of each partner? A particular question for female answerers: if a guy told yo...
A. 25 April 2012: HOW early in the relationship?... (read in full...)
I think she likes me and I want to have sex with her, how do I ask her?
Q. Hi I have a problem. There is this girl I know and I have wanted to have sex with her for years but i have always been too afraid to ask. I have heard rumors that she likes me and that she has spoken to friends about having sex with me. I am a ...
A. 25 April 2012: I think you had better get prepared for rejection. If I guy approaches a girl and says "Hey I like you, would you have sex with me?", dimes to donuts he's gonna get shot down.... (read in full...)
How do I flirt a little with this uber attractive customer?
Q. I work at a Chickfila and occasionally there are attractive men that come through the drive thru. I have worked the drive thru every morning for 3 months and I had never seen this guy before. Now he has been coming through and he's just uber ...
A. 24 April 2012: Just be careful, okay? Ted Bundy was uber attractive.... (read in full...)
She wont commit to leaving her husband for me, should I keep trying or leave her once and for all?
Q. Hello. For past six months I have been in affair with colleague from work. We are both married, none of us has kids but her husband is often away for couple of months. Things between us developed pretty fast and we soon realised that this is more ...
A. 19 April 2012: I feel for you Buddy. It's so aggravating when your partner in adultery doesn't follow the script. Should be a crime really.... (read in full...)
Can you love someone but miss someone else?
Q. Just like some thoughts on this,can a person be in love someone, yet be missing someone else?I find it hard to believe that you can but?????...
A. 18 April 2012: My point was that we need more info, you are too vague.... (read in full...)
I'm overweight and meeting my LDR boyfriend for the first time, how do I prepare myself for rejection?
Q. I've been in an LDR for about 6 months and next month, he's coming to my country to meet me. I'm very fat and from the very beginning, I made sure he knew that. I mentioned it and even sent him full-length photographs so that he knew exactly how I ...
A. 18 April 2012: I hope YOU aren't disappointed in HIM. Besides this is a "what do I have to lose" situation. Try to relax and enjoy the anticipation, sometimes that's the very best part.... (read in full...)
Can you love someone but miss someone else?
Q. Just like some thoughts on this,can a person be in love someone, yet be missing someone else?I find it hard to believe that you can but?????...
A. 18 April 2012: I love my husband but I miss my dearly departed mother.... (read in full...)
I'm overweight and meeting my LDR boyfriend for the first time, how do I prepare myself for rejection?
Q. I've been in an LDR for about 6 months and next month, he's coming to my country to meet me. I'm very fat and from the very beginning, I made sure he knew that. I mentioned it and even sent him full-length photographs so that he knew exactly how I ...
A. 18 April 2012: Please let us know how your meeting turns out.... (read in full...)
Is it safe to masturbate without an orgasm?
Q. I have recently got into masturbating on and off throughout the day without ejaculating, then only ejaculating once in a while. Sometimes when on webcam or IM with my girlfriend I masturbate for hours straight and I don't always decide to contin...
A. 17 April 2012: You don't wander around with your hands in your pockets playing pocket pool do you? Cause that would be creepy.... (read in full...)
One minute he likes me, the next he doesnt! I'm so confused!
Q. Ok so I relly like this guy but he said he liked me than he said he didn't!!!???? So I was at this party he was invited to so he asked me who I liked and I said it was personal nd he said fine I like you (which is cool cause I like actually love ...
A. 17 April 2012: I must be brighter than I thought because I was playing these games in third grade when I was 8, certainly not 18 or older........ (read in full...)
Pregnant and feeling very alone, to make things worse after I went to my first check-up alone I found flirty texts to another woman! Am I being extra clingy because I'm pregnant?
Q. My boyfriend has a lot of responsibilities. Parents etc. He works hard too. We found out I am pregnant but he doesn't seem to pay any attention to me anyway. When I asked him to spend more time with me after work, he recently questioned me if I ...
A. 17 April 2012: 1. Think long and hard about getting an abortion. It's a very serious matter.
2. This guy hasn't made you priority for a reason...you aren't one.... (read in full...)
My husband is getting more and more controlling of my appearance
Q. First, it was the clothing: dresses, skirts, tights, blouses. I'm not allowed jeans, trainers, flipflops, T-shirts, track suits. I'm barely allowed tasteful trousers. Then, it was telling me how much jewellery I can wear. Then, it was th...
A. 17 April 2012: When did this behavior of his start? Was he like this before the baby came? Have you always done everything he has requested? The title says "husband", what was he like when you married him?... (read in full...)
Should I say happy birthday to my ex?
Q. My ex boyfriend and I broke up about a month and a half ago. We had a long distance relationship and dated for about 2 months, but we've been friends for almost 2 years. The break up was weird and about a week ago we had a huge fight (I broke the no ...
A. 17 April 2012: It's just a birthday no big deal. I'd forget about it.... (read in full...)
Pregnant and feeling very alone, to make things worse after I went to my first check-up alone I found flirty texts to another woman! Am I being extra clingy because I'm pregnant?
Q. My boyfriend has a lot of responsibilities. Parents etc. He works hard too. We found out I am pregnant but he doesn't seem to pay any attention to me anyway. When I asked him to spend more time with me after work, he recently questioned me if I ...
A. 17 April 2012: I too would like to know whether he's happy about your pregnancy, was it planned?... (read in full...)
Why are married women bitter towards single beautiful women around their men?
Q. I don't like going to my friend's parties anymore. Seems like everyone is married and here comes me the single girl who is being hated on. I am pretty and I do look my best anytime I go out. I don't like the grin and the mean mugging I get from ...
A. 17 April 2012: Do you have any guy friends? You could ask one to go with you next time. I know the last place I would want to be is a party full of couples when I was the only single person there. You don't have to be in a relationship to just bring a date with ... (read in full...)
I'm overweight and meeting my LDR boyfriend for the first time, how do I prepare myself for rejection?
Q. I've been in an LDR for about 6 months and next month, he's coming to my country to meet me. I'm very fat and from the very beginning, I made sure he knew that. I mentioned it and even sent him full-length photographs so that he knew exactly how I ...
A. 16 April 2012: You need to take a deep breath. You've been totally upfront with him so you needn't worry about your weight since it obviously isn't stopping him from coming to meet you. You should relax like SVC says and try to enjoy the butterflies.... (read in full...)
I arranged to go away with husband but now he is hedging about me going!
Q. Several months ago my husband invited me to attend an out of town meeting with him, in another city for a week. He has invited me lots of times because it's like a mini-vacation. I enjoy the hotel gym, the pool, and go shopping while he's in ...
A. 13 April 2012: Definitely go with him. Insist upon it. Something's a foot and you should most certainly make your presence known.... (read in full...)
How can I get my best friends to realise they love each other?
Q. Dear readers, I have two very close male friends. Both are gay. One of them is my very best friend (let's call him E). The other is also a good friend (we can call him D). We have quite a close group. My best friend E has been single for quite...
A. 12 April 2012: You may end up minus two friends if you meddle in their love lives. Leave it be. A good friend knows when to mind their own beeswax.... (read in full...)
How can I permanently be with my lover?
Q. Ive been married for 22 years and got 3 kids (grown up now tho), ive been having an affair for the past 7 years with a man i love very very much, he is married and has 1 grown up daughter. We want to be together but we havent a clue what to do or ...
A. 11 April 2012: All of the assets you and your husband own......... (read in full...)
I want to get to know this guy, but technically we've never met....
Q. My friend knows this guy and I find him so attractive. I've never actually spoken to him just seen him once in the distance which I think has made me attracted to him. I really want to get to know him, but without being stalkerish and creepy. ...
A. 11 April 2012: Ask your friend to introduce you to him.... (read in full...)
How can I permanently be with my lover?
Q. Ive been married for 22 years and got 3 kids (grown up now tho), ive been having an affair for the past 7 years with a man i love very very much, he is married and has 1 grown up daughter. We want to be together but we havent a clue what to do or ...
A. 11 April 2012: All the assets you and your husband will be split evenly, that should generate some money for you. In the meantime perhaps you can borrow some money to rent a place.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend and I don't have much time together because he is always doing things for his mom
Q. I am in a relationship with a guy who lives with his elderly mum ,sometimes it feels like we don't have much time alone together ,she gets him doing jobs around the house .I see him every 3 weeks ,he did say we could go away together soon ,but now ...
A. 11 April 2012: Just how elderly is his mother?... (read in full...)
Will having only one testicle affect my sex life?
Q. t have one testicle . would it affect my sexual life. I am 23 years old and virgin guy....
A. 11 April 2012: My brother-in-law has one testicles and fathered two lovely children. He and my sister have been happily married since 1972.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend uses cocaine and is physically abusive. Can I help him in any way? Or just forget about him?
Q. I Have been dating my boyfriend for a year now. I know we love each other very much he never cheated. The only problem is he smokes cocaine now and then and he has a lot of friends which makes him very aggresive when he has done it. He even hit ...
A. 11 April 2012: I vote for just forgetting him. He sounds toxic and any relationship with a toxic person never goes anywhere but down.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend makes comments when I speak to my family just because he has no contact with his!
Q. Dear Cupid, My boyfriend doesn't have any contact with any of his family. I'm not sure why, I have tried to talk about it but he avoids the subject. The trouble is he makes comments and remarks when I speak to mine and I'm getting sick of it. I have ...
A. 11 April 2012: "I have asked him why he does this and if he expects me to cut my family off." So what was his answer?... (read in full...)
Smother-in-laws
Q. What do I do about a mother in law who is driving me crazy? She is very bossy and demanding. I cannot see her or even just talk to her w/o hearing a new baby demand or request... Here is a list: She tried to invite herself to my out of ...
A. 2 May 2011: With pushy women (ones you can't get away from, like MILs) you need to learn how to turn a deaf ear on their demands. In other words let all her future plans go in one ear and out the other. Just say "we'll see once the baby comes". Don't commit one ... (read in full...)
Smother-in-laws
Q. What do I do about a mother in law who is driving me crazy? She is very bossy and demanding. I cannot see her or even just talk to her w/o hearing a new baby demand or request... Here is a list: She tried to invite herself to my out of ...
A. 29 April 2011: You will be in control of your child. You will say when she babysits, you will decide where you spend which holiday. You will dress the baby as you see fit. You will decorate the baby's room the way you want. You will make it clear you are in ... (read in full...)
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