Is there anything that can make up for a sub-optimal sized penis?
Q. If you are a woman who can have vaginal orgasms during penetrative sex (not g-spot orgasms), can you please tell me whether there is anything at all about a man that can make up for a sub-optimal sized penis during penetrative sex? E.g. for an av...
A. 27 March 2012: Oh this is just great you guys, now we are going to be gettin sub-optimal clitoris questions...... (read in full...)
Is there anything that can make up for a sub-optimal sized penis?
Q. If you are a woman who can have vaginal orgasms during penetrative sex (not g-spot orgasms), can you please tell me whether there is anything at all about a man that can make up for a sub-optimal sized penis during penetrative sex? E.g. for an av...
A. 26 March 2012: Does this count as my daily penis size question? I wasn't on DC yesterday........ (read in full...)
I told her how I felt and she has not spoke to me since! What should I do?
Q. actually i don't know what to say or ask, i really need some help or advices maybe because this thing just make me really stressed. and here's my situation. i met this girl a year ago from facebook, I met her family year earlier from facebook...
A. 26 March 2012: I think she made herself very clear, she's not interested. Therefore you have no choice but to move on.... (read in full...)
Tattoos and Relationships
Q. Beware The L-I-N-K Of (L)ove and (INK) By Frank Kermit, Relationships While at a coffee shop a few weeks ago, I met a tattoo artist. He had his son’s name tattooed on his hand, and being the ever-inquisitive one, I asked him about his profession...
A. 26 March 2012: A butterfly at 18 can start to resemble a vulture at 50. Young people should definitely be schooled on Newton's Law before getting a tat.... (read in full...)
How many dates before I can ask her to be my girlfriend?
Q. hi everyone. i recently met a very lovely girl on an internet dating site, and at the weekend we are going on our 3rd date. i really like this girl and things seem to be going really well, which is odd as i normally dont ever get a 3rd date as im qu...
A. 22 March 2012: You won't lose her if she is interested in you and you won't be able to keep her if she's not. Relax and enjoy your budding relationship. Don't rush things.... (read in full...)
I am jealous that other men got her while she was partying, carefree and slim, and I only get the "in debt and less attractive" version of her
Q. Hi all, hoping you can help me out here. I've been dating a girl who I really love for almost 4 years now. I know she loves me too. Something causes me to be really upset and question my whole relationship. I should give a bit of background, she ...
A. 22 March 2012: Ha ha ha Buddy, your girlfriend's beer gut is the LEAST of your problems!... (read in full...)
I think the reason I stay is because everyone says it won't work out, and I want to prove them wrong. But is my happiness worth the risk?
Q. Alright, My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over nine months and I'm at my whits end with everything... The first couple months were great, but once we hit the five month mark, it's been all downhill. I love this kid so much, but I ...
A. 19 March 2012: Get out now. You gave it a 9 month try and you aren't happy. Cut bait and move on to the next pond. ... (read in full...)
Can you feel when something has happened to your soulmate, even if you don`t know them yet?
Q. This morning/night I woke up at like 3:30 am for no reason whatsoever and just instinctively knew that something had happened to, dare I say, my soulmate. I know this sounds crazy and everything, and no, I wasn`t drunk or high (I know there will be ...
A. 19 March 2012: Any thing is possible but not many things are probable.... (read in full...)
My wife wants the woman I cheated with to tell her about things before she can let it go!
Q. hi there i had an affair 11 years ago and my wife found out 14 months ago .The affair lasted 2 a half years and my wife was devastated i have tried every thing possible to win her back.we have been on holidays i buy her flowers all the time and ...
A. 19 March 2012: If the other woman won't step forward with her side of the affair then you have no choice but to wait and see what your wife decides to do. A two and half year affair is hardly a "fling" so be prepared for the worst Buddy. This may be one betrayal ... (read in full...)
Why couldn't I love the man who loves me?
Q. Dear Cupid I have divorced my husband 2 years back. I often used to wonder why i left my exhusband in the first place. He doesnt earn much other than that he is a good person at heart and he still loves me and wants me back. I know he is very ...
A. 16 March 2012: Because he wasn't the right guy for you, nice guy or not. Love can be one-sided sometimes. Now BOTH you and your ex-husband will be able to find the right person. Happy hunting!... (read in full...)
Does she want my penis or just want a friend for comfort?
Q. Long time no see. I'll get straight to it. Alright, so last year a friend from my past sprang up and started talking to me again. To clarify, I had spent some time with her boyfriend and she must have been curious or thought I was dead or somethin...
A. 16 March 2012: I guess time will tell, relax and see what develops.... (read in full...)
Is my ex in the honeymoon stage or is she in a rebound relationship?
Q. Hey long story short girlfriend of 8 years, first love amazing relationship. she started hanging out with a guy about 2 or 3 months before she broke up with me. she ended up leaving me for him. would u still consider this a rebound relationship? ...
A. 16 March 2012: I wouldn't consider it to be a rebound relationship since SHE broke up with YOU. And you are right, it really doesn't matter anyway.... (read in full...)
Should I not forgive my best friend and try to let her go?
Q. This is my first time posting on DearCupid, and I apologize beforehand if my post is too long! I don’t really know where to begin, so I guess I’ll just start anywhere. My old best friend and I were best friends for countless years....
A. 16 March 2012: Move on and let her go. Her loss.... (read in full...)
I'm flexible, can anyone suggest any sexual positions?
Q. I am in a LDR with a wonderful guy who I love imensely. We have been together for 7 months but he works abroad a lot for a month at a time. He is coming back home tomorrow and we are going to have a sex night. I'm a flexible girl (can do the ...
A. 16 March 2012: Are you any good with a trapeze?... (read in full...)
Mother-in-law!!!!!!!!!!! HELP! The woman is insane!!!!
Q. My boyfriends mother is causing problems in our relationship. We've been together 2 years, we are incredibly happy and never argue as we're so laid back, compatible and very much in love. However.... he has an incredibly controlling mother. ...
A. 16 March 2012: The only way to remove her "leverage" is for your boyfriend to leave her house ASAP. Not under her roof - not under her control. It's up to him to decide whether he wants to wait to buy a house or just get the hell out and rent for a few years. I ... (read in full...)
I want to have a relationship--but I find women utterly annoying!!
Q. ok here's my problem. i've never really had a successful relationship with a woman. the reason is...the ones I've dated or known closely have gotten to be the most annoying, superficial. dishonest, and gossipy individuals I've ever met. i am ...
A. 15 March 2012: Hey you guys! Look who dropped in on DC! It's Henry Higgins!... (read in full...)
Ladies, is a 4.25" penis big or small?
Q. Ladies, do you consider a 4.25 inch erect penis to be big or small? Do you have experience with this size? If so how did you like it? ...
A. 15 March 2012: A day without a penis size question is a day without sunshine, I always say, and say and say... (read in full...)
Cheated, broke up, and cannot move on
Q. Exactly a year ago I posted this: I was in a wonderful relationship for over a year and we were really deep in love with one another. Then one day I went for coffee with a guy I used to love and we slept together. I told my boyfriend right after th...
A. 14 March 2012: I feel for you but you do know that you aren't being totally fair to the new guy. Does he know how much you loved your former boyfriend? Does he know that you are still carrying that torch? Doesn't he deserve to be loved that much as well? Maybe you ... (read in full...)
How can I show this girl that everything would work if she would bring our dating out into the open?
Q. Until recently I was dating a girl in secret for 5 years. She didnt want anyone to know because there was a 12 year age gap, and she was convinced everyone would make her end it. She is 27 now. After 5 years I wanted it to be out in the open as w...
A. 14 March 2012: I really don't think she is all that interested in the relationship period. I'd move on if I were you, this whole situation sounds too problematic to survive anyway.... (read in full...)
Is it weird for a 16 year old to go out with a 20 year old?
Q. Hey im just wondering peoples opinions on this. Is it weird for a 20 year old to go out with a 16 year old?...
A. 14 March 2012: It wouldn't be something I'd would allow MY 16 year old daughter to do, best ask her parents first.... (read in full...)
Why cant my husband forgive me for lying about fiancial matters? I have been a devoted wife in every other way!
Q. I lied to my husband of 7 years about bills I was paying for my adult/college daugther (her car payment and cell phone)who is 1000 miles away from home,and credit cards I had that I paid for my husband found out and now it has turned into all out ...
A. 13 March 2012: A small lie, if it actually is a lie, condemns a man as much as a big and black falsehood. If a man will deliberately cheat to the amount of a single cent, give him opportunity and he would cheat to any amount.
E. H. CHAPIN, Living Words
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How do you turn down a guy in a respectable way?
Q. hello! im not the most attractive person out there, and im aware of this, so please no one take my question as a conceded one.. i get alot of guys approaching me, all of the time, and i dont do anything to initiate it, i dont think.. it seems like ...
A. 13 March 2012: In the 70's the hare krishna guys were everywhere, malls, airports, bus stations, I mean everywhere and they wouldn't take no for an answer, so I just told them I was either Jewish or Catholic (whatever was my mood at the momment) and they would ... (read in full...)
He has been bad mouthing me, should I confront him?
Q. Hi I am an older lady who was in a relationship for 5 years. I do not drink or have any addictions. But use to many many years ago. My problem was i got into a relationhip that was so far so good but I had a hard time trusting him,( 2 bad ...
A. 12 March 2012: I think you should act your age and quit acting like a junior high schooler. If you act like a class act, you'll be treated like a class act. This kind of gossip has a very short shelf life.... (read in full...)
Is this guy back together with his ex or are they still just good friends?
Q. I met a really nice guy a couple of weeks ago and I really like him. We met for a coffee a few times before he moved a 3 hour drive away for work and we haven't really been in contact since. He broke up with girlfriend just before Christma...
A. 12 March 2012: Don't call him, let him call you. But I don't think I'd waste anymore time dwelling on the subject, you only had coffee a few times.... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to be upset about the fact that my girlfriend still keeps photos of her boyfriend who died 12 years ago?
Q. I have been living with my girlfriend for three years. She kept photos up of her and her deceased boyfriend (posed together) who died 12 years ago. We had none of us. After we had been togehter 2 years, I mentioned that I felt that she was living in ...
A. 12 March 2012: You would end a relationship because of a dead guy's picture? Me thinks there is more to the story, at least I would hope so anyway.... (read in full...)
Does he want to be my FWB again?
Q. A guy friend text me last night but I didn't reply because we're both in relationships now and even though we're just friends we used to be sort of FWB and the last time we met up he kissed me. He text me at 10:30pm asking if I wanted to go for a ...
A. 12 March 2012: If you don't want to go down that road again, then don't. What's the problem?... (read in full...)
Why does my b/f want a threeseome with 2 girls but won't even consider 2 guys?
Q. hi so i need some good advise ive been with my bf 3 yrs now he watches porn which is not a problem i watch it with him but he likes to watch group sex and said it really turns him on then the other night he asked me if i would have a 3 some with him ...
A. 9 March 2012: Is he planning on screwing the other woman as well?... (read in full...)
How do I bring up to my wife that I know she's using her vibrator rather than having sex?
Q. I'm married with young kids and have been with my wife for 10 years. Over the last few years our sex life has become almost non existant which we put donw to the pressures of having young children. Recently I have discovered that my wife is using a ...
A. 9 March 2012: Sit down with her and tell her you guys need to get back to having sex on a regular basis. Tell her how much you miss those tender moments and the wonderful closeness that comes with intimacy. Have a nice long chat, she may surprise you. Perhaps ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong that I don't want my husband's nephew around anymore?
Q. my husbands nephew is down right disrespectful and disgusting and rude. he talks like a sailor, and spits chewing tabbaco and tells his friends he want to have sex w/ me. i hate it when he comes to our house to help my husband work, he not only is a ...
A. 9 March 2012: I think you are perfectly within your rights as a parent. Hold your ground on this one. Everyone should be very careful to pick their battles carefully but in my opinion this is a battle that derserves to be fought.... (read in full...)
Why does this guy I dated keep talking about my flaws but checks up on who I'm dating?
Q. I dated a super handsome and very rich guy 5 months ago and I am sure that I got bored with him and the fact that he always spoken TOO politely as if that we are business partner or something and that he said constantly that we weren't match. Last ...
A. 1 March 2012: Block whatever way he contacts you, change phone number, de-friend on facebook, etc....then if he still tries to contact you get the restraining order. And you boyfriend should do the same, BF sounds like a wussy by the way.... (read in full...)
I want to ask LDR b/f what is happening but I'm afraid he'll lie to me
Q. Hi! I'm in a Long Distance Relationship, and everything is going so well, it has been 6 months now that we're datin. We love each other so much, and we care about each other. We talk every single day just before we go to bed, because durin the day I ...
A. 1 March 2012: Just curious, have you two ever met face to face?... (read in full...)
Is it his brother talking, or does he really not want a relationship?
Q. Okay so extremely long story short. THE BACKGROUND: I started an intimate friendship with a guy in summer let's say his name is Alpha. We both started to talk about feelings and how we've both been hurt before. We started talking about a relat...
A. 1 March 2012: Leave him with his idiot brother and move on sweetie, he's not ready for a relationship. Don't waste those precious teenage years, they are gone so quickly.... (read in full...)
Are we official boyfriend and girlfriend? Or will it only be official when I get back?
Q. hello again! :) so me and my crush got together a week ago. we went out for a drink and then went to the movies. i think he did try to make a move but i was too scared and looked tense. i didn't even give him a kiss goodbye...just said: 'thanks!...
A. 1 March 2012: Guess you'll have to wait and see. Sounds promising though. Relax and enjoy.... (read in full...)
She has a boyfriend but I don't want to lose her
Q. I had fallen in love with a girl.i love her so much but when i proposed her i came to knw he had a bf whom she loved very much my heart got breaked after listening it bt frnds i dnt want to lose her.wat should i do plz help...
A. 29 February 2012: Is there a shortage of vowels in India?... (read in full...)
Is this wedding invite a sign that he wants something more?
Q. I have had a crush on this guy for sometime, and I have been invited to his family wedding. Its 4 months to go. It will be around 200 guests and very family orientated. We have been more than friends for a while, but not into a relationship enough ...
A. 29 February 2012: Who in his family is getting married? Are you going to the wedding with him or are you just another invited guest?... (read in full...)
Is there still a spark there with him???
Q. I have been in touch with my ex boyfriend, now married. It was a bad breakup and we started to finally talk and be friends again. Well one night I get two phone calls from his wife telling me not to talk to him or text him again. I didn't pick up. ...
A. 29 February 2012: Who cares why, leave him alone. Period... (read in full...)
Suddenly he wants Fridays to himself, leaving us with only Saturday! I don't like this!
Q. Okay so me and my bf have been together for about 1 and a 1/2 years, and for the longest time we have always spent time together on Friday and Saturday, but the following week my bf likes to host a poker game where a bunch of guys come over to play ...
A. 29 February 2012: Sorry I can't get past the "so drunk that he could not remember what happened and lost his clothes" part.... (read in full...)
I think I caught him out with his ex wife, but he wont explain what has been going on! I feel so used....
Q. Dear all, please help!! I have been seeing this guy for a year. it has been a rather rocky relastionship, and he had seperated from his wife sometime back - around three years ago. Anyway, I had a funny hunch that things were somehow still 'cosy' ...
A. 29 February 2012: Well at least you won't waste anymore time on the jerk. Chin up Sweetheart, you'll be just fine.... (read in full...)
I think I caught him out with his ex wife, but he wont explain what has been going on! I feel so used....
Q. Dear all, please help!! I have been seeing this guy for a year. it has been a rather rocky relastionship, and he had seperated from his wife sometime back - around three years ago. Anyway, I had a funny hunch that things were somehow still 'cosy' ...
A. 28 February 2012: Anybody who stays in a separation mode for 3 years instead divorcing is waving a red flag to any potential relationships. What was his reason for not getting a divorce when you asked him? When you started dating he was separated for 2 years, I sure ... (read in full...)
I've fallen in love with another man
Q. Did it turn out how you wanted Or were you left with regrets? Did you the love the person more than your spouse? What happened and how did things turn out? I fell inlove with another man and its not infatuation i belive I love him. My husband is a ...
A. 26 February 2012: Are you actually having an affair with your "lover" or are you just suffering from a crush on the guy?... (read in full...)
He declined my proposal with the answer 'I see this happening in the future'. How do I show him marriage would work without being pushy?
Q. Hi, I would appreciate your views on my dilemma. I recently proposed to my boyfriend with a poem I had written myself. We have been together for 18months although do not live together at the moment. We have discussed living together but it's ...
A. 24 February 2012: I think you need to consider your son first. I'd wait until he has flown the nest before I'd make the move. And maybe the boyfriend will be ready to start your future together at that time.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has suddenly gone crazy over my male friend being at the party with me and now he is ignoring me! What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2 and half years. And I love him more than words can say. He has the potential to be an amazing partner, friend, lover, etc. But, he has put me through a lot in a short amount of time. Everything from ...
A. 20 February 2012: Maybe you see his great potential but it sure eludes me. I think he sounds like he's around 13 to tell the truth. He hangs up and then ignores you? The only potential I see here is for a very tiresome life with this guy. Tell him to look you up if ... (read in full...)
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